I can feel the love you have for your husband through your writing, I have no doubt there is a ton of love there. But, he is also being incredibly selfish and both of them are being INCREDIBLY rude to you by carrying on this emotional affair right in front of you. Your husband then gaslit you into thinking YOU were crazy and jealous to take the heat off himself when it was very obvious what they were doing. If I were you I would insist he cuts all communication with her (this should have been what HE DID on his own without you needing to ask) and marriage counseling stat. You need to put down a naked boundary of “ if you do not block her on everything and devote your whole energy into saving our marriage I am going to file for legal separation and move towards divorce. You also need to speak with this woman, the way she is disrespecting you in your own home is appalling. You’ve got this love, trust your instincts and love yourself enough you know you deserve better and ask for it. Good luck friend xo
Thank you for sounding it out
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They’re telling you to post this there for better answers, not advice on intercourse.
I can feel the love you have for your husband through your writing, I have no doubt there is a ton of love there. But, he is also being incredibly selfish and both of them are being INCREDIBLY rude to you by carrying on this emotional affair right in front of you. Your husband then gaslit you into thinking YOU were crazy and jealous to take the heat off himself when it was very obvious what they were doing. If I were you I would insist he cuts all communication with her (this should have been what HE DID on his own without you needing to ask) and marriage counseling stat. You need to put down a naked boundary of “ if you do not block her on everything and devote your whole energy into saving our marriage I am going to file for legal separation and move towards divorce. You also need to speak with this woman, the way she is disrespecting you in your own home is appalling. You’ve got this love, trust your instincts and love yourself enough you know you deserve better and ask for it. Good luck friend xo
So here's the thing. It doesnt matter how other ppl think about it. It matters what u think & want to put up with.