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That’s the way I would prefer it as well
Im still hurt, he said he didnt flirt or anything but yeah, I feel a type of way
What should I do?
You keep asking so many questions that no one has the answer for. Either leave her like you should, or don’t. It seems like youre grasping at straws for reasons to stay with her.
It was one date. And sometimes you don’t know right away after one date. Geez.
Honey. Men will say whatever they need to in order to keep you around, keep you happy, keep you putting out without actually committing to you.
“Oh but this one is different!” He’s not. He’s going to string you along until you realize your self worth. The relationship can be great without you being wife material.
This cant be a real post, surely no one this dumb exists
There's a few ways of looking at this, but I think it's important off the bat that it doesn't seem like they're actually “forbidding” you from going as much as just guilting you, but you'll have to confirm.
Regardless, on one end, I wouldn't say they're being entirely unreasonable as I think we can all logically understand their concerns. They just want you to be safe. As it relates to you, while I'm always the first person in similar situations (as it relates to being alone and/or partying in general) to come here to essentially agree with you in that, sure, the worst can absolutely happen, but it's probably far less likely than people want to think it is. In saying that, you can't just avoid every fun situation out of fear.
However, I still think you're being a bit naive in thinking that witnesses being around, you not being naive, and being able to “sense” creeps means as much as you think it does if someone makes the decision to actually assault you. I'd also assume you'll be drinking or partaking in other things (obviously you need to confirm). While I fundamentally believe that it's never the fault of the victim regardless of the actions taken, consuming something could obviously lead to you being less on guard to support the argument you're using here. To be clear, despite saying all this, I still think you should go.
On the other end, you're an adult. On that alone with no other context, you should be able to make your own decisions accordingly and shouldn't have to lie about it. Having said that, while I fully expect that to be everyone's argument here (which is fair enough), we don't know your overall situation. It's easy enough to say that you're an adult and shouldn't need permission, but do you on-line with your parents? Do they fully support you? If you “disobey” them, would you be at risk of losing their support? If that's the case, then no matter how we feel, they have leverage over you that could impact your life on a much larger scale, so you'd obviously have to consider that. Good luck.
Sounds like sexual harassment. I don’t know about you, but if someone is sexually trying to pursue me and I’ve shot them down and they keep doing it, I’d cut them off before trying to convince my partner to let me sleep with them.
He’s just trying to get the okay to cheat. Either you want him to cheat and have an open relationship or you don’t and you will cut him off and dump him. I’d suggest the latter.
Yes, that is a very bad idea.
That sounds like a fun game, but I don't have that kind of money.
Sorry about the situation you find yourself in. You should have paternity tests done. You don’t know how deep her betrayal goes.
You wouldn’t date a bisexual person because you think they can't be…monogamous?
I don’t fear her fits so much as get anxious about them. I find myself walking in egg shells, but your message is not falling on deaf ears. It felt like a pep talk, so thank you!
Break up with her. You are conservative, she is not. Quit trying to put a square peg into a round hole so to speak. There is nothing wrong with having conservative values, or liberal values. Just go find someone that is closer to your own likes and let her find someone who let's her be who she wants without trying to be controlling. Not everyone is meant to be together.
I think we found his burner. You’re calling his children other people, he’s been their dad for 16 years. The wife also states she is bringing in double his paycheck. Either make the fund, or tell your husband until you start bringing more to the table, you can’t dictate what we do with the money I make. Give your kid a trust with your earnings and I’ll give my kids one. See how quickly the tune changes then.
I mean, i understand both sides. Your girlfriend is right to be upset that you’re leaving her to move in with your sister, and you’re right to want to support your sister. Could you all look for a bigger place together? Could you stay where you are and help support her financially?
I agree with your husband. He’s dividing your estate in 1/2 between you both. He’s heirs get 50% and your heirs get 50%.
Got me a copy. This is literally the text version of “your argument is invalid. Here is a bunny with a pancake on its head”.
