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I agree, that’s why I’m saying that’s a breakdown in communication and poor response. But in his eyes he could have viewed it as her cheating on him. He definitely views it as crossing a line.
Your dog is growling at your bf because he is abusing it and causing it stress and anxiety. Any behavioural problems your dog has will get much worse in this environment.
You state that you and your bf have a wonderful relationship aside from this but you don't. He is disrespecting you by refusing to listen to you, he is ignoring your requests on how to act around your own pet. It is also a red flag for someone to initially stress an animal out because they don't like it, it shows a basic lack of empathy.
Your dog feels unsafe in its own home and honesty hitting a dog that is scared will lead to a dangerous dog. Next time your dog may feel like it has to attack to defend itself first. If your bf hits your dog for growling what do you think he would do to it for snapping or biting?
You have a responsibility to look after this animals. Either rehome it to a safe environment or break up with your bf.
Look, unless the reason for her not liking you was an obvious fault you need to fix (which it doesnt seem to be because you havent given one), there's no way this is okay. The fact is she just lost feelings and it happens. It seems to me the best thing to do is to leave the relationship in the past. That's a herculean task but it seems it's for the best.
I know you love her, but think very hot on this. Ignore the fact that who you are dating is the girlfriend you love and know. Just imagine someone told you they were not attracted to you and they did not like who you are. Would you want that person. No. You only want your gf now because of that history and that past, but the fact is there's nothing more. This is a one sided relationship that she just isn't strong enough to leave and your too deluded by love to see its already gone.
I find that while you can have a certain love for people without liking them, like how you may have a type of love for all people, true love is built on the most delicate but essential of foundations. Liking the other person. Emjoying the feeling they give off to the world and other people. Your girlfriend does not have this for you amymore.
Those words are not endearments at all! They're the exact opposite. Leave him, block him, and do the things you love. Someone better than his trash will come your way.?
Well maybe that's what he really want pushing marriage on me when he has always known I was never interested in that. So he created being rejected. And he only brings up marriage when it's convenient to him. He's never said, I love you I want to marry you. It's only like, well if you want to be on the house then marry me.
You’re an AH. You spent months doing all of that and maybe you could have spent those months meeting someone new. Also you’ve let your friends know all the details.
You gotta jet, my brother. I could see forgiving her after the first time (I couldn’t, but hey, people gotta do what works for them, not necessarily what works for me)… but if it’s still going on, you gotta talk to a lawyer, and tell her to find a new place to on-line. Just incredible amounts of disrespect.
You don't owe anyone anything. If you want to be there for her you can, would I waste any energy on the friendship, probably no more then if an acquaintance told me there parent died. Some people tunnel vision there partners in relationships so it's not an uncommon thing, but I digress your probably a tad more mature when it comes to relationships and friendships invest energy into the people who will match said energy.
Similar thing happened to me about 10 years ago. We aborted, it was the beginning of the end of our relationship because nothing could go back to normal after that.
You’re at a fork in the road. There is never a good time and you need to either take the left turn and become a parent and just deal with it like all the other parents in the world doing the best you can; or you take a right and carry on with your life until you meet someone else.
Slightly brutal answer, but that’s the reality of where you’re at.
Well they have good lists and such but if you want to use the software instead of just a virtual cue card, you can go down the rabbit hole changing colors and adding pictures and it ends up being an art project time suck. LOL
I was sleeping on a couch next to a love seat they were both sitting on. I heard some pleasure moans ( which I actually heard the night before but didn't expect what was or think to act, but I heard it again the next night) I quick flipped around and seen the brothers hand(down the front of her pants) rear up in fear quickly. I stared at the both and said ” I'm gonna tell everybody” I couldn't stop myself from saying that. My now wife stood up, denied it, saying he was giving her a foot rub, and stormed off to the bathroom to shower ( which I believe was she could finish herself off) The whole time she was showering I was grilling her brother, phishing for the truth. He was quiet and had short answers, but left shortly later.
