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Cycle of relationship destruction here. You know the relationship is over if you both still want a monogamous one. If you wanted an open on the you’re off to a good start. ?
He’s shown you who he is and it’s time to begin believing him. He’s not good enough for you and you need to leave. Make room for someone better to come along.
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Google learned helplessness. When you’re in a relationship where everything is done for you to the point that even you selecting groceries is corrected, that can cause you to loss your sense of self and confidence in your ability to do things on your own. What you need is support that helps you build confidence in your abilities to take care of yourself, not someone who does everything for you. Hopefully your therapist can help you with this.
Gotta have the hot conversation about how you felt. It's ok to say, “Hey I know this is weird but I just feel this way. Can you just adjust?” My SO and I occasionally say to each other, “I know this is a weird small thing, but I just need it, can you help me out here?” You can acknowledge that it is a small thing and even maybe a little irrational but you need him to recognize it. That way it's not an attack but a small ask that is totally reasonable in a relationship.
To some people it can. If you want respect for your own sense of morality or ideals, you have to be able to accept that others will have differing opinions on the matter.
What if he becomes chronically ill? Loses a limb? A bald or shaved head is very normal. Some of the sexiest men I've seen are bald. And….people in their 60's have lots of sex…
I was afraid of that. I’m way to independent for that to happen but it does feel like he’s trying to be controlling at times. He doesn’t want me to hangout with a couple guy friends I have. Parts of me does understand this bc I have hooked up with some and have remained friends but I’m not willing to give up great friends in my life because he isn’t comfy with the idea of it
any raise id likely get would be totally cancelled out by her decrease. Also wed lose her benefits which are better than mine, and her retirement would be cut by a lot (it has a great employer match)
She very likely will start dating someone else at some point. If she's happy with that person a real friend would be happy for her. Meaning you're no longer a real friend and now you're in this “friendship” for the wrong reasons. You can try to pull back and reign in your feelings to where maybe the platonic relationship can be restored, or you can take a break from her to try to realign your feelings for her. It sounds like you've already shot your shot with her so it's not even like there's hope that she secretly wants to date you too. Unfortunately sometimes the answer is just no and we need to learn to move on.
It sounds as if you have different goals in life and different ideas of how to be happy. The gaming ids made to sound as if there is very little time for you. I think in truth you have outgrown each other and you’ve come to a parting of the ways. You are unhappy and trying to make him fit into a mould that he doesn’t want to fit.
I would be suggesting he go visit a doctor. A sudden change in smell can mean a change in something in the body and so it’s probably best he go get checked out and some blood tests done.
If they come back all fine, I would bin all his shower products and get new ones, wash his clothes with some strong detergent (and put the items you can on 50-60C that won’t shrink or ruin) and make sure he showers before bed or particularly before sex.
She doesn't ever answer this. Just repeats her “I don't want him” line. Yet all the information points to that she does/did at one point.
Nobody visits someone for 10 years they don't want lol.
She won't go into detail in why her sudden change of heart except for “I don't want him I never have”.
Acts like her telling the wife potentially anonymously absolves her of some of her sins. She should explain to everyone in her life why she was happy to do this knowing he had a wife and kids for 5 years. (Yes he's a pos too but this post is about her and her sins)
Also still calls it a mistake. Repeated Intentional cruelty isn't a mistake.
I completely disagree that it's excessive time alone. Some people are introverts and fully need time alone to get their thoughts straight.
They aren't married. If they live! together now, she says he's a homebody, that means he takes zero weekends to himself unless op is gone.
She kept in communication with him, and he became bothersome about it. And is now lashing out all paggro and pathetic making up falsehoods about OP and the healthy relationship she has with his daughter.
Even if it is a misunderstanding, clearly the mom is in a very weird,very problematic competition with you. This kind of stuff only gets worse as time goes on. Get out before coming here asking what you can do because your MIL has your child call her mommy and your husband backs her up.
Cycle of relationship destruction here. You know the relationship is over if you both still want a monogamous one. If you wanted an open on the you’re off to a good start. ?
He’s shown you who he is and it’s time to begin believing him. He’s not good enough for you and you need to leave. Make room for someone better to come along.
Massive red flag!
