This is the best advice you’ll ever hear on Reddit:
Don’t come to Reddit for advice, this guy doesn’t know you, your gf, or your situation in any depth, he’s completely talking out of his ass, if he’s correct it’s entirely by coincidence.
Well first of all you talk to your partner about it again. If things don't change, then you leave. Your kid is better off with two parents who don't live! together than a miserable mother and a cheating lying ass for a father who stay together 'for the child'.
It’s only been a year…..Marriage isn’t something to take lightly and I kind of understand his reluctance if you’re already wanting an engagement ring
It’s takes a minimum of 2 years to really get to know someone and you don’t want to rush things and find out you’ve made a mistake later on
I think you need to slow down a little and reassess this in a year, If that’s a deal breaker for you then so be it but just remember divorce is even more expensive
I don’t want to be mean but you keep repeating this and it’s ridiculous. You’re being purposely stupid.
This is the best advice you’ll ever hear on Reddit:
Don’t come to Reddit for advice, this guy doesn’t know you, your gf, or your situation in any depth, he’s completely talking out of his ass, if he’s correct it’s entirely by coincidence.
Well first of all you talk to your partner about it again. If things don't change, then you leave. Your kid is better off with two parents who don't live! together than a miserable mother and a cheating lying ass for a father who stay together 'for the child'.
I'm also clearly not with him anymore based off of “at the time” so why would I ask you about his behavior?
Toxic she is most likely talking about you and telling all your business.
Yeah we do, she never says it. Good point there
It’s only been a year…..Marriage isn’t something to take lightly and I kind of understand his reluctance if you’re already wanting an engagement ring
It’s takes a minimum of 2 years to really get to know someone and you don’t want to rush things and find out you’ve made a mistake later on
I think you need to slow down a little and reassess this in a year, If that’s a deal breaker for you then so be it but just remember divorce is even more expensive
He wants kids (May I add he wants them to have HIS family name). But doesn't care about marriage, but knows its a non-negotiable from me.