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like when girls give it as a gift on special occasions
Agreed, that's fucking warped. Have been on the receiving end of that, made me feel like a creep for wanting intimacy. To hell with that, it should be something both parties want to do for each other, while simultaneously satisfying desires that are pretty primal. As soon as it's transactional it's doomed.
Why did he not show up for Christmas dinner with her family? He could have messaged from his friend's phone if it was just a phone thing?
This is not about just texting, but changing plans, not letting her know and showing he cares so little about her.
Some people have never been in relationships and it shows. The bf nuked the relationship by agreeing to come to christmas dinner with her family and then ghosting her.
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He might not have meant what he said in the first place OR he's not being mindful to make the conscience effort needed for change (old habits die hard as the saying goes). Regardless, It sounds like he needs notification that he's not living up to his end of the bargain. The sooner he knows this the better.
What did you do? You started therapy 4 months in, but that doesnβt mean you should being horrible right away. When did you βget betterβ? Also, 1 day away is not enough. And it feels controlling since he should be the one dictating the terms. Given that you seem to have traumatised him, you should probably see each other 1 time a week.
Hey sweetie. Internet mom here. You left an abusive relationship and that makes you a hero. Listen to the story. It starts with love bombing and this goes on as long as you cater to his every need. Heβs the one who told you he was nice and that all of his exes would verify. The very first time that you had the audacity (in his eyes) to assert yourself, he got mad. It was your fault. You wanted him to contribute and he got mad. Why should he pay rent? This could be the first few chapters of how to spot an abuser. Love bombing. The second you started to really see him he was mad. It was your fault. He changed overnight. Classic abuser. You are not unlovable. You dodged a bullet. It happened because you saw him for who he is and that, that is a great thing. You may not have called it abuse but you knew something wasnβt right. I want you to see a therapist and talk about this. Please. That will ensure that your never pick a bad guy again. He was not a good man. You are lovable.
Iβve liked him since I met him really 5 years ago, and weβve had some awkward tension moments for sure. We worked together for years, so if you watched the office think of the Pam/Jim dynamic. Perhaps too much touching for coworkers ?. His ex once got very upset and said how he called me cute once to her. We make each other laugh constantly
Your forgetting itβs 2 months in a relationship, thatβs very early days.
Iβm not saying a year and 2 months is perfectly fine
I'm getting some mixed signals here… I think OPs gf also got mixed signals too… when does your lease expire… don't take that as an opportunity to talk about where you'll live after because it's too soon to talk about that sort of thing. Oh, you has a pregnancy scare, don't use that as an opportunity to talk about your timeline (which *she did even if you don't want to say that she talked about her timeline).
You: no, 2 months was far too early but they could have also discussed marriage and kids on the first date.
like when girls give it as a gift on special occasions
Agreed, that's fucking warped. Have been on the receiving end of that, made me feel like a creep for wanting intimacy. To hell with that, it should be something both parties want to do for each other, while simultaneously satisfying desires that are pretty primal. As soon as it's transactional it's doomed.
Why did he not show up for Christmas dinner with her family? He could have messaged from his friend's phone if it was just a phone thing?
This is not about just texting, but changing plans, not letting her know and showing he cares so little about her.
Some people have never been in relationships and it shows. The bf nuked the relationship by agreeing to come to christmas dinner with her family and then ghosting her.
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He might not have meant what he said in the first place OR he's not being mindful to make the conscience effort needed for change (old habits die hard as the saying goes). Regardless, It sounds like he needs notification that he's not living up to his end of the bargain. The sooner he knows this the better.
He's disgusting. Dump him and never look back. This won't be the last time he violates you if you don't.
What did you do? You started therapy 4 months in, but that doesnβt mean you should being horrible right away. When did you βget betterβ? Also, 1 day away is not enough. And it feels controlling since he should be the one dictating the terms. Given that you seem to have traumatised him, you should probably see each other 1 time a week.
Any chance gym is code for meeting up?
Hey sweetie. Internet mom here. You left an abusive relationship and that makes you a hero. Listen to the story. It starts with love bombing and this goes on as long as you cater to his every need. Heβs the one who told you he was nice and that all of his exes would verify. The very first time that you had the audacity (in his eyes) to assert yourself, he got mad. It was your fault. You wanted him to contribute and he got mad. Why should he pay rent? This could be the first few chapters of how to spot an abuser. Love bombing. The second you started to really see him he was mad. It was your fault. He changed overnight. Classic abuser. You are not unlovable. You dodged a bullet. It happened because you saw him for who he is and that, that is a great thing. You may not have called it abuse but you knew something wasnβt right. I want you to see a therapist and talk about this. Please. That will ensure that your never pick a bad guy again. He was not a good man. You are lovable.
Iβve liked him since I met him really 5 years ago, and weβve had some awkward tension moments for sure. We worked together for years, so if you watched the office think of the Pam/Jim dynamic. Perhaps too much touching for coworkers ?. His ex once got very upset and said how he called me cute once to her. We make each other laugh constantly
I guess your brother realized qucker than I that animals>>>>people.
Good for him.
Leave him alone and dont try and force your mindset on live! on to him.
Your forgetting itβs 2 months in a relationship, thatβs very early days.
Iβm not saying a year and 2 months is perfectly fine
I'm getting some mixed signals here… I think OPs gf also got mixed signals too… when does your lease expire… don't take that as an opportunity to talk about where you'll live after because it's too soon to talk about that sort of thing. Oh, you has a pregnancy scare, don't use that as an opportunity to talk about your timeline (which *she did even if you don't want to say that she talked about her timeline).
You: no, 2 months was far too early but they could have also discussed marriage and kids on the first date.
I'll just leave this convo at that.
Gotta cut ties π