Read your other comments. Even if you're okay with this and only sell to friends? Imagine opening a restaurant to only serve people you know. He wont make a lot of money and he's doing this illegally. This is not smart and it's self explanatory that you had to ask reddit in the first place. Get out of there before it gets worse. You cant support this
Read your other comments. Even if you're okay with this and only sell to friends? Imagine opening a restaurant to only serve people you know. He wont make a lot of money and he's doing this illegally. This is not smart and it's self explanatory that you had to ask reddit in the first place. Get out of there before it gets worse. You cant support this
You did tell him he was going to have kids. He told you he wanted nothing to do with them or you. You listened and now your kids have a wonderful dad who’s been in their lives. Your ex lost out on his time of his own accord. You weren’t required to chase him down. He hasn’t paid a single dime to fund their lives.
You aren’t required to send your kids to him and disrupt their lives. I would, however, talk with your kids and see what they think. They seem to love their step dad like their own and I doubt they’d want to travel across country to meet people who are bullying their mom
the largest majority of men don't think before they speak
They still need to be held accountable for the words they speak. He doesn't seem to be. Men are not stupid, they should put in as much effort in communication as women do, if we're still going with your opinion
And I don't think it's true that men don't think. Some of them just don't care enough. And there are consequences for words and actions, like hurt feelings of your partner
I think so. Often for some cheating can be a symptom of their own insecurity, mental illness, etc. all of which can be addressed with therapy and intense work. The real question would be if you believe that this guy has actually put in the work and if you would be willing to take the gamble.
In my opinion, I wouldn’t give him the chance but this is due to my own feelings. I know cheating is something that will emotionally destroy me so why put myself in that situation if there is even a chance.
And she has hit you, so she is capable of hitting your children.
You need to tell her to leave, tell her you don’t give a shit where she goes, so long as it is not around you or your children.
Tell her that divorce will be happening, and that you will be filing and fighting for full custody, and with her physically abusing you, she will be lucky to get supervised visitation.
Well, if they are trolling, I hope they get some therapy or at least realize they’re wasting valuable time and effort on being a troll. They could put their energy and efforts towards something of value and purpose to their life or better yet, volunteering at an animal shelter or a soup kitchen.
I wouldn't judge her to quick, the pressure around latino families and the “respect” you owe them is hot to overcome, a process of years and therapy for some people. Lets hope this is an eyeopener for OP.
he’s a recovering drug addict who doesn’t seem to have the full intention of staying clean
You're not describing a recovering drug addict, you're describing an active drug addict who is persuading you to go down the path of addiction as well. You say you know he'll fuck up your life – you still have the opportunity to prevent that from happening.
She's a dam but case who dosent want to take accountability for her poor choices in life style tell her absolutely not your not sacrificing your health and fitness because she dosent wanna put in the work if she keeps up with the projecting judgements tell her you think a break should happen so she can work on herself it's a bit manipulating but the scare of you leaving will either kick her ass in gear or you see the person she truly is
During 6 years of my sealife, this was the most beautiful thing happened to me… May be i was just living in a wonderworld and when it was time to take a real decision, i got too cowardly to take one.
Let her go. You’re not going to get everything out off this relationship other than your self worth going to the dump. You’re worth so much more than her. You haven’t been together so long and I bet she will escalate her behavior. Just get tested for std. and so on because this if only the first you’ve heard about..
As a bigger woman who has lost 150lbs (68kg) over the past 4 years, I promise you that it has not changed my vaginal canal. My partner is bigger than average and I was afraid I would become “stretched” over time so I started kegels. I’ve since learned that sex doesn’t stretch us out, but having kids and aging do. I still do them though because having better control over those muscles has made sex more intense for the both of us.
Hi, out of all the comments I agree with you the most. I posted this with the intention of asking for advice and possibly similar experiences so I could see more perspectives. The fact that we are talking about this as a couple for me means that we are communicating. Neither one of us is willing to let this relationship go and we are both willing to compromise. I admit, I was too overwhelmed with what I learned so I was emotional and asked for advice here because this thread usually gives good advice. I learned the possibility of his sensitivity being an issue so I'll have a talk with him about that. With regards to getting him off, I have no problems with that. I can make him cum pretty fast with my hands and mouth alone. He also always cums when we have s/x. It just probably feels different for him and I'll explain that to him now so thank you everyone for your advice.
It always seems weird to me when my wife and I are out with married friends and they say the inevitable “but I got the last one” to each other when the bill comes. It doesn’t matter whose card we put down because it’s our money coming out of the same account. No stress.
You need to be honest man, especially with yourself.
You’re not happy in the relationship. It’s run it’s course. Break up with your GF. Give it some time, then see what’s up with this other girl.
As long as you don’t make any moves on your friend while still in a relationship, you’re doing nothing wrong. This is life, sometimes it takes meeting someone new to realize you’re not happy with what you have. That’s ok. As long as you don’t take things too far while in a relationship, just accept these feelings for what they are and end the relationship you’re currently in.
She loaned it to you and you said you would return it. The courteous thing to do is to offer to give it back to her.
Don't use the vase as a lure or leverage.
Think you misspelled EX girlfriend. Decent people don’t do that, no matter how angry they get.
Or ptsd or cptsd. Let's not single out one
Read your other comments. Even if you're okay with this and only sell to friends? Imagine opening a restaurant to only serve people you know. He wont make a lot of money and he's doing this illegally. This is not smart and it's self explanatory that you had to ask reddit in the first place. Get out of there before it gets worse. You cant support this
Will do that. But he's trying to contact me by talking to my friends and all that. I will block complete contact. Thank you granny ❤️
Will do that. But he's trying to contact me by talking to my friends and all that. I will block complete contact. Thank you granny ❤️
Read your other comments. Even if you're okay with this and only sell to friends? Imagine opening a restaurant to only serve people you know. He wont make a lot of money and he's doing this illegally. This is not smart and it's self explanatory that you had to ask reddit in the first place. Get out of there before it gets worse. You cant support this
It’s called birth control because it turns you into a raging monster nobody wants to have sex with
Sure you don‘t stay with cheaters. Luckily it has nothing to do with the post.
