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Keep ignoring.them. they will get tired of trying to contact you after a while. Look on the brightside. You must be one kf the most important things in their life. Why else would they waste time on you if you wenrent. They must not have much else going on.
This is a naked life lesson for you, don't have sex with someone you wouldn't want to settle down with, no matter how safe you think the sex is, I don't feel sorry for men who will happily use women for sex but then complain they don't really want her, reap what you sow YTA
I know what an ex is. When someone is an ex, they are out of the equation. Which leads me back to he’s not out of the equation. She has poor boundaries.
So a pretty classic abuser tactic is to love bomb and play the ideal partner until they have you so entrenched and invested in their life that it's hard for you to get away. Then they flip and start the abuse. He wants to beat you down and make you feel useless till he has total control.
Please, you need to get out asap for your own safety.
There's a saying that is as true today as it was when I was a kid. What you think first is how you were raised to be, what you think next is who you learned to be. In the parents case, they were obviously raised homophobic, but the fact they've never shown that to your brother does show that they at least aren't the sort who go on the attack constantly.
Sadly you never unlearn prejudices; you only learn how bad and wrong they are and therefore to act differently than you were taught, but the prejudice itself still simmers under the surface. Tangent here: the aim, of course, is to keep that hidden away and raise your kids without it so that they aren't as poisoned as you were.
So no, it's not an appropriate reaction by any measure. However, if they are homophobic to that degree, and they were caught off guard, it is kind of an understandable one. That your husband's first reaction was that she should have warned them up front says something along the lines of he “knows what they're like and how they'd react and that it might have been different with that prior warning”.
As for the rest of it, I'll preface this by saying I wasn't there and am just going on your description of events. Honestly, it sounds like he leapt to his parents defence when you were rightly horrified at their actions, and then rolled himself up in a little ball of their hatred during the fight while trying to defend an honour they stamped on with that hate.
I'd talk to him and tell him calmly that this is an important issue for you and ask him to talk to you calmly about it. No accusations, no name calling, no telling him how wrong they clearly are, and no apologies expected from either side. You go in expecting that and you'll get one person maybe acquiescing to another to end the argument. Instead, go in trying to understand the position he actually holds, where he stands compared to his parents, and his actual thoughts and feelings on LGBTQ+ people. And while you won't be telling him this part, you do need to fully understand those feelings and how he's going to handle them if only because it's going to determine whether this is someone worth staying with.
And if he is and he was caught up in the heat of the moment, maybe make your place a safe space for his sister to bring her girlfriend. Because, quite frankly, he owes her that.
A few weeks later she was struggling with some mental health stuff and threatening to fight me at her parents house because she “just need to fight someone right now and you seem like the right one” as I was trying to deescalate her and get her to calm down she yelled at me that she was going to do what she wanted to do because she wanted to be rp’d and SA’d. I calmly told her she had no idea what she was really saying.
For what it's worth, it sounds like she was digging deep for whatever she could say that was most likely to make you agree to fight her.
She still owes you an apology. A massive fucking apology.
But if you're able to, I'd try to look at this like an extremely low point from a woman who wasn't in her right mind.
That doesn't mean you have to close that distance. You don't owe her that. You don't even have to forgive her. Not when she never made it right.
But…I pity her. And I'd like to doubt that she sincerely meant a word of that sewage.
Keep ignoring.them. they will get tired of trying to contact you after a while. Look on the brightside. You must be one kf the most important things in their life. Why else would they waste time on you if you wenrent. They must not have much else going on.
This is a naked life lesson for you, don't have sex with someone you wouldn't want to settle down with, no matter how safe you think the sex is, I don't feel sorry for men who will happily use women for sex but then complain they don't really want her, reap what you sow YTA
I know what an ex is. When someone is an ex, they are out of the equation. Which leads me back to he’s not out of the equation. She has poor boundaries.
So a pretty classic abuser tactic is to love bomb and play the ideal partner until they have you so entrenched and invested in their life that it's hard for you to get away. Then they flip and start the abuse. He wants to beat you down and make you feel useless till he has total control.
Please, you need to get out asap for your own safety.
There's a saying that is as true today as it was when I was a kid. What you think first is how you were raised to be, what you think next is who you learned to be. In the parents case, they were obviously raised homophobic, but the fact they've never shown that to your brother does show that they at least aren't the sort who go on the attack constantly.
Sadly you never unlearn prejudices; you only learn how bad and wrong they are and therefore to act differently than you were taught, but the prejudice itself still simmers under the surface. Tangent here: the aim, of course, is to keep that hidden away and raise your kids without it so that they aren't as poisoned as you were.
So no, it's not an appropriate reaction by any measure. However, if they are homophobic to that degree, and they were caught off guard, it is kind of an understandable one. That your husband's first reaction was that she should have warned them up front says something along the lines of he “knows what they're like and how they'd react and that it might have been different with that prior warning”.
As for the rest of it, I'll preface this by saying I wasn't there and am just going on your description of events. Honestly, it sounds like he leapt to his parents defence when you were rightly horrified at their actions, and then rolled himself up in a little ball of their hatred during the fight while trying to defend an honour they stamped on with that hate.
I'd talk to him and tell him calmly that this is an important issue for you and ask him to talk to you calmly about it. No accusations, no name calling, no telling him how wrong they clearly are, and no apologies expected from either side. You go in expecting that and you'll get one person maybe acquiescing to another to end the argument. Instead, go in trying to understand the position he actually holds, where he stands compared to his parents, and his actual thoughts and feelings on LGBTQ+ people. And while you won't be telling him this part, you do need to fully understand those feelings and how he's going to handle them if only because it's going to determine whether this is someone worth staying with.
And if he is and he was caught up in the heat of the moment, maybe make your place a safe space for his sister to bring her girlfriend. Because, quite frankly, he owes her that.
A few weeks later she was struggling with some mental health stuff and threatening to fight me at her parents house because she “just need to fight someone right now and you seem like the right one” as I was trying to deescalate her and get her to calm down she yelled at me that she was going to do what she wanted to do because she wanted to be rp’d and SA’d. I calmly told her she had no idea what she was really saying.
For what it's worth, it sounds like she was digging deep for whatever she could say that was most likely to make you agree to fight her.
She still owes you an apology. A massive fucking apology.
But if you're able to, I'd try to look at this like an extremely low point from a woman who wasn't in her right mind.
That doesn't mean you have to close that distance. You don't owe her that. You don't even have to forgive her. Not when she never made it right.
But…I pity her. And I'd like to doubt that she sincerely meant a word of that sewage.