“Closure” isn’t even appropriate here. What closure? OP is supposedly not angry at her ex anymore and is happy in her relationship. She’s lying to herself and us. When she describes her ex as the love of her life and NOT her husband….that’s says everything we need to know. She doesn’t want closure. She wants to connect.
You should never feel guilty for leaving abuse. Tell her it is over and stop talking to her. Be with friends or family if you feel unsafe
“Closure” isn’t even appropriate here. What closure? OP is supposedly not angry at her ex anymore and is happy in her relationship. She’s lying to herself and us. When she describes her ex as the love of her life and NOT her husband….that’s says everything we need to know. She doesn’t want closure. She wants to connect.