You did tell him he was going to have kids. He told you he wanted nothing to do with them or you. You listened and now your kids have a wonderful dad who’s been in their lives. Your ex lost out on his time of his own accord. You weren’t required to chase him down. He hasn’t paid a single dime to fund their lives.
You aren’t required to send your kids to him and disrupt their lives. I would, however, talk with your kids and see what they think. They seem to love their step dad like their own and I doubt they’d want to travel across country to meet people who are bullying their mom
the largest majority of men don't think before they speak
They still need to be held accountable for the words they speak. He doesn't seem to be. Men are not stupid, they should put in as much effort in communication as women do, if we're still going with your opinion
And I don't think it's true that men don't think. Some of them just don't care enough. And there are consequences for words and actions, like hurt feelings of your partner
I think so. Often for some cheating can be a symptom of their own insecurity, mental illness, etc. all of which can be addressed with therapy and intense work. The real question would be if you believe that this guy has actually put in the work and if you would be willing to take the gamble.
In my opinion, I wouldn’t give him the chance but this is due to my own feelings. I know cheating is something that will emotionally destroy me so why put myself in that situation if there is even a chance.
If she hasn’t lied about other partners why would she suddenly lie about this guy raping her. Idiotic thing to say. It was all before she met him.
No to marriage counselling – divorce.
And she has hit you, so she is capable of hitting your children.
You need to tell her to leave, tell her you don’t give a shit where she goes, so long as it is not around you or your children.
Tell her that divorce will be happening, and that you will be filing and fighting for full custody, and with her physically abusing you, she will be lucky to get supervised visitation.
Well, if they are trolling, I hope they get some therapy or at least realize they’re wasting valuable time and effort on being a troll. They could put their energy and efforts towards something of value and purpose to their life or better yet, volunteering at an animal shelter or a soup kitchen.
Context matters, and we don’t have that.
Have you asked her if she wants to make a change when she complained about how she looks?
I wouldn't judge her to quick, the pressure around latino families and the “respect” you owe them is hot to overcome, a process of years and therapy for some people. Lets hope this is an eyeopener for OP.
And now her actions have reinforced the whole “leave it because she will be a bitch about it anyway” thoughts. Way to go, wife!
he’s a recovering drug addict who doesn’t seem to have the full intention of staying clean
You're not describing a recovering drug addict, you're describing an active drug addict who is persuading you to go down the path of addiction as well. You say you know he'll fuck up your life – you still have the opportunity to prevent that from happening.
What would it take for you to walk away from him?
Lol no that was just an example of how people can be influenced. I mean some judges are fucking crazy though so maybe sometimes.
She's a dam but case who dosent want to take accountability for her poor choices in life style tell her absolutely not your not sacrificing your health and fitness because she dosent wanna put in the work if she keeps up with the projecting judgements tell her you think a break should happen so she can work on herself it's a bit manipulating but the scare of you leaving will either kick her ass in gear or you see the person she truly is
Please breakup, this isn't a healthy relationship!
You sure she doesn’t cheat on you when she goes out? 5am is late dude.
During 6 years of my sealife, this was the most beautiful thing happened to me… May be i was just living in a wonderworld and when it was time to take a real decision, i got too cowardly to take one.
Just to be clear… your FWB wants to give you an extra B… What's the reason to not have more benefits with your friend if that's what she wants?
do you know 23f? are you attracted? what's the reason to say no?
Let her go. You’re not going to get everything out off this relationship other than your self worth going to the dump. You’re worth so much more than her. You haven’t been together so long and I bet she will escalate her behavior. Just get tested for std. and so on because this if only the first you’ve heard about..
As a bigger woman who has lost 150lbs (68kg) over the past 4 years, I promise you that it has not changed my vaginal canal. My partner is bigger than average and I was afraid I would become “stretched” over time so I started kegels. I’ve since learned that sex doesn’t stretch us out, but having kids and aging do. I still do them though because having better control over those muscles has made sex more intense for the both of us.
Hi, out of all the comments I agree with you the most. I posted this with the intention of asking for advice and possibly similar experiences so I could see more perspectives. The fact that we are talking about this as a couple for me means that we are communicating. Neither one of us is willing to let this relationship go and we are both willing to compromise. I admit, I was too overwhelmed with what I learned so I was emotional and asked for advice here because this thread usually gives good advice. I learned the possibility of his sensitivity being an issue so I'll have a talk with him about that. With regards to getting him off, I have no problems with that. I can make him cum pretty fast with my hands and mouth alone. He also always cums when we have s/x. It just probably feels different for him and I'll explain that to him now so thank you everyone for your advice.
Completely irrelevant… but she makes $20 an hour reading?? What exactly is her job? Lol
It always seems weird to me when my wife and I are out with married friends and they say the inevitable “but I got the last one” to each other when the bill comes. It doesn’t matter whose card we put down because it’s our money coming out of the same account. No stress.
Your welcome!
You need to be honest man, especially with yourself.
You’re not happy in the relationship. It’s run it’s course. Break up with your GF. Give it some time, then see what’s up with this other girl.
As long as you don’t make any moves on your friend while still in a relationship, you’re doing nothing wrong. This is life, sometimes it takes meeting someone new to realize you’re not happy with what you have. That’s ok. As long as you don’t take things too far while in a relationship, just accept these feelings for what they are and end the relationship you’re currently in.