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I wanna know about the physically abusive part now too ?
Yes…a very good point.
You are building a relationship with your fiance' and that relationship has, at its core, communication, respect and affection. Think of these as the nutrients neccesary to grow a healthy “plant”. You need to make every effort NOT to have these qualities influenced or corrupted in any way or the “plant” they grow will be tainted or corrupted as well.
IMVVHE I have found that even the most severe rebuff by family and friends resolves itself with time and familiarity. And certainly, your demonstrated desire to know the family on a deeper level will be of much help in this.
However, in the case of your intimate relationship with your fiance' there must be no possible hint that his energy and focus are anything but entirely yours….not if you hope to have the Trust that will make its appearance in about 3 years. In turn, Trust will also depend on the authentic Bond you have with him INDEPENDENT of the reception you received.
The WORST possible thing you can do is allow the dynamics of the Bond
and the dynamics with the family to ever allow one to impact the other.
My wife's not making any sort of compromises and just ignore me. Even the kids have realised their mum is ignoring their dad. Now my eldest is doing the same thing to her mum and I begged her not to do it because it's going to create more shit for daddy and grandma. It's not good for the kids, it's not good for my mental health and the negative vibe in the house is just crap we don't need.
I've been telling her for awhile I've been neglected. I've told her it's a 2 way street – if you start neglecting me it's just natural I'm going to be resentful and this vicious cycle repeats itself. The thing is, she doesn't do the kids pick up/drop off, she doesn't have to keeping up with the house, she just rock up to work, go to the gym, come home and look after the kids' school work so I get a break.
Heh separating. She thinks I don't want to separate purely comes down to money. I won't deny it but when I've worked my arse off for what we have today then you conveniently taking away at least 50% of it, I am going to be a bit salty and sour about it. That's why the let's buy the outlaws an apartment to live in is such a tempting option as it's significantly cheaper and doesn't hurt my finance goals too much whereas a complete divorce will tip it upside down.
My biggest gripe is, I know the MIL is rubbing her hands hoping this will happen so it's a payday for their entire family. I know for a fact their assets' value have shrunk big time in China so their big noting themselves to have cash for a house here is nothing but all talk. Again, that pisses me off to no end.
You said you fucked up a lot, broke her heart, and lost her trust. I don't think there's anything you can say unfortunately. Actions speak louder than words. And sometimes you can't fix broken things. I know it's not what you want to hear, but it's the truth. All you can do is try to be a better person moving forward. Be a good dad and a good co-parent. Don't give your ex any problems. I can understand that it's naked to see her with someone else, but you'll have to let it go. There are times that people end up back together, but that will depend on whether she can heal from whatever transpired, see that you've actually changed, and can trust you again.
You don't chase romantic interests. If they aren't actively interested, you walk.
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No contact is the correct way to go. He needs to figure out what he really wants. If he doesn't contact you again, you have your answer and can finally move on.
Lol too true.
Well are you stupid?
He couldn't give a flying fig about you. If that is what you want, keep dating him.
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I mean, do you want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks you are a gold digger? Is that the opinion of a healthy, respectful and loving partner?
I know, but how do I deal with it ? The only option I see is ending the friendship with the girl, but I really don't want to.
doesnt sound like youre over him yet. If you were, I would think there wouldnt be tears and you wouldnt be hurt if their was a kid on his side coming. Youre in denial and your bf is making the right move on his end. I would do the same in his position. He doesnt have to sit and play the backup role, because thats how youve made him feel now.
I stayed with a cheater, they just projected themself onto me and made me feel crazy in everything I did.
Don't do it. If she loved you as she claims, she wouldn't have had sex with anyone else. That's a cheater's cop-out to when they get caught and then try to manipulate the situation in their favor.
Break up and block. She's putting you at risk.
