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I don't think he is currently cheating on my physically…mainly because he's so incapacitated. I mean…who dislocates their KNEE and SHOULDER in less than 3 days? Weird.
Anyway…my problem is I know too much now. He has cheated consistently on his ex and he was lying to me about being alone and single…and living w her.
She is single too – as far as I know. Earlier, Divorce had been much harder for her than it was for me. Over the last year, she has got over it, changed her lifestyle choices, got over her depression. While I got sucked into missing the family life.
I had a sexual assault experience very young that kept me from being able to certain things.
As much as it was disappointing to my husband, he was patient and loving and kind, and never brought it up. He wouldn’t even talk about it when we talked about fantasies, because he knew it wouldn’t matter. Never pressured me, never made any attempts at it. He accepted that loving me meant a life without that specific thing.
That allowed me to trust him enough to open up in that way, and I was able to heal through the trauma because of a good therapist and a partner who allowed me the space I needed. I’m actually able to do those things and enjoy it with him, when the thought of those acts used to send me into a complete shut down/panic attack.
You are not too sensitive. Your boyfriend doesnt care about you. At least, not in a way that matters. I had a boyfriend like that at your age. He complained to me that I couldn’t do those things. Even after I told him why. This guy never cared about me and just wanted to have fun for a bit.
You deserve someone who sees you the way my husband sees me — a partner and friend to love and cherish and respect, not someone to kill time with.
Just want to say I think you are being really reasonable and there’s nothing wrong with seeking some advice before broaching the topic. I wish I had some constructive feedback or advice about how to tackle this, all I can say is I don’t think it’s unfair to expect the person who doesn’t have a job to take on some more of the housework.
She has a biological clock. Her life becomes more at risk the longer you wait.
How about you care about her health and feelings over your feelings…Perspective for you.
Why is she always the one scarifying? She had to wait how long until you were ready now you want her to wait until like 50? When you’re ready again? Nuts.
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I guess I don’t feel like I need a ton of “alone” time but I do need “me” time.
Like if I’m doing my hobby (horses) I’m around friends. When I do my volunteer work in wildlife rescue, I’m around a different group of friends. It’s not so much that I want to be alone, it’s more that I want to do what I want to do.
My partner is awesome. But he likes to watch movies or TV a lot and I don’t. I really can’t sit still that long and feel like it’s wasted time. I’d rather be out doing something. Not socially per se—I honestly don’t online that. But doing…something. Sitting on my ass drives me bananas.
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Your gf sounds manipulative and self centered at least from the way you described. You don't owe her all of your free time. You two could schedule some time during the week to see each other, and the fact that you have discussed this event before makes me think that you did your share of communication about it. At first I thought she just really misses you but the comments about how someone else would treat her better bother me. Maybe she is hinting at you two moving in together? If it has been 4 years and you only see each other at your place on weekends, it does sound a bit non-progressing. I think there are some bigger problems going on and you probably need to have a serious talk about it
I love this sub cause half of these short stories are either guys who have a porn addiction who wont have sex with their women or on the other hand you have the “he doesn’t like my past” post. Never gets old!
Good argument. Thanks. No Im really not shure to make a move even if She initiates it. Really not. But then also concerned if She makes a move… And i dont. Maybe she replaces me from work? As she feels offended of me not meet up with her feelings. She is a much higher boss than me so She can for shure ruin my career
Good riddance. Imagine if you had a child with her. You'd be constantly paranoid she'd accusing you of sexualising any contact you had while your child was nude.
In your last post, it was more than him not working. His hygiene and living conditions were deplorable. Getting a job won’t change that. So good for you for ending it but better that you didn’t let him make for feel guilty by threatening self harm. More people need to do what you did and just call professionals for a welfare check. Good luck to you. Your future looks brighter and there are much better guys available for you.
If OP sees him 2 days a week and they aren't involved in each other lives, and dudeface sees another girl the rest of the time, the type of relationship is: OP is now the side-piece
I'm confused, where is the gaslighting here? Some of his verbiage may be manipulative, such as trying to 'pin' his depression on her, but that isn't gaslighting. To gaslight someone is to make them question their own sanity and reality. He's not a gaslighter for being sad that his long-term girlfriend wants to leave him and meet other people.
If you were to express to him that you are not ready and want to wait a few years, how would he react?
If it is badly, then it seems he might be trying to marry you to make it harder for you to leave once you find out how controlling/abusive he is. Really no one should be getting married after knowing someone for 3 months.
Again my man, I have to point out the obvious. If we are assuming this is correct, that she received it though non-sexual means, she's still working at this volatile working atmosphere.