I completely do not buy that this is trauma and that he could not “control it.” I think he was acting out a sick, pornified fantasy he saw on the internet, and that you were sexually assaulted. It's up to you whether you press charges, but do NOT engage with hm again.
Love is respect and he doesn’t respect you. And you’ve done nothing but told him that he can do whatever he wants and you’ll still be waiting there like an abused lapdog, present jobless and wedding situation included. And it seems like he just doesn’t want what you want, and that’s key because feelings aren’t enough, and I think you know that. I know you love him, or at least some idea of him, but you have to love (respect) yourself first for your relationships with other people to be healthy and mutually beneficial.
Love is respect and he doesn’t respect you. And you’ve done nothing but told him that he can do whatever he wants and you’ll still be waiting there like an abused lapdog, present jobless and wedding situation included. And it seems like he just doesn’t want what you want, and that’s key because feelings aren’t enough, and I think you know that. I know you love him, or at least some idea of him, but you have to love (respect) yourself first for your relationships with other people to be healthy and mutually beneficial.
Love is respect and he doesn’t respect you. And you’ve done nothing but told him that he can do whatever he wants and you’ll still be waiting there like an abused lapdog, present jobless and wedding situation included. And it seems like he just doesn’t want what you want, and that’s key because feelings aren’t enough, and I think you know that. I know you love him, or at least some idea of him, but you have to love (respect) yourself first for your relationships with other people to be healthy and mutually beneficial.
Okay, then break up. He’s already raising three kids that he pays $100 a week per towards (which maybe is a bit much? $300 a month is more regular I think?); he’s past that point in his life. You want kids, you haven’t had any yet. There’s nothing more to say about this unless you want to unhealthily pressure your partner into having a child he doesn’t want. If he’s a decent father, his children are always going to come first.
Also she might be crying because she feels betrayed by her best friend and regardless of timing is still considered a betrayal. Did you talk to her and explain your POV and how you feel about all of this? Because if things are swept under the rug and not communicated / discussed then relationships do come to a point of no trust.
what’s an “ick” lol
Did he do anything sexual with you inbetween doing this and telling you? Cause if so, add risking your sexual health to the stack of trespasses.
Don't forgive this. It was a series of choices. And he didn't even feel bad enough to tell you right away. I'm also grossed out at his own lack of self care to relieve oral at a brothel. Eew
When I got to the part where you switched from talking to your son, who I assume is pretty young, to talking to your wife in the same condescending tone I also rolled my eyes.
I think at 35 your wife understands how naps work.
Was she marrying Up to you, or Down to you?
You mentioned that ned she just handed in her thesis, what was that for? And what is your job?
In his post he says: “if roles were reversed, I can't imagine charging her rent…”
I'd take that as he doesn't believe he should pay.
Anyhow, it's a conversation he needs to have with his gf, but my guess is that he's too “humiliated” to ask her for less rent or to on-line with her for free.
Basically, if he's this unhappy and won't say anything, he should move out back to his old living arrangements where he pays $200 less to live! with roommates.
Get out, my man. You're young. You'll find someone that suits you better down the road.
It's OK to be single and focus on yourself.
End it sooner rather than later
He's hustling for a better future. If you can't handle it then you should not be with him. I understand how you feel! But think of it logically. He's working very hot now to ensure a better life.
I guess one question I would have is how does she see separation working ? Living separately, or just separate bedrooms ? Disconnecting finances ? Dating other people ? Would you date each other, or just meet for therapy ?
He’s either already cheated or is looking for an opportunity
Just look up the place and search for it on reddit and porn sites to see what comes up.
I can't imagine going for a 17 year old as 21 year old
You write this as if its sticking it to him. I don't think he will care.
Mt gf had an umbrella with her and we don't have another one. The valid reason was that there was no point me getting soaked when I could've been preparing food for us
I’m sorry but what. You’re 25. Try starting over from a spouse dieing and your in your 40s or older.