But what gets me is that I heard the same moaning the night before and it seemed like they were comfortable doing whatever while I was right the next to them, so I know I will never really know the whole truth. She still denies it to this day even after I tell her, I know what I freaking saw. She will then say, well that's your truth… I know what really happened.
So I guess you could say… 100 precent, but the signs were all there. Her feet are not down the front of her pants…
For everyone advising her to divorce her husband and buy a car, ya'll do realize he owns the house, so if she does that she then has to pay rent which will then put her in a situation where she can't afford the car…
Im on the other end of this my wife makes low 6 figures and i make around 2.5x what she makes plus I have some trusts and residual income and I would still consult her on buying a car. We dont really monitor any purchases up to a certain $ amount and ahe has spent 1,2,3k without checking with me and vice versa, but with a vehicle we both may be using it and its a substantial enough purchase I think it needs to be discussed.
What you are saying is right. I have this issue and i do this only with my sister and it's not under my control.(i try hot and it has reduced overtime) The more i try to control crying the more i cry and it also stems from long emotional turmoil where I don't want to disappoint my sister.
What i do is that when i get into this state, i take some time off get my composure back and then speak to them. I also spoke to my therapist on this, they suggested to accept this option, step back from the situation and then come back to it. I am not sure if there is any medication that will help here or if the gf should even take it.
I mean but these things do happen. You don’t know the story is fake. Cis people lie just as much as trans people do. To me this story is about someone who LIED who also happened to be trans. I didn’t get an layer of transphobia like some of the ones I’ve seen previously that are clearly fake.
There’s a difference between objectively unhealthy weight, and pregnancy weight. I have some stubborn unhealthy belly fat that I am still trying to get rid of and would never be offended if someone said that it was unhealthy. Wanting your partner to be healthy shouldn’t be frowned upon.
I think the biggest thing that jumps out is having sex once a month or less when your girlfriend has an adventurous past. It just doesn't sound like a fit. You are 23, you should be having it multiple times a day every now and again.
Also I wouldn't assume a 21 year old is past her experimental phase. I think the threesome is the least of your problems. You don't sound compatible.
I guess you have a point. Thanks for your insight. I think the dopamine release in my brain was encouraging to want to believe there was a future her, but I may just have to accept it is not possible and to just enjoy the remaining time I have left with her.
Simple. If i were you, I'd play it cool. Whenever John is around, put your phone on voice recorder or get an app that records sounds. Put it in your front shirt pocket and let him tie his own noose around his neck. Record as many conversations as possible. Then play the recordings to your SO.
She doesn't believe you and basically calls you a liar. It's up to you to clear your name.
Let the facts speaks for themselves at that point.
Simple. If i were you, I'd play it cool. Whenever John is around, put your phone on voice recorder or get an app that records sounds. Put it in your front shirt pocket and let him tie his own noose around his neck. Record as many conversations as possible. Then play the recordings to your SO.
She doesn't believe you and basically calls you a liar. It's up to you to clear your name.
Let the facts speaks for themselves at that point.
Lawyer. Full custody. Take everything in the divorce immediately.
DO NOT let her fool you into thinking you’re being selfish. Your role as a father is to protect your children.
DO NOT sign the papers she served you with until you have got a good lawyer to go over them.
She is NOT who you thought she was, or who you thought she was is gone. If she’s willing to blow up her marriage for this guy she will put your children in harms way with him.
You’re broken, I get that. Deal with it later, your kids need you to be tough as nails right now, do it for them.
I agree with you. Sorry for yr dad – my sibling has NPD so yeah I get it. On the other hand, imagine if the bf also grew up with a parent / older family member was an NPD with substance abuse issues, and the
trauma he experienced in his life from people making public spectacles of themselves and him having to take care of them
was him having to deal with that through their childhood, then the bfs reaction is understandable – cptsd flashbacks. Different story to just being a jerk overly concerned with their iMagE.
