It’s not like he’s being polite towards my BF he’s just flat out ignoring him. I don’t think it’s fair that he gets along and chats to my siblings partners and not my bf
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Somebody is trickle truthing you…which means there’s more to be discovered.
Cheating with a sex worker is a deliberate choice. There isn’t even the cover of just hanging out with a bar and it happened. Both would be breakup worthy.
You need an std test too if you’ve had sex since he’s been back. 6-8 weeks after last contact for accurate results.
In Colorado my ex could've paid that much. The formula was how many overnights he had (0) / who pays expenses like school and daycare (me) / who pays health insurance (me.) So because I had all the responsibility of paying for everything and having her every night I could've gotten about 900 a month while he was making $18 an hour. We opted to choose a lower amount because he wouldn't be able to afford rent.
BS, he knows why, he just doesn't want to tell you. I personally would walk away because if he isn't depressed he is acting like he's cheating. I also wouldn't let this go any further and I would pack up and walk away
For me, it takes quite a bit of “warming up” and then hitting the right places at the right angles. But true intimacy and knowing your partner is different.
My hubs knows my neck is a place that gets me going. Some kisses to the right spots and I’m almost there. Kisses to my flower for a few minutes… so much almost there. Then certain positions and I am there!
Every woman is different. You have to learn what gets you there. I had pleasured myself both with partners and without for years and learned my erotic spots on my body that changed the dynamic.
I learned that I like being talked to: “thank you for letting me kiss you here” “I want you so much and just want to kiss this spot because I know it arouses you” “ Doesn’t this feel so good? “ as I’m kissed in places I would only want by the most intimate person in my life.
It depends on what you want. You have to find that. And ask for it.
2 makes me nauseous. Guys who primp their taches go up at the ends like that. Using oils and waxes that smell bad and look greasy. Only Victorian role play villains and Hercule Poirot get a pass.
She won't be able to change her sleep farting, it's out of her control. I'd suggest investing in an air purifier, you can get stand alone ones or wall plug ones and a freshener or sheet spray for your own area to clear and cover the smell at the same time. Depending on your layout you may be able to use a fan to funnel the smell away from you.
Okay? That doesn't mean he's ready for a kid. I also have a breeding kink, but that doesn't mean I'm ready to be pregnant for 9 months and parent for the next 18+ years
It seems like a conversation y’all should have had before marriage. If she doesn’t want children, there’s nothing that can OR should be done to change her mind. You wouldn’t want a one sided relationship with a child she didn’t want.
That being said, I’m sorry that you want a child and your wife doesn’t. It seems like maybe you both should see a counselor to work out the feelings here, but if YOU want children, it may mean divorcing your wife.
Disgusting situations don't really translate in every day life. I watch quite younger guys (around 18-21) for porn. But in real life, they don't excite me at all. If the husband is creeping on her daughters, there should be clear signals in his behaviour (acting creepy, staring etc)
Awww there’s nothing like your first love, so I understand. But you gotta do what’s best for you. Dont rush to break up then, sit with your feelings and think about what u rlly want. Have a talk with her about those feelings. Don’t expect her to just change tho, bcus if she’s a bubbly person u can’t dim her light.
Stop living in this limbo. Let him know that it's been too long, it's over. Maybe just spend some time on yourself instead of floating from sort of relationship to sort of relationship.
I've had my fair share of birth control stunting my libido. It's why I fought to get a tubal ligation. Couple of years later, I had to have a hysterectomy anyway (irony amirite? ?)
No, don't lie to her. Bullshit is always the worst thing to hear in a situation like this. Be straighforward and just say you don't want to be with her romantically and that's that. Include or not include the in-depth reason if you want, but don't make up shit.
I hate emergency vehicles and cover my ears every time they go by. I feel loud sounds rumble in my chest. I wear earplugs and sunglasses at concerts bc I also HATE bright lights.
I keep my prescription sunglasses on when I go to the store bc it just helps me feel more grounded.
Don’t get me started on tags and touch defensiveness!
SPD and ADHD can definitely have some crossover haha
I fully agree. I do not have sympathy for this individual, they have lied with a straight face in the comments on this post. No idea what's actually happening in this situation but again, I really do get bummed out that this stuff is anonymous because there needs to be someone who has the best interests of the children in mind intervening in real life. Not just people trying to play hero online.
Cheating is and always will be a decision made by the ofendee. Short of being drugged up to the point of losing all control (which I would then consider any sexual contact to be pantamount to rape), there is absolutely no logical reason you can come up with to justify it.
As others have said, walk away and get tested. The guy clearly doesn't love you if he seeks other avenues to get his rocks off.
You shouldn’t put your life on hold for a potential or possibility. It wouldn’t be as much an issue but it would still be an issue. You can’t make their family like you but take your time with your feelings and emotions
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It’s not like he’s being polite towards my BF he’s just flat out ignoring him. I don’t think it’s fair that he gets along and chats to my siblings partners and not my bf
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Somebody is trickle truthing you…which means there’s more to be discovered.
Cheating with a sex worker is a deliberate choice. There isn’t even the cover of just hanging out with a bar and it happened. Both would be breakup worthy.