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Google learned helplessness. When you’re in a relationship where everything is done for you to the point that even you selecting groceries is corrected, that can cause you to loss your sense of self and confidence in your ability to do things on your own. What you need is support that helps you build confidence in your abilities to take care of yourself, not someone who does everything for you. Hopefully your therapist can help you with this.
Gotta have the hot conversation about how you felt. It's ok to say, “Hey I know this is weird but I just feel this way. Can you just adjust?” My SO and I occasionally say to each other, “I know this is a weird small thing, but I just need it, can you help me out here?” You can acknowledge that it is a small thing and even maybe a little irrational but you need him to recognize it. That way it's not an attack but a small ask that is totally reasonable in a relationship.
To some people it can. If you want respect for your own sense of morality or ideals, you have to be able to accept that others will have differing opinions on the matter.
What if he becomes chronically ill? Loses a limb? A bald or shaved head is very normal. Some of the sexiest men I've seen are bald. And….people in their 60's have lots of sex…
Engagement ring
I was afraid of that. I’m way to independent for that to happen but it does feel like he’s trying to be controlling at times. He doesn’t want me to hangout with a couple guy friends I have. Parts of me does understand this bc I have hooked up with some and have remained friends but I’m not willing to give up great friends in my life because he isn’t comfy with the idea of it
any raise id likely get would be totally cancelled out by her decrease. Also wed lose her benefits which are better than mine, and her retirement would be cut by a lot (it has a great employer match)
Yea, you're right. Thank you
You should change your number. Problem solved!
He's not a good friend if he doesn't respect your “no”.
She very likely will start dating someone else at some point. If she's happy with that person a real friend would be happy for her. Meaning you're no longer a real friend and now you're in this “friendship” for the wrong reasons. You can try to pull back and reign in your feelings to where maybe the platonic relationship can be restored, or you can take a break from her to try to realign your feelings for her. It sounds like you've already shot your shot with her so it's not even like there's hope that she secretly wants to date you too. Unfortunately sometimes the answer is just no and we need to learn to move on.
Does it give you the creeps? Does he make you happy? You don't need other people to validate your relationship.
Karsh
You reap what you sow
It sounds as if you have different goals in life and different ideas of how to be happy. The gaming ids made to sound as if there is very little time for you. I think in truth you have outgrown each other and you’ve come to a parting of the ways. You are unhappy and trying to make him fit into a mould that he doesn’t want to fit.
I would be suggesting he go visit a doctor. A sudden change in smell can mean a change in something in the body and so it’s probably best he go get checked out and some blood tests done.
If they come back all fine, I would bin all his shower products and get new ones, wash his clothes with some strong detergent (and put the items you can on 50-60C that won’t shrink or ruin) and make sure he showers before bed or particularly before sex.
She doesn't ever answer this. Just repeats her “I don't want him” line. Yet all the information points to that she does/did at one point.
Nobody visits someone for 10 years they don't want lol.
She won't go into detail in why her sudden change of heart except for “I don't want him I never have”.
Acts like her telling the wife potentially anonymously absolves her of some of her sins. She should explain to everyone in her life why she was happy to do this knowing he had a wife and kids for 5 years. (Yes he's a pos too but this post is about her and her sins)
Also still calls it a mistake. Repeated Intentional cruelty isn't a mistake.
Sometimes, an accusation is a confession.
Wow, thanks, it helps thinking it that way
I completely disagree that it's excessive time alone. Some people are introverts and fully need time alone to get their thoughts straight.
They aren't married. If they live! together now, she says he's a homebody, that means he takes zero weekends to himself unless op is gone.
She kept in communication with him, and he became bothersome about it. And is now lashing out all paggro and pathetic making up falsehoods about OP and the healthy relationship she has with his daughter.
This is a him and his insecurities problem.
When I actually sit and think about it, it’s not worth it I wouldn’t do anything the crack this life my wife and I built together
I really need to start the distancing, starting at work tomorrow
That is a warning sign for sure. I think the only suitable response is to laugh as if he's making an obvious joke.
Even if it is a misunderstanding, clearly the mom is in a very weird,very problematic competition with you. This kind of stuff only gets worse as time goes on. Get out before coming here asking what you can do because your MIL has your child call her mommy and your husband backs her up.
Please talk to a lawyer and get rid of the bum!
You are not the problem in this relationship!