Even if you ignored all the other issues, why would you want the baggage of 2 exes that each have a child. That’s a lot to consider in terms of long term drama, and possibly having to be a step mom. And do you have concerns that you’ll end up being babe mama #3? The bragging about his wealth and dick size is also unbecoming. There are plenty of men with both those but don’t tout it such. Humble is always better. If you choose to continue dating him, go very slowly and tell him honestly some of your reservations and that you don’t want him making massive vacation plans and going to weddings together anytime soon. Set boundaries and don’t give into his coy attempts to persuade you against your own instincts.
You do realize this doesn't sound like a girlfriend at all? It sounds like a landlord that uses and emotionally manipulates you, as well?
Even if you ignored all the other issues, why would you want the baggage of 2 exes that each have a child. That’s a lot to consider in terms of long term drama, and possibly having to be a step mom. And do you have concerns that you’ll end up being babe mama #3? The bragging about his wealth and dick size is also unbecoming. There are plenty of men with both those but don’t tout it such. Humble is always better. If you choose to continue dating him, go very slowly and tell him honestly some of your reservations and that you don’t want him making massive vacation plans and going to weddings together anytime soon. Set boundaries and don’t give into his coy attempts to persuade you against your own instincts.