This is a huge betrayal. He doesn’t trust you. He thinks you’re a cheater. He won’t communicate problems directly to you. He’s telling his ex he doesn’t trust you and coming up sigh secret plans with her. Each one of those things is a massive problem. And he sees nothing wrong with how he’s approached things so these issues will come up again and again because why would he change when he thinks he’s handled everything correctly. You’re not overreacting.
The thing is honestly she’s more mature than he is
Dating older isn’t going to fix his own immaturity problem. He lacks self awareness, communicating skills, and empathy. There was a specific reason he ended up with someone so young and inexperienced in hopes that he could control the narrative/individual. Yuck.
Indeed. This is a valuable assessment.
Yes.
This is a huge betrayal. He doesn’t trust you. He thinks you’re a cheater. He won’t communicate problems directly to you. He’s telling his ex he doesn’t trust you and coming up sigh secret plans with her. Each one of those things is a massive problem. And he sees nothing wrong with how he’s approached things so these issues will come up again and again because why would he change when he thinks he’s handled everything correctly. You’re not overreacting.
The thing is honestly she’s more mature than he is
Dating older isn’t going to fix his own immaturity problem. He lacks self awareness, communicating skills, and empathy. There was a specific reason he ended up with someone so young and inexperienced in hopes that he could control the narrative/individual. Yuck.
I'm getting the feeling you think you are a lot smarter than you really are