Meaning, what's next? Herpes is the easiest off the top of my head. No cure for that.
Then you have gonorrhea. HPV (though not too bad for males). Mgen, I can go on. Or oldie but goldie – crabs.
Even under the assumption she's on the strait and narrow, we're also under the assumption her 'co-workers' are not. Nor are the clientele, obviously, as proven already.
It would almost be better to go by the assumption she's 'giving guys at the club more then what they paid for'. Because you can talk and come to an understanding not to do that. If it's just a part of the work week.. well good luck.
So you've been married 6 months and are in couples therapy? Was this an arranged marriage?
Honestly, unless your goal is to be a trad wife. I would walk away now. I wouldn't even try to mend this. He believes you should be submissive and that he can control you. Save the text he sent for the divorce proceedings.
I think he's genuinely sweet and very awkward, but this just felt like a red flag to me. I'm still learning about him and vice/versa. I mean how can you know you love someone until you See them at their worst?
I think I might try to tell him that I'm not there yet and see how he handles it.
I don't think he is currently cheating on my physically…mainly because he's so incapacitated. I mean…who dislocates their KNEE and SHOULDER in less than 3 days? Weird.
Anyway…my problem is I know too much now. He has cheated consistently on his ex and he was lying to me about being alone and single…and living w her.
Definitely not. LOL
She is single too – as far as I know. Earlier, Divorce had been much harder for her than it was for me. Over the last year, she has got over it, changed her lifestyle choices, got over her depression. While I got sucked into missing the family life.
He’s almost 40, doesn’t work and parties like he’s in college? Big warning signs. What is his goal?
Is it something you’re willing to tell your gf? If you feel the need to hide it from your gf then it’s wrong.
U are making too many assumptions that it was sexual trauma and getting ahead of urself in general.
u can point those things out to ur sister and ask if he was nervous but please dont go diagnosing people.
he could just be scared cause he was meeting his girls mom. calm down lol.
and lets say if he does have that trauma, its his decision whom and when to share it.
I had a sexual assault experience very young that kept me from being able to certain things.
As much as it was disappointing to my husband, he was patient and loving and kind, and never brought it up. He wouldn’t even talk about it when we talked about fantasies, because he knew it wouldn’t matter. Never pressured me, never made any attempts at it. He accepted that loving me meant a life without that specific thing.
That allowed me to trust him enough to open up in that way, and I was able to heal through the trauma because of a good therapist and a partner who allowed me the space I needed. I’m actually able to do those things and enjoy it with him, when the thought of those acts used to send me into a complete shut down/panic attack.
You are not too sensitive. Your boyfriend doesnt care about you. At least, not in a way that matters. I had a boyfriend like that at your age. He complained to me that I couldn’t do those things. Even after I told him why. This guy never cared about me and just wanted to have fun for a bit.
You deserve someone who sees you the way my husband sees me — a partner and friend to love and cherish and respect, not someone to kill time with.
Just want to say I think you are being really reasonable and there’s nothing wrong with seeking some advice before broaching the topic. I wish I had some constructive feedback or advice about how to tackle this, all I can say is I don’t think it’s unfair to expect the person who doesn’t have a job to take on some more of the housework.
No joke, you are an excellent writer. And you know what I mean
She has a biological clock. Her life becomes more at risk the longer you wait.
How about you care about her health and feelings over your feelings…Perspective for you.
Why is she always the one scarifying? She had to wait how long until you were ready now you want her to wait until like 50? When you’re ready again? Nuts.
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I guess I don’t feel like I need a ton of “alone” time but I do need “me” time.
Like if I’m doing my hobby (horses) I’m around friends. When I do my volunteer work in wildlife rescue, I’m around a different group of friends. It’s not so much that I want to be alone, it’s more that I want to do what I want to do.
My partner is awesome. But he likes to watch movies or TV a lot and I don’t. I really can’t sit still that long and feel like it’s wasted time. I’d rather be out doing something. Not socially per se—I honestly don’t online that. But doing…something. Sitting on my ass drives me bananas.
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Visiting a kink page for locals isn’t concerning behavior to you…?
Rapists generally like to deny what they do is rape. It’s like a bank robber saying he just went to an ATM
Ultimately, this ended with her divorcing me and accusing me of being paranoid
Well, it could be that you were paranoid of course, but then there is this:
and she moved with her affair partner.
Case closed!
Yesterday, she called me and admitted she made a mistake getting with him and wanted to know if she can reconcile with me.