Do you feel like you can live with this betrayal and sweep it under the rug for as long as your dad lives? Do you have it in you to do that?
Bro no one will. This is a serious conversation and you need her to come clean and find out what happened. We don't know your wife but you do.. maybe she was exploited or she enjoyed it. Only you know her here so I would just talk to her. Let her know how you feel about this. Not sure why you want to bring this up without making her feel bad? What are you worried about?
Update: we broke up. He told me that he lied a lot and our relationship was based on lies. He went behind my back and told his friends horrible things about me and said he used me and strung me along bc he was scared of commitment. He told me everyone has been telling him to break up with me since the beginning. He wasn’t honest with me or himself and he lied/betrayed me. He said that he is a horrible person and that he knows I’m one of the good ones, and he told me to find someone who really cares about me. He said he loved me, but I told him no he didn’t because you don’t use people that you love and lie tho their faces about major issues. Thank you again, he is a complete psycho!!! The person I thought I was dating is a backstabber who tells everyone what they want to hear, and he’s a pathological liar.
What are you gaining from staying in this relationship?
You feel better now ?
Anybody, especially the nurses and midwives will usually be incredibly expert at removing people, especially unnecessary husbands, from any part of the process.
Anyone who is willing to say these things about his wife and the mother of his children should definitely not have the privilege of being there, her comfort and well-being are the only priority.
Op, if you feel that you can, before the birth is an ideal time to actually reach out to your mother, sister, or any person in your life you feel can be supportive. Because this man does not plan on being supportive. He doesn't plan on being a husband to you and he definitely doesn't plan on being a good father.
Is your wife even into women in any way? Or is this performative sexuality?
Again though, cannot stress this enough- this is not a good idea!
I don't really think it's that serious. She mentioned it but we talked about it and I told her it made me too uncomfortable and that was kind the end of it
Excuse my ignorance as I’m a woman. Doesn’t not cumming in this kind of circumstance have potential consequences? I know blue balls is a real thing and is painful.
People like you are a disease. I cannot wait for the day no one comes helping you in your worst moments because it's none of their business.
I dated a ftm trans man (I'm pansexual though so vagina is fine for me) and we used a strap on. It helped with his dysphoria and I got pleasure out of it. They make very realistic ones these days…. if you're open to trying to be with him i definitely suggest trying that
that’s really good advice on the boundary, i appreciate you saying that. how do i deal with the anxiety and the overthinking that’s causing so much stress on my mental health though?
I have 14w of paternity leave in the US.
Creative troll
I’ve been asking him to save this whole relationship but he kept saying that he already has this much saved up so I believed him ugh..
You are in the first or second stage of grief… give it time..it heals..don't forget the lesson but..
I’d say this is too much, often if you make something so serious the other person will respond more seriously. I think the best way to go about it is to say “hey thanks for sending I’m drowning in work at the moment so might not be able to read too much until the end of the semester but can’t wait to read more when I have the headspace!”
Listen to yourself. Your instincts to just end this relationship were correct. It will only get worse.
even if you are 100% as stupid as they claim, they are stupider if they think you’re gonna sit there and take their disrespect. and that’s the way you should look at it no matter who the person is
I am sorry to hear about your divorce. I know you are in pain and crying. You have every right to be. You are very young though, I know it sounds cliche but you will find somebody else. Young men can be immature. I was with someone for 10 years we were engaged when we broke up. It does take time to heal, but you will. It's different for everyone. It depends on how you heal. If you wallow in sadness and depression it takes longer then if you try to deal with your emotions. You won't compare your new man because he'll be a different person and you'll be in a different place in life. I've now been married for 13 years and that doesn't include dating. As far as his family if they reach out it's nice but I wouldn't go out of my way to reach out to them. Obviously they are his family and they're going to support him. If you need anything to talk to let me know. I hm wish you speedy healing.
That’s true if giving flowers to graduates is common where he’s from, but that’s not always the case
Is this a bad rendition of big Ed an 90 day?