For some reason I see notifications but I don't see any comments I don't know what is happening. To summarize everything, he is a really nice respectful guy, he is smart and charming and sweet and gentle, I am not repulsed by him nor that I found him ugly, never had sex because of cultural reasons, and I don't think it will be a big issue tbh. When I look at him, in my mind I am like I can do better, I wish he looked different, which is shallow, but yeah. I also wish he was more advanced in his career in life. The fact that I feel “better” than him makes me have some negative feelings towards him and sometimes I wi say or do things that I regret.and of course I apologize immediately but that is abusive. Part of me wants to leave him because I feel I am just hurting him and leading him and if I took time I will find someone that will fit the image of the guy that I am looking for. But another part of me feels that this is very arrogant, condescending, rude and mean, and that I am no better than any other person, and that he is a great guy and has some amazing qualities and it is not that easy to find someone that I agree with him on many things. I don't really want to leave him, but I don't want to be an abuser, I don't want to hurt him, I don't want to make him feel bad about himself, I want him to be happy. Confident. Content.
For some reason I see notifications but I don't see any comments I don't know what is happening. To summarize everything, he is a really nice respectful guy, he is smart and charming and sweet and gentle, I am not repulsed by him nor that I found him ugly, never had sex because of cultural reasons, and I don't think it will be a big issue tbh. When I look at him, in my mind I am like I can do better, I wish he looked different, which is shallow, but yeah. I also wish he was more advanced in his career in life. The fact that I feel “better” than him makes me have some negative feelings towards him and sometimes I wi say or do things that I regret.and of course I apologize immediately but that is abusive. Part of me wants to leave him because I feel I am just hurting him and leading him and if I took time I will find someone that will fit the image of the guy that I am looking for. But another part of me feels that this is very arrogant, condescending, rude and mean, and that I am no better than any other person, and that he is a great guy and has some amazing qualities and it is not that easy to find someone that I agree with him on many things. I don't really want to leave him, but I don't want to be an abuser, I don't want to hurt him, I don't want to make him feel bad about himself, I want him to be happy. Confident. Content.
“To be honest, he has always neglected me”. Okay??? I don’t know why you’re still trying to change a 15 year behavior. Just leave or just used to it.
You said you don't accept being verbally abused or being called a bitch, but unless you leave you 100% do.
This very much should be a deal breaker, and you need to get out before things get much worse.
The fact of the matter is you don't necesserily “deserve” per se. You aren't automatically entitled to “try” it and I don't think you understand that.
Unless you have reason to be suspicious I think you should just make a concerted effort to ignore her phone completely. Don’t look at it, don’t touch it. Show her by your actions she doesn’t need to be concerned about you invading her privacy. You’ve only been together for a few months. I wouldn’t be comfortable leaving my phone around someone I haven’t known very long either.
If you have reason to be suspicious, that’s another story. I still don’t think you should be concerned about her phone, you should instead ask yourself if someone you don’t trust is a good partner for you.
Okay so then stop complaining when your gf acts her age
Yeah there was one a short while back where I was pointing out a flaw in his reasoning. I was telling him it wasn't just one shitty night out where everything went wrong, the shitty night out was just like the last straw, and I explained how his wife had probably felt about some previous tiffs he mentioned leading to him keeping his phone on him all the time. The wife actually chimed in to say that I was right on the money and that he was keeping his phone close because he was having an affair!
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Well, you have repeatedly make her understand your job will always come before her birthday. Btw do you work entire day or does her birthday celebration take entirety of the day? I don't understand why it is such a big problem in the first place.
I will assume you have difficult material situation (so you couldn't afford for example fake illness or just ditch job on that day and go spent her birthday with her regardless of what employer might think, like some people do), however you do know how important it is for your girlfriend.
It might just be that in the place in your life you are incompatible. She expects your plans and events to come before work and perhaps you can't afford it (if you can and just do it out of loyalty to your employer she should leave you btw). That is just how it is, she already knows she can not count on you adjusting your work to her plans so she will not adjust her plans to you when you suddenly have decided to grace her with your time.
She is likely going to leave some time in the near future.
Read your post again and pretend it’s a friend or sister telling you this stuff about her boyfriend. What would you tell them? Apply that to yourself. You have abuse goggles on, meaning your perception of what is okay and what should be tolerated is warped because of your past trauma and your current relationship.
You need to LEAVE.
If you have the abortion, there's really no reason to contact him. “Hey, just letting you know you got me pregnant, but don't worry because I’m not keeping it.” sounds empty, right?