The OP can divorce and leave the relationship. They're incompatible now that's all.
Hoping that a crooked cop who the child does not even know to take her when there's also a high probability he abused her mother is pretty evil. Also hoping she ends up in foster care before some kind of arrangement between the grandma and husband happens says a lot. No one says OP should be forced to be a mom but they are incompatible and she should be making an exit strategy since her husband actually cares for adoptive niece who just lost her parents and doesn't want her to suffer more than she already has.
I agree, that’s why I’m saying that’s a breakdown in communication and poor response. But in his eyes he could have viewed it as her cheating on him. He definitely views it as crossing a line.
OP, you are now the same a he
Your dog is growling at your bf because he is abusing it and causing it stress and anxiety. Any behavioural problems your dog has will get much worse in this environment.
You state that you and your bf have a wonderful relationship aside from this but you don't. He is disrespecting you by refusing to listen to you, he is ignoring your requests on how to act around your own pet. It is also a red flag for someone to initially stress an animal out because they don't like it, it shows a basic lack of empathy.
Your dog feels unsafe in its own home and honesty hitting a dog that is scared will lead to a dangerous dog. Next time your dog may feel like it has to attack to defend itself first. If your bf hits your dog for growling what do you think he would do to it for snapping or biting?
You have a responsibility to look after this animals. Either rehome it to a safe environment or break up with your bf.
Look, unless the reason for her not liking you was an obvious fault you need to fix (which it doesnt seem to be because you havent given one), there's no way this is okay. The fact is she just lost feelings and it happens. It seems to me the best thing to do is to leave the relationship in the past. That's a herculean task but it seems it's for the best.
I know you love her, but think very hot on this. Ignore the fact that who you are dating is the girlfriend you love and know. Just imagine someone told you they were not attracted to you and they did not like who you are. Would you want that person. No. You only want your gf now because of that history and that past, but the fact is there's nothing more. This is a one sided relationship that she just isn't strong enough to leave and your too deluded by love to see its already gone.
I find that while you can have a certain love for people without liking them, like how you may have a type of love for all people, true love is built on the most delicate but essential of foundations. Liking the other person. Emjoying the feeling they give off to the world and other people. Your girlfriend does not have this for you amymore.
Lol what dude you don't even like him. Why are you putting up with this bullshit. Have some self respect and leave.
Those words are not endearments at all! They're the exact opposite. Leave him, block him, and do the things you love. Someone better than his trash will come your way.?
I think this person is a woman. Equally creepy tho.
Have you sat down and voiced all this to him, and that you are considering ending the relationship because the snails pace?
Well maybe that's what he really want pushing marriage on me when he has always known I was never interested in that. So he created being rejected. And he only brings up marriage when it's convenient to him. He's never said, I love you I want to marry you. It's only like, well if you want to be on the house then marry me.
You’re an AH. You spent months doing all of that and maybe you could have spent those months meeting someone new. Also you’ve let your friends know all the details.
Total AH
Yes he is wrong by doing that, it's a real bad coping mecanism against jeallusy and insecurity.
But! You handle it well byvtalking and he followd up by recognising he was wrong and is going to stop doing it. Now let him show you he is.
A relationship is built, you are quite young, have not been together for that long.
For me it had not ben a breakup thing but a lerning about you, your bounerys and how to comunicate in the future.
Good luck!
You gotta jet, my brother. I could see forgiving her after the first time (I couldn’t, but hey, people gotta do what works for them, not necessarily what works for me)… but if it’s still going on, you gotta talk to a lawyer, and tell her to find a new place to on-line. Just incredible amounts of disrespect.
He wasn't ready to have kids and is having some sort of depression episode.
Time will tell what happens but there is little to do besides staying and waiting or leaving and coping with the reality of all this.
I had my kid at 19 and I am a single dad that had to go trough the same stuff as your boyfriend AND standing up on my own for my son.
It fucks you up. Or you cope with reality and make the best out of it or you sink.
