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Having very hot bounderies about what you think is acceptable in a relationship is not immidiatly abusive
r/deadbedroom
So break up?
If everyone here is misunderstanding you, then again….. you are the issue.
Figure it out.
Just a theory: It’s a competition! Don’t try to change her as she will want to win. Stay in your lane.
I want to find ways to make things work because we're great when it does. I just don't know what to do or how. This is my longest relationship so far and I don't want to give up on it
I can't keep going down this rabbit well of unclicking the downvoted OP replies. It's sufficient, OP sincerely could not accept something nice from his GF due to his own (likely) chauvinistic sense of pride.
Uh..why?? Like just why? You barely knew each other..then he straight up tells you that he wants nothing to do with the baby and you're surprised he doesn't want anything to do with the baby? Also he was going to break up to you and this is the compromise you thought would work best?
Bingo!
I'm sorry for what happened between you two. Was there something you think that started making it change?
What's the issue? You're with a liar who disrespects you and is hiding a secret relationship with his ex.
Are you actually confused about what to do?
Eh, probably not as many as he thinks. Some dudes think a woman smiling and being nice mean flirting. Just ask any waitress, barista, or bartender.
If she wants to talk about again, she will bring it up.
I think you did the right thing, for what the word of a stranger on the internet is worth. If you didn't say anything, she would have reached out and it would have given her bio-mom the opportunity to tell her whatever she wanted. You told her the truth before she could be fed any lie.
Now, maybe it would easier to reach her through her fiance? He's mad at you at the moment, but maybe you can lay down the situation in a way that will help him calm down so you can work together to help your daughter: You didn't want to tell her, and you would have preferred to take that secret to the grave, but your daughter was dead set on reaching out to her estranged relatives so you had to make the choice between telling her the truth yourself or letting strangers tell her, possibly twisting events in a way that could have broken your family forever. You chose the lesser of two evils.
Even if he doesn't approve or understand, at the very least you could have a truce to support your daughter, talk to her, go to a family counselor together…
Yes tou are in the wrong. You should have left already.
That's practical. 2 males at first try! How convenient. ?
This presents as a kind of WTH scenario. So you heard from her cousin (who may or may not be a reliable source) that your girlfriend would prefer to have a male child with you. That's definitely not great, but as long as she'd love a daughter just the same it's hardly a deal breaker. It's unclear why the cousin is involved or how the topic of fostering/adoption is related. The advice would be to cut out the middle man and have a direct conversation with this woman you claim to be in a relationship with.
Gotcha.
I’m a guy the thought of anyone else being with my wife would not work. Also I’m not looking to find someone else. That said I am going to ask if your husband was in his right mind at the time. Having 2 of his children and he comes up with this. I have a 7 month old grandson and a 1 year old is the best times there is. I can see where your coming from. I just can’t see where he came up with that idea. A total brain fart.
I see. So you'll just spend the rest of your life being slapped in the face anytime you challenge her, huh. You'll convince yourself because it doesn't hurt that it is okay.
You're asking us how to convince her to change her toxic views on gender norms and here you are trapped by the very same things.
Exactly the type of advice I'll expect from a religious person. Be dishonest to your wife but be honest to a man who doesn't even know you. Very on point.
You tell him that until he's got things figured out and has solid plans in place to continue receiving help, you're stepping away from the relationship.
But once you do, don't wait for him. Don't put your life on hold hoping he'll have this fixed. Live! your life. Once you're away from him you'll probably realize how much happier you are without him and not want to go back.
You deserve to be treated so much better. Keep in mind if he was able to hide this for a while, it's very possible he's hiding more and could even get violent.
My man does things like this all the time. Don’t make assumptions because you don’t know anything about me, or my life. Why are people on Reddit like this? It’s also not simply the act of bringing a tea, it’s the act of trying to research things that can help her while she’s on her. I’m simply pointing out that this is a kind thing to do.
Consult legal. If it’s your child, she can’t withhold the child. It’s a false threat. You have legal options.
Don’t feel forced to marriage. She doesn’t sound interested in being a wife, just the title. If you can’t think of a benefit then there isn’t one.
You are past the stage for wise decisions. Now it’s all damage control.
Wait!? But that would cause a scene? /s there are was to handle these things without causing a scene. Love it!
Leading up to the trip, he seemed very concerned about his appearance. He whitened his teeth, applied sunless tan and tried on everything in his closet.
What did he say when you were like, WTF MY GUY
because in my household, a conversation would be had. TF?
I was about to book a hotel room for him close to the airport when he told me that his female colleague has a family friend that they could stay with. I told him it made me uncomfortable but he said then didn’t have many other options.
He literally could book a room at a hotel. You even, was going to do it for him.
IMO If he hasn't already stuck it to the work homie, he's planning too.
Bruh
She literally threw an object that could cause serious injuries and is BLAMING YOU!
Dude, how long until she grabs something worse. What if that lamp had hit your daughter? Take your daughter, move out, and file for custody.
Insecurity is no excuse for assault and possible child endangerment!
Things people don't want to hear. In my experience in situations like this people will immediately jump to affirming a history of abuse when prompted. All of a sudden it becomes a very convenient pretext to explain away objectionable behaviors.
I'm not saying what occurred between her bf and the older girl couldn't have happened or wasn't wrong (it absolutely is) but an experience like this isn't automatically the reason and culprit for his behavior. That among many other reasons is why this situation should be addressed by a qualified professional.