Chose the one you like the best, then wear it. That’s it, that’s all there is to it. It doesn’t matter what shape your body happens to be or your boyfriends shitty opinion.
Seriously though, I know Reddit can be quick to say ‘dump him’ but it sounds like your boyfriend does diddly squat for your confidence and actively crushes your self-esteem, this is unacceptable and dump worthy. Some couples don’t care so much about physical compliments and that’s fine, but you would obviously appreciate some and he seems capable of giving them, like it’s on his radar, so make it make sense. But to go so far as saying you’re not desirable enough?? Fuck off. The only appropriate answer he could give is asking which one you liked best and going with that, or just giving you an answer and saying you’d look great in any. He can’t even hide behind doing you a kindness by steering you away from a choice you might regret later, all 3 are obviously revealing and so that’s obviously the style you want to wear. Just pick one dude, it’s not difficult.
You deserve someone that builds you up not tears you down. Maybe he can learn with open communication but honestly it’s been 3 years already and this is basic shit. You can do better.
I'm not pussyfooting. Clearly, you see I said I blocked him. He just won't stop trying to regain contact.
First of all, thanks for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate it!
I guess my fear about seeming clingy is in case his more restrained behaviour is a sign of wanting to take things slowly – anytime I've asked, he's said he's happy at the pace we're going, but I worry this may be seen as something of an escalation – does that make sense?
I am definitely planning to bring this up with him this week though
He’s on my Instagram and snap :/
Most of the time I just listen to an audiobook in my earbuds while we're at it.
Oi…That's gotta sting.
Look, you're on medications that control your bipolar disorder and that's great. You aren't interested in sex while you have it under control and that's absolutely fine. But you two have totally separate sexual needs and this will not work out in the long term. You can't force yourself to want more sex and he can't force himself to want less. Things like you listening to an audiobook while he is trying to connect with you on an intimate level or you just going through the motions to get him off is going to (and by the sounds of it, already has) cause a bit if resentment and in all likelihood cause him to feel rejected in your relationship.
The best thing would be to accept you are on two different wavelengths and part ways.
Did you try putting the phone number into your gf's phone?
I can’t reduce romantic relationships to platonic ones, never have been able to. On the times I have, I went back to those girls eventually
If a man can’t cry in front of his woman, bitch gotta go.
Hence the compromise that if he has sex with our friend, I will be involved until I am comfortable. I just don't really have the desire to sleep with anyone besides him, and it's not that hes trying to be totally open, to the extent that before our relationship we used to talk about him experimenting with one of our other friends he was curious about and recently he has said he's no longer interested, and not at all with strangers. The fact that I'm emotionally struggling with it is what I'm trying to figure out, I want to be able to either understand how he finds it so okay or better describe why I don't.
You owe her nothing. She dumped you and has very quickly moved on. She’s shown you she doesn’t give a shit about you.
Tell her to collect her crap herself that you’re no longer dating so you aren’t obliged to give in to her selfish demands.
He can work it out.
So just start thinking about it? Do you think your son is going to be this age again? Do you think you'll be able to capture those moments again?
She's asking you to do a very simple thing. Just do it. She's not communicating in a good way, but it kind of sounds like this isn't the first time this has been brought up.
Just take some fucking pictures of your wife and son.
I mean some US states give the other parent's rapist parental/custody rights. Not an alleged rapist – convicted ones, after they've released. So…yeah.
I’d be doing exactly what you’re doing, she kept that for 15 years and mimicked the actions of a child who’s family had been ripped apart for what, some sort of petty revenge?
She’d Absolutely not be in mine, nor my child’s life when that’s how she behaves.. the rest is your dads choice/loss.
You are clearly not compatible. She wont communicate in a constructive way and her feelings about sex are totally different than yours. You both need to find someone who matches them on basic levels. Unblock her and break up with her in the kindest way you can. This is just not going to work.
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Dads can have post partum depression as well! Please find a therapist
Wow wow, this is an excellent response and really highlights how gifting should be interpreted. I agree, it hurts a bit in the moment but on further thinking about it and coming across comments like yours and many others, one realises that it's just to make someone happy and the thought behind it more than the actual gift