You need an std test too if you’ve had sex since he’s been back. 6-8 weeks after last contact for accurate results.
In Colorado my ex could've paid that much. The formula was how many overnights he had (0) / who pays expenses like school and daycare (me) / who pays health insurance (me.) So because I had all the responsibility of paying for everything and having her every night I could've gotten about 900 a month while he was making $18 an hour. We opted to choose a lower amount because he wouldn't be able to afford rent.
BS, he knows why, he just doesn't want to tell you. I personally would walk away because if he isn't depressed he is acting like he's cheating. I also wouldn't let this go any further and I would pack up and walk away
If she’s not even willing to have the conversation, that says a lot.
Run.
I’m saying he was a lot more responsive and engaged in conversation prior.
I’m saying he was a lot more responsive and engaged in conversation prior.
Son… get out of this. It is a bottomless pit of despair for you. She is going to take you down a spiral of chaos.
Probably not. And one of my current dogs is a lab/Shepard mix, and at 12, he still gets the zoomies, do totally agree on them.
You have been groomed and abused since you were practically a child. Get out before your child is his next victim.
For me, it takes quite a bit of “warming up” and then hitting the right places at the right angles. But true intimacy and knowing your partner is different.
My hubs knows my neck is a place that gets me going. Some kisses to the right spots and I’m almost there. Kisses to my flower for a few minutes… so much almost there. Then certain positions and I am there!
Every woman is different. You have to learn what gets you there. I had pleasured myself both with partners and without for years and learned my erotic spots on my body that changed the dynamic.
I learned that I like being talked to: “thank you for letting me kiss you here” “I want you so much and just want to kiss this spot because I know it arouses you” “ Doesn’t this feel so good? “ as I’m kissed in places I would only want by the most intimate person in my life.
It depends on what you want. You have to find that. And ask for it.
2 makes me nauseous. Guys who primp their taches go up at the ends like that. Using oils and waxes that smell bad and look greasy. Only Victorian role play villains and Hercule Poirot get a pass.
She won't be able to change her sleep farting, it's out of her control. I'd suggest investing in an air purifier, you can get stand alone ones or wall plug ones and a freshener or sheet spray for your own area to clear and cover the smell at the same time. Depending on your layout you may be able to use a fan to funnel the smell away from you.
Girls would be not okay with it too lmao
Okay? That doesn't mean he's ready for a kid. I also have a breeding kink, but that doesn't mean I'm ready to be pregnant for 9 months and parent for the next 18+ years
It seems like a conversation y’all should have had before marriage. If she doesn’t want children, there’s nothing that can OR should be done to change her mind. You wouldn’t want a one sided relationship with a child she didn’t want.
That being said, I’m sorry that you want a child and your wife doesn’t. It seems like maybe you both should see a counselor to work out the feelings here, but if YOU want children, it may mean divorcing your wife.
Disgusting situations don't really translate in every day life. I watch quite younger guys (around 18-21) for porn. But in real life, they don't excite me at all. If the husband is creeping on her daughters, there should be clear signals in his behaviour (acting creepy, staring etc)
Awww there’s nothing like your first love, so I understand. But you gotta do what’s best for you. Dont rush to break up then, sit with your feelings and think about what u rlly want. Have a talk with her about those feelings. Don’t expect her to just change tho, bcus if she’s a bubbly person u can’t dim her light.
Stop living in this limbo. Let him know that it's been too long, it's over. Maybe just spend some time on yourself instead of floating from sort of relationship to sort of relationship.
Your GF is wrong. Being decent parents and co-parents is the best for your child.
I've had my fair share of birth control stunting my libido. It's why I fought to get a tubal ligation. Couple of years later, I had to have a hysterectomy anyway (irony amirite? ?)
No, don't lie to her. Bullshit is always the worst thing to hear in a situation like this. Be straighforward and just say you don't want to be with her romantically and that's that. Include or not include the in-depth reason if you want, but don't make up shit.
Definitely get tested for STIs.
That was my thinking also. It looks really bad.
I hate emergency vehicles and cover my ears every time they go by. I feel loud sounds rumble in my chest. I wear earplugs and sunglasses at concerts bc I also HATE bright lights.
I keep my prescription sunglasses on when I go to the store bc it just helps me feel more grounded.
Don’t get me started on tags and touch defensiveness!
SPD and ADHD can definitely have some crossover haha
I fully agree. I do not have sympathy for this individual, they have lied with a straight face in the comments on this post. No idea what's actually happening in this situation but again, I really do get bummed out that this stuff is anonymous because there needs to be someone who has the best interests of the children in mind intervening in real life. Not just people trying to play hero online.
Cheating is and always will be a decision made by the ofendee. Short of being drugged up to the point of losing all control (which I would then consider any sexual contact to be pantamount to rape), there is absolutely no logical reason you can come up with to justify it.
As others have said, walk away and get tested. The guy clearly doesn't love you if he seeks other avenues to get his rocks off.
You shouldn’t put your life on hold for a potential or possibility. It wouldn’t be as much an issue but it would still be an issue. You can’t make their family like you but take your time with your feelings and emotions
He's looking at the world through his eyes. He wants to fuck every woman he knows. Doesn't mean others do as well. Get rid of him ASAP.