Yeah. She has a major alcohol problem. She’s also in denial, which is a bad sign too. And she’s making your her co-dependent crutch.
You approach of setting boundaries is a good start. The very hot part is actually letting her have natural consequences and not answering the phone.
It’s likely that she’s going to choose alcohol over you.
Some people really love to be miserable huh? Staying in a miserable marriage is likely to punish the kids more
You don't owe anyone anything. If you want to be there for her you can, would I waste any energy on the friendship, probably no more then if an acquaintance told me there parent died. Some people tunnel vision there partners in relationships so it's not an uncommon thing, but I digress your probably a tad more mature when it comes to relationships and friendships invest energy into the people who will match said energy.
Similar thing happened to me about 10 years ago. We aborted, it was the beginning of the end of our relationship because nothing could go back to normal after that.
You’re at a fork in the road. There is never a good time and you need to either take the left turn and become a parent and just deal with it like all the other parents in the world doing the best you can; or you take a right and carry on with your life until you meet someone else.
Slightly brutal answer, but that’s the reality of where you’re at.
Damn, that’s very hot to hear but I appreciate the honesty!
it goes the other way too. women mostly aren't ok with their spouses railing other women. Do men understand women or not?
Well they have good lists and such but if you want to use the software instead of just a virtual cue card, you can go down the rabbit hole changing colors and adding pictures and it ends up being an art project time suck. LOL
I was sleeping on a couch next to a love seat they were both sitting on. I heard some pleasure moans ( which I actually heard the night before but didn't expect what was or think to act, but I heard it again the next night) I quick flipped around and seen the brothers hand(down the front of her pants) rear up in fear quickly. I stared at the both and said ” I'm gonna tell everybody” I couldn't stop myself from saying that. My now wife stood up, denied it, saying he was giving her a foot rub, and stormed off to the bathroom to shower ( which I believe was she could finish herself off) The whole time she was showering I was grilling her brother, phishing for the truth. He was quiet and had short answers, but left shortly later.
But what gets me is that I heard the same moaning the night before and it seemed like they were comfortable doing whatever while I was right the next to them, so I know I will never really know the whole truth. She still denies it to this day even after I tell her, I know what I freaking saw. She will then say, well that's your truth… I know what really happened.
So I guess you could say… 100 precent, but the signs were all there. Her feet are not down the front of her pants…
That's fantastic. They didn't used to offer it to boys/AMAB.
For everyone advising her to divorce her husband and buy a car, ya'll do realize he owns the house, so if she does that she then has to pay rent which will then put her in a situation where she can't afford the car…
Im on the other end of this my wife makes low 6 figures and i make around 2.5x what she makes plus I have some trusts and residual income and I would still consult her on buying a car. We dont really monitor any purchases up to a certain $ amount and ahe has spent 1,2,3k without checking with me and vice versa, but with a vehicle we both may be using it and its a substantial enough purchase I think it needs to be discussed.
This request is not respectful to you
OR THE CHILDREN
Poor dude thought coming to reddit of all places for advice was a good idea?
What you are saying is right. I have this issue and i do this only with my sister and it's not under my control.(i try hot and it has reduced overtime) The more i try to control crying the more i cry and it also stems from long emotional turmoil where I don't want to disappoint my sister.
What i do is that when i get into this state, i take some time off get my composure back and then speak to them. I also spoke to my therapist on this, they suggested to accept this option, step back from the situation and then come back to it. I am not sure if there is any medication that will help here or if the gf should even take it.
I mean but these things do happen. You don’t know the story is fake. Cis people lie just as much as trans people do. To me this story is about someone who LIED who also happened to be trans. I didn’t get an layer of transphobia like some of the ones I’ve seen previously that are clearly fake.
There’s a difference between objectively unhealthy weight, and pregnancy weight. I have some stubborn unhealthy belly fat that I am still trying to get rid of and would never be offended if someone said that it was unhealthy. Wanting your partner to be healