You know what they call people who use the pullout method? Parents.
It’s not just your responsibility. And you two need to figure out exactly what your plans for kids. Because this is all a recipe for disaster right now.
I mean, it seems pretty clear the relationship has run its course. Attraction (physical, sexual, etc) can only go so far, and can only allow us to overlook incompatibilities for so long. Eventually you need to make a deeper connection with someone if a relationship is going to last, and intellectual compatibility can be a big factor in that. If you feel continually frustrated and annoyed by your boyfriend, it's time to move on. It's not like he's going to suddenly get smarter.
Let me give more details (to avoid justifying it in my head) he was mentally in a bad place and asked her to give him space for a month and when he came back to talk to her she accidentally mentioned going out with some guy and then she had a scared look om her fave after she slipped up and that was enough for him to think she cheated after a while he tried to talk about it but she said he ruined her mental health and refused to talk about it at all.
I suspect she’d simply remind me I haven’t been through childbirth.
You know what they call people who use the pullout method? Parents.
It’s not just your responsibility. And you two need to figure out exactly what your plans for kids. Because this is all a recipe for disaster right now.
I mean, it seems pretty clear the relationship has run its course. Attraction (physical, sexual, etc) can only go so far, and can only allow us to overlook incompatibilities for so long. Eventually you need to make a deeper connection with someone if a relationship is going to last, and intellectual compatibility can be a big factor in that. If you feel continually frustrated and annoyed by your boyfriend, it's time to move on. It's not like he's going to suddenly get smarter.
I DONT know why but I can’t see these comments ?.
I gave the advice to tell the person sarcastically. But why would you actually tell the person?
Let me give more details (to avoid justifying it in my head) he was mentally in a bad place and asked her to give him space for a month and when he came back to talk to her she accidentally mentioned going out with some guy and then she had a scared look om her fave after she slipped up and that was enough for him to think she cheated after a while he tried to talk about it but she said he ruined her mental health and refused to talk about it at all.