Look let me first say you are allowed to have your boundaries/comfort/right to say not to literally anything you don't wanna do.
I don't think many dudes are gonna be ok with this no bj thing. I think you will need to end up with one of the very few guys who are ok without it, or start working on a compromise. Any dude I've dated or known very well would definitely not be able to commit to no blow jobs for life and be happy with that.
I personally would never be happy without it…. But I'm kind of a freak lol so idk maybe there would be someone..
Get the marriage annulled. You have proof of infidelity, and you have proof she is not taking reasonable steps to rectify the situation. You have only been married for 4 months, you probably can get an annulment instead of a divorce for this. She will not cut him out of her life permanently; she is keeping him on a back burner, and for now you are the safe choice. Cut the cheater loose and find someone that will genuinely love and respect you.
this is correct
Look let me first say you are allowed to have your boundaries/comfort/right to say not to literally anything you don't wanna do.
I don't think many dudes are gonna be ok with this no bj thing. I think you will need to end up with one of the very few guys who are ok without it, or start working on a compromise. Any dude I've dated or known very well would definitely not be able to commit to no blow jobs for life and be happy with that.
I personally would never be happy without it…. But I'm kind of a freak lol so idk maybe there would be someone..
Get the marriage annulled. You have proof of infidelity, and you have proof she is not taking reasonable steps to rectify the situation. You have only been married for 4 months, you probably can get an annulment instead of a divorce for this. She will not cut him out of her life permanently; she is keeping him on a back burner, and for now you are the safe choice. Cut the cheater loose and find someone that will genuinely love and respect you.