If you've got it in you to cheat, why not take that same energy and leave??
Cheating might make you think the scores even, but then when it doesnt, and you're back in the dating pool, you're going to think everyones at it because “even I did it so what's stopping anyone else”
I don’t understand why you haven’t just simply told to the truth to people. He cheated, we broke up. Why are you protecting this POS. Tell the truth, block delete and definitely move on.
I don’t understand why you haven’t just simply told to the truth to people. He cheated, we broke up. Why are you protecting this POS. Tell the truth, block delete and definitely move on.
Currently going through the same thing. See what your ex will agree to on you taking the dogs. I’m sure you could take them for walks more and a smaller place to clean is always good. You could also always see if you can get roommates to help cover the cost. That’s what I’ve been trying to do lol it’s not easy though. There are some apps I use if you need a recommendation
I think you need to consider your longer term goals irrespective of him.
What do you want for your career? Do you feinitely want marriage? By when? Kids? Are you okay being a trailing spouse?
At the end of the day, if you want kids, you’re biologically coming to a critical time. If kids aren’t on the table then I don’t see the point in insisting on an engagement before moving if your career is pretty portable. I’d stop beating around the bush and share an actual timeline.
Your fear of leaving friends and family is pretty normal. I’ve moved 26 times within the US, Europe, and Africa for my job or partner’s job and haven’t lived closer than an 8 hour drive from my home town since college. But I know people who have never left the state they were born in and are actually proud of that—which seems super weird to me. To each their own of course.
I dunno. You’re not a passenger in this relationship so you need to ask for what you want and be very clear on your expectations and timelines. I think a lot of people who are “perpetual students” tend to feel like they can’t start their real adult life till they’re done with school and established in spite of the fact that they’re damn near middle aged. Men especially seem to have a checklist in their head of things they need to accomplish before marriage and kids career/financial wise and forget that for us women, the clock is ticking when it comes to kids because theirs really isn’t.
You'll never win with these clowns, buddy. The Reddit virgins are circling their wagons ??
You’re very right, thank you for reminding me of this. Us men have to be better with that and have a long way to go…
If you've got it in you to cheat, why not take that same energy and leave??
Cheating might make you think the scores even, but then when it doesnt, and you're back in the dating pool, you're going to think everyones at it because “even I did it so what's stopping anyone else”
DARVO, totally common tactic of manipulation, yes.
I don’t understand why you haven’t just simply told to the truth to people. He cheated, we broke up. Why are you protecting this POS. Tell the truth, block delete and definitely move on.
I don’t understand why you haven’t just simply told to the truth to people. He cheated, we broke up. Why are you protecting this POS. Tell the truth, block delete and definitely move on.
Currently going through the same thing. See what your ex will agree to on you taking the dogs. I’m sure you could take them for walks more and a smaller place to clean is always good. You could also always see if you can get roommates to help cover the cost. That’s what I’ve been trying to do lol it’s not easy though. There are some apps I use if you need a recommendation
I think you need to consider your longer term goals irrespective of him.
What do you want for your career? Do you feinitely want marriage? By when? Kids? Are you okay being a trailing spouse?
At the end of the day, if you want kids, you’re biologically coming to a critical time. If kids aren’t on the table then I don’t see the point in insisting on an engagement before moving if your career is pretty portable. I’d stop beating around the bush and share an actual timeline.
Your fear of leaving friends and family is pretty normal. I’ve moved 26 times within the US, Europe, and Africa for my job or partner’s job and haven’t lived closer than an 8 hour drive from my home town since college. But I know people who have never left the state they were born in and are actually proud of that—which seems super weird to me. To each their own of course.
I dunno. You’re not a passenger in this relationship so you need to ask for what you want and be very clear on your expectations and timelines. I think a lot of people who are “perpetual students” tend to feel like they can’t start their real adult life till they’re done with school and established in spite of the fact that they’re damn near middle aged. Men especially seem to have a checklist in their head of things they need to accomplish before marriage and kids career/financial wise and forget that for us women, the clock is ticking when it comes to kids because theirs really isn’t.