Ah, she fucked around and found out. The answer should be: “No!” Or maybe “Hahahahaha, of course not. What are you thinking?”
Yeah agree
Your gf sounds manipulative and self centered at least from the way you described. You don't owe her all of your free time. You two could schedule some time during the week to see each other, and the fact that you have discussed this event before makes me think that you did your share of communication about it. At first I thought she just really misses you but the comments about how someone else would treat her better bother me. Maybe she is hinting at you two moving in together? If it has been 4 years and you only see each other at your place on weekends, it does sound a bit non-progressing. I think there are some bigger problems going on and you probably need to have a serious talk about it
You don’t have to worry about the ones that will take the hint. It’s the ones that don’t that are cause for worry, but not for the reasons you have.
I love this sub cause half of these short stories are either guys who have a porn addiction who wont have sex with their women or on the other hand you have the “he doesn’t like my past” post. Never gets old!
I have PTSD and I don't treat my husband that way. He's being controlling and how he's acting is how abuse starts.
99.99% of open relationships never work out. There are very few people that reach a level of comfort with open relationships.
Good argument. Thanks. No Im really not shure to make a move even if She initiates it. Really not. But then also concerned if She makes a move… And i dont. Maybe she replaces me from work? As she feels offended of me not meet up with her feelings. She is a much higher boss than me so She can for shure ruin my career
He's married and made vows to op, and he's like 13 years older than the neighbor. Gross.
Good riddance. Imagine if you had a child with her. You'd be constantly paranoid she'd accusing you of sexualising any contact you had while your child was nude.
Time to break out the power point plan. Google images of postpartum belly and slide show aaaaaallll of them to him.
Find another place to online. She’s your girlfriend, not your wife. You’re not family. Pay your rent or go ??♀️
The fact that he cheated on his ex-wife then bought her silence to protect his image would be enough for me to reconsider the whole marriage thing.
In your last post, it was more than him not working. His hygiene and living conditions were deplorable. Getting a job won’t change that. So good for you for ending it but better that you didn’t let him make for feel guilty by threatening self harm. More people need to do what you did and just call professionals for a welfare check. Good luck to you. Your future looks brighter and there are much better guys available for you.
If OP sees him 2 days a week and they aren't involved in each other lives, and dudeface sees another girl the rest of the time, the type of relationship is: OP is now the side-piece
I'm confused, where is the gaslighting here? Some of his verbiage may be manipulative, such as trying to 'pin' his depression on her, but that isn't gaslighting. To gaslight someone is to make them question their own sanity and reality. He's not a gaslighter for being sad that his long-term girlfriend wants to leave him and meet other people.
If you were to express to him that you are not ready and want to wait a few years, how would he react?
If it is badly, then it seems he might be trying to marry you to make it harder for you to leave once you find out how controlling/abusive he is. Really no one should be getting married after knowing someone for 3 months.
Again my man, I have to point out the obvious. If we are assuming this is correct, that she received it though non-sexual means, she's still working at this volatile working atmosphere.
Meaning, what's next? Herpes is the easiest off the top of my head. No cure for that.
Then you have gonorrhea. HPV (though not too bad for males). Mgen, I can go on. Or oldie but goldie – crabs.
Even under the assumption she's on the strait and narrow, we're also under the assumption her 'co-workers' are not. Nor are the clientele, obviously, as proven already.
It would almost be better to go by the assumption she's 'giving guys at the club more then what they paid for'. Because you can talk and come to an understanding not to do that. If it's just a part of the work week.. well good luck.
Infatuation is temporary, herpes is forever.
How the fuck did I forget that band?
They were one of the last mainstream CDs I purchased!
If she wants 5-10 and you want 2-5…. Couldn’t you guys just compromise on a 5k ring?
He wouldn’t drive her home from the restaurant…
‘Get me for child support’ … you should WANT to pay for your child to have a roof over their heads and to not go hungry.
This is why children shouldn’t have children. Fml.
So you've been married 6 months and are in couples therapy? Was this an arranged marriage?
Honestly, unless your goal is to be a trad wife. I would walk away now. I wouldn't even try to mend this. He believes you should be submissive and that he can control you. Save the text he sent for the divorce proceedings.
It’s not that it’s problematic. I think we just don’t appreciate the conceding and are more focused on our own feelings.
I think he's genuinely sweet and very awkward, but this just felt like a red flag to me. I'm still learning about him and vice/versa. I mean how can you know you love someone until you See them at their worst?
I think I might try to tell him that I'm not there yet and see how he handles it.
I listened to the series years ago. It’s unbelievable! And so so weird.