But has she always stopped him or recently since she can’t handle being patient anymore. If she really has been shutting him down the whole time, the relationship would have ended a while ago.
Now he wants advice because she’s fed up. He’s only telling one side of this. There’s no way she’s been a bitch about this for 4 years lol
Sometimes the answer isn't what you thought you were looking for. You are asking advice on how to convince him of something that isn't going to change, just like you needing to go out so often isn't going to change. You need to understand and accept that about him and stop expecting him to change who he is. Adapt to what actually is instead of trying to get him to adapt to what you want.
You’re wrong. A child who lives with you but isn’t related is not going to tell you she’s uncomfortable that’s just complete bullshit. You’ve got your head so far up your own ass you believe anything that comes out of it.
Give her some space mama she will come back. This is a lot to process. Just make sure she knows you love her and you’re waiting for her. She will come around. Good luck and lots of love your way!
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But has she always stopped him or recently since she can’t handle being patient anymore. If she really has been shutting him down the whole time, the relationship would have ended a while ago.
Now he wants advice because she’s fed up. He’s only telling one side of this. There’s no way she’s been a bitch about this for 4 years lol
I suppose you're right but I'm in a place where I have snowpants anyway and you can use really cheap and old equipment for it unlike downhill skiing
But yeah you definitely need to do something other than simply bringing yourself
Although effort wise it's not terrible
You deserve better
She really doesn't. But her kids do.
Sometimes the answer isn't what you thought you were looking for. You are asking advice on how to convince him of something that isn't going to change, just like you needing to go out so often isn't going to change. You need to understand and accept that about him and stop expecting him to change who he is. Adapt to what actually is instead of trying to get him to adapt to what you want.
You’re wrong. A child who lives with you but isn’t related is not going to tell you she’s uncomfortable that’s just complete bullshit. You’ve got your head so far up your own ass you believe anything that comes out of it.
I’m really sorry about your brother 🙁 you sound like an awesome person and he sounded dope too
Give her some space mama she will come back. This is a lot to process. Just make sure she knows you love her and you’re waiting for her. She will come around. Good luck and lots of love your way!
Don’t feel bad, they think we’re going to be tortured eternally for it. Their sadness really isn’t about you, it’s about you not validating them.
I know, that's why I said it's stupid and shallow. I just really do not want to feel like someone is settling for less for me.