He lied about hooking up with someone. Whether it was cheating or not, you've got yourself a liar. As naked as it is, that's a final straw for me. I would leave, I think you should too.
I think I would look at it that, at the time, you were the eldest daughter and therefore, your grandmother's eldest grand daughter for your entire existence. You grew up knowing the ring would be yours. Your grandmother grew old, knowing the ring would be yours. That creates a memory and tie and bond to the ring. If your older sister was not a sister who grew up with you, but a sister who was “discovered” as a sibling, years later, would it have changed that promise or bond? In my family, it would not have. It was promised to you as the person you were born into the family as. So no, I wouldn't be handing it over.
lol ‘Angel’ is not a professional athlete thing to call your female client. He’s a terrible liar, and the hand trembling already gave it away. I wonder if he ever mentioned he had a gf in front of his client?
His behavior describes OCD to a T. The fact that he isn’t giving in to his compulsions right now is likely because he’s terrified of losing OP. It’s likely temporary. But it’s not like people with OCD are physically forced to do their compulsions. He probably is extremely stressed underneath the surface
He tries his best to pleasure me, but it never really is that great, and I personally do enjoy & need penetrative sex in a relationship to be happy. He has had similar experiences in the past with other women, so I know it's not personal. I feel terrible because I know a lot of this is out of his control, and he himself wishes things could be better, but I just feel like I'm in an unfair position.
So, that actually is his fault, and is totally in his control. He has hands and a mouth that work just fine, so the fact that he doesnt make an effort to learn how to use them better is 100% on him. Unless you arent communicating with him, then its on you.
And about his problems, has he actually done anything about it? Has he seen a doctor? A therapis? Had hormone levels checked? Tried popping a pill if nothing else works? Because if he hasnt, then it IS his fault.
Of course it was, and you already know this. Leave now, before you get hurt.
How many times to you plan to post this? Even with the ones you’ve deleted you still have like 4 of the same thing up. Just grow up already.
He lied about hooking up with someone. Whether it was cheating or not, you've got yourself a liar. As naked as it is, that's a final straw for me. I would leave, I think you should too.
I think I would look at it that, at the time, you were the eldest daughter and therefore, your grandmother's eldest grand daughter for your entire existence. You grew up knowing the ring would be yours. Your grandmother grew old, knowing the ring would be yours. That creates a memory and tie and bond to the ring. If your older sister was not a sister who grew up with you, but a sister who was “discovered” as a sibling, years later, would it have changed that promise or bond? In my family, it would not have. It was promised to you as the person you were born into the family as. So no, I wouldn't be handing it over.
You do not handle assholes, you replace them with somebody who has more humanity.
lol ‘Angel’ is not a professional athlete thing to call your female client. He’s a terrible liar, and the hand trembling already gave it away. I wonder if he ever mentioned he had a gf in front of his client?
His behavior describes OCD to a T. The fact that he isn’t giving in to his compulsions right now is likely because he’s terrified of losing OP. It’s likely temporary. But it’s not like people with OCD are physically forced to do their compulsions. He probably is extremely stressed underneath the surface
Stay clear of him. You need to get over him. It is okay not to be friends.
He tries his best to pleasure me, but it never really is that great, and I personally do enjoy & need penetrative sex in a relationship to be happy. He has had similar experiences in the past with other women, so I know it's not personal. I feel terrible because I know a lot of this is out of his control, and he himself wishes things could be better, but I just feel like I'm in an unfair position.
So, that actually is his fault, and is totally in his control. He has hands and a mouth that work just fine, so the fact that he doesnt make an effort to learn how to use them better is 100% on him. Unless you arent communicating with him, then its on you.
And about his problems, has he actually done anything about it? Has he seen a doctor? A therapis? Had hormone levels checked? Tried popping a pill if nothing else works? Because if he hasnt, then it IS his fault.