From the way she expresses that she needs you to forgive him…it seems like she's really trying to tell herself that she should forgive him. Is she sure she forgave him? Can she forget all this? Several people can never forget infidelity, and returning with this reminder is not the healthiest. My sister went through a somewhat similar situation, she went back with her partner and they solved the problems. The same thing happens to me as to you, I didn't have much intention of meeting him or being close and it's still the same until now. She doesn't pressure me or our relatives, nor does she insist that we should forgive him for something that didn't really happen between us. He didn't cheat on us, and your sister's boyfriend didn't cheat on you. You are nothing but cordial to him, plus he is present at family events. Holding a grudge against her is normal, and it will take your time, something she must understand. Don't push her about her comments, she tries to divert her direction slightly, and maybe she'll let it go in time. To be honest I feel like he could cheat on her again.
You’re teaching your kids to be less of themselves and that abusive relationships = love. Your husband is teaching them to control, guilt trip, alienate, and verbally abuse to get their way. They will repeat these patterns in their adult relationships. This is the cycle of abuse. Were your parents also like this?
100% depends on the crime. One of my favorite YouTubers went to prison for a couple months for a few grams of marijuana, I’d have no problem with that.
Did he get caught with a joint in an illegal state?
It's not.
From the way she expresses that she needs you to forgive him…it seems like she's really trying to tell herself that she should forgive him. Is she sure she forgave him? Can she forget all this? Several people can never forget infidelity, and returning with this reminder is not the healthiest. My sister went through a somewhat similar situation, she went back with her partner and they solved the problems. The same thing happens to me as to you, I didn't have much intention of meeting him or being close and it's still the same until now. She doesn't pressure me or our relatives, nor does she insist that we should forgive him for something that didn't really happen between us. He didn't cheat on us, and your sister's boyfriend didn't cheat on you. You are nothing but cordial to him, plus he is present at family events. Holding a grudge against her is normal, and it will take your time, something she must understand. Don't push her about her comments, she tries to divert her direction slightly, and maybe she'll let it go in time. To be honest I feel like he could cheat on her again.
You’re teaching your kids to be less of themselves and that abusive relationships = love. Your husband is teaching them to control, guilt trip, alienate, and verbally abuse to get their way. They will repeat these patterns in their adult relationships. This is the cycle of abuse. Were your parents also like this?
100% depends on the crime. One of my favorite YouTubers went to prison for a couple months for a few grams of marijuana, I’d have no problem with that.
Did he get caught with a joint in an illegal state?
Stay away from her and all other women. There are no women bad enough to deserve you.
It is a pattern, she said so.