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Honest, but not brutally honest. Maybe go in with a variation of “I am really not interested in a relationship with anyone right now and have been enjoying our friendship as it currently is.” instead of “I am just not interested in you romatically.”
There is a subtle form to it because you do not want to leave her in a position where she is always thinking that there will be a time when you are suddenly ready for a relationship and she is the person you immediately will be thinking of.
Alternatively, it might be better to just rip the bandaid off and be cautiously direct and just plainly tell her that you really enjoy her company but strictly as friends.
Exactly. Even a year in, my sex life shouldn’t be like this. She does things during the day like kisses me a lot, is really great to me, etc that makes me think she’s still very much into me, but when it comes to real intimacy, it’s just non-existent.
On top of this, I’ve brought up how important it is for her to try to initiate or turn me on sometimes. It makes our sex even better than it usually is because I actually feel desired, you know? But there is 0 effort. The most she does effort wise is “oh I’ll do ___” tonight, then literally do NOTHING to get me excited for it, much less follow through. Thats her way of “initiation”.
I’ve tried to step up my game beyond the usually making out, kissing/touching sexually, to get her turned on. I mean I gave the girl a full spa night which she loved, and was telling me how she wanted to do this or that to me later. Then we get into bed, and she pretty much just lays down and goes to sleep. Like am I crazy for wanting her to initiate at that point? Its literally the smallest gesture that would make my world.
I agree with you though. She is a great best friend, and I love her to death. But if we can’t see eye to eye sexually, there’s no point in continuing. I’ll definitely talk to her before doing anything drastic. Its the very least I can do.
Would it still be pressuring if it was “i want kids” instead of “i want an open relationship?”
People have different needs in life. Just because one person sees an open relationship as important enough reason to break up doesnt mean that the other person accepting it just to try to hold on is being manipulated into that decision.
thats what i thought… she might evolve when I’m not around anymore, I’m doing everything I can to leave with caution and caring about her but I can’t make up for her parent’s faults…
I love cinnamon rolls. I haven't eaten one in ages!
This isn't about cinnamon rolls though, and the problem is not about cinnamon rolls. One cinnamon roll is not going to throw you off you diet completely unless it's the beginning of a binge eating session.
While your friend means well, I would tell him that you don't need his comments unless you are totally eating totally unhealthy foods and binge eating, that you know yourself and that you need to be self aware of your own limits for discipline without his comments at every bite you take.
Also: alcohol is not something a person's body needs to survive. People to need food, so self discipline is really harder with food choices.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I wish you well on your journey.
Honest, but not brutally honest. Maybe go in with a variation of “I am really not interested in a relationship with anyone right now and have been enjoying our friendship as it currently is.” instead of “I am just not interested in you romatically.”
There is a subtle form to it because you do not want to leave her in a position where she is always thinking that there will be a time when you are suddenly ready for a relationship and she is the person you immediately will be thinking of.
Alternatively, it might be better to just rip the bandaid off and be cautiously direct and just plainly tell her that you really enjoy her company but strictly as friends.
Exactly. Even a year in, my sex life shouldn’t be like this. She does things during the day like kisses me a lot, is really great to me, etc that makes me think she’s still very much into me, but when it comes to real intimacy, it’s just non-existent.
On top of this, I’ve brought up how important it is for her to try to initiate or turn me on sometimes. It makes our sex even better than it usually is because I actually feel desired, you know? But there is 0 effort. The most she does effort wise is “oh I’ll do ___” tonight, then literally do NOTHING to get me excited for it, much less follow through. Thats her way of “initiation”.
I’ve tried to step up my game beyond the usually making out, kissing/touching sexually, to get her turned on. I mean I gave the girl a full spa night which she loved, and was telling me how she wanted to do this or that to me later. Then we get into bed, and she pretty much just lays down and goes to sleep. Like am I crazy for wanting her to initiate at that point? Its literally the smallest gesture that would make my world.
I agree with you though. She is a great best friend, and I love her to death. But if we can’t see eye to eye sexually, there’s no point in continuing. I’ll definitely talk to her before doing anything drastic. Its the very least I can do.
Would it still be pressuring if it was “i want kids” instead of “i want an open relationship?”
People have different needs in life. Just because one person sees an open relationship as important enough reason to break up doesnt mean that the other person accepting it just to try to hold on is being manipulated into that decision.
thats what i thought… she might evolve when I’m not around anymore, I’m doing everything I can to leave with caution and caring about her but I can’t make up for her parent’s faults…
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I love cinnamon rolls. I haven't eaten one in ages!
This isn't about cinnamon rolls though, and the problem is not about cinnamon rolls. One cinnamon roll is not going to throw you off you diet completely unless it's the beginning of a binge eating session.
While your friend means well, I would tell him that you don't need his comments unless you are totally eating totally unhealthy foods and binge eating, that you know yourself and that you need to be self aware of your own limits for discipline without his comments at every bite you take.
Also: alcohol is not something a person's body needs to survive. People to need food, so self discipline is really harder with food choices.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I wish you well on your journey.