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Look – I don't know anything about you two beyond what is in your post so take this with a grain of salt – I have seen a lot of couples torn apart over finances because one feels the stress differently than the other. One feels like they contribute more than the other. All sorts of stuff like that. its communication and trust that make things work or not. He could be a gigantic asshole and not worth spending another minute with. He could be overly stressed and not able to communicate it properly so he's coming across as condescending and controlling. He could simply not understand what you handle for the family.
All of it could be anything, unfortunately. I think the key is to have a series of conversations where you both lay out what you need from the other. Take a break if things get heated. The key is “hey, are you down to find something that works for both of us? What we have going on now isn't working.” If he is, and you are, then great. Its just a matter of taking the time and learning to talk to each other in a way that is productive. If he responds with “no, you're a dumb woman, make more babies and shut up” then 7 cats is probably a more than reasonable trade for being able to find your own feet again.
Thank you for the kind words and advice I appreciate it
Yikes. No. Good thing you got out. Sexuality and exploration are about your fantasies and things you are curious about or eager to try – not enduring a threesome even though you don’t want it to appease a bully who doesn’t listen to you or respect your boundaries. It sounds like he needs to find a swinger. It wouldn‘t just be once. He was was too insistent and persistent. This is his thing…Find someone who turns you on and want the things you want.
Maybe the fact that it took 2 weeks to “convince” (AKA pressure) your husband to open your relationship and now you have fucked so many other people that you can’t ever remember has made him fall out of love with you. You know he’s sexually conservative and wouldn’t want to try certain things with you, so logically you knew he wouldn’t like you fucking myriads of other people and were deluding yourself because YOU wanted it. You have no one to blame for this but yourself.
You think this is cheating? Fucking cute. You don’t think he felt that way? Why else would he need you to hammer it in for two weeks that you want this before he agreed? You don’t think he felt like you were cheating when you fucked so many people you can’t even remember? Give us all a break.
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My husband is trying his best and hasn't done anything wrong to me
They tried putting them in the bathroom. She moved them back.
This is so cruel and evil. It’s his own fault if he can’t get the money back! Or have him get new tits. Your body your choice. Never let another person decide things for your body, unless it’s a doctor and things are lookin bad. Good luck op! Big hugs girl!
I already did that’s why I’m on here ?
I plan on only getting married once. Sooo therefore I only have one bachelorette party. It’s the same as having just one wedding, atleast in my opinion. And lmao, that made me chuckle a little. The cruise was his moms idea because I’ve never been on a cruise! Thanks for the laugh
How long have you been together? How far away is college?
Regardless, here's the harsh reality: Roughly 2% of high school relationships make it through college. That's not meant to scare you; it's to help you level set expectations. Now, just so you know I'm not here just being bitter, anecdotally, I'm a guy and I'm happily married. I love love and I wish you nothing but the absolute best. My high school relationship of three years maybe lasted a month into me going away to college. My little brother, however, met his now-wife in high school and they've been together for 16 years. So it's obviously possible, so I'm not here just telling you to give up.
You do still have a lot to understand. People are going to party and go out in college. That doesn't have to mean bad things are going to happen. Ultimately, if your girlfriend is a good person and you trust her, you shouldn't inherently believe she's going to disrespect you. If she's going to do something inappropriate, she's going to do it regardless of whether she's at school or in a sorority. She makes her own decisions.
I also hate to tell you, but she's likely going to always be around guys who want to hook up, regardless of whether she's in a sorority or they're in a frat. The negatives outweigh the positives to you. That doesn't make it an objective fact.
So to answer your question, that's ultimately up to you. You're making the assumption that your girlfriend is almost certainly going to cheat on you. That doesn't speak very highly as to how you feel about her. We can't tell you what to do except that you can't tell her not to join one. If you think you can't handle it, then certainly end things. Or maybe things will be fine. We can't predict the future. Good luck.
Lock your devices and make an ultimatum that he has to get therapy for his paranoia or you leave. And MEAN it.
Or just leave as this isn't sustainable. He shouldn't be dating if he has these trust issues.
Every day spent with her I’d relive again. If she missed something because of life issues I’m willing to accept that. If she ghosted me to just avoid me then no I don’t want that in my relationship. I hate jumping to conclusions because usually I’m wrong. But sometimes I’m right. Though I agree, ghosting me without any communication is not okay. Regardless of the day
Yeah it’s why there’s 20 year old women worried about aging already and getting Botox for the wrinkles they don’t even have yet. It sucks being woman. At least weight you can control.
You don’t need his permission to dress a certain way. He’s awful.
I agree she could have left him at earlier point. But i also know life isnt always black and white. That there are always reasons things happen. Were we selfish? Of course we were. But the fact she was/is being mistreated, unloved, and disrespected while the whole time being pycholgically beaten and emotionally manipulated plays a big factor i think in her ability to leave him. All the readingbive done about narcissistic relationships gave me a whole new persepctive in the challenges she faces with him.
Im aware i cant force her to leave. Sh has to want a better life or option and leave that bad relatioship behind.
Im just struggling to think she would would forget or throw away 8.5 months of a loving relationship to stay in that.
The thoughts and opinions i have about him arent juat mine. Her friends and family have all pleaded wirh her to leave him ans find better.
I have heard his abuse with my own ears.
So yes we did wrong thing for right reasons though.
Checking your partner’s phone periodically also solidifies trust, but Reddit has a major problem with that. Men also cheat as much as women, but they have the privilege of hiding their infidelity because they don’t get pregnant. Men who have secret children funnel resources and money away from their “legitimate” family. Imagine having to live! with that uncertainty.
Your dad definitely has some issues.
There is actually some damn good advice in here
Considering the timeline, did you get married mostly because of the child? Is it possible that your husband just didn't actually want children? I know you've had conversations about wanting him to be more present, but have you had honest conversations about what you both want your lives to look like? It sounds like the current situation is pretty untenable, and honestly, coparenting — or even you having custody while he pays child support, depending on how you both feel — could be healthier than the current dynamic. Do you really want to stay and raise a child in an environment where he feels unwanted or resented?
If the bride to be wants you there, why wasn’t your name on the invite?
Exactly, I'd also bet she's still involved with husband.
She's basically asking the OP to buy a house for her and her husband.
Even if husband was out of equation completely, there is still no reason for him to be the only one to pay, let alone let her be only one with her name on the contract.
Sometimes I genuinely can't believe shitty people like OP's gf exist.
You’re playing w yourself. Leave. Have self respect, don’t accept cheating unless you’ve been together for a long ass time and they’re otherwise a great partner, and after the cheating they’re honest and doing shady shit like chatting w other women on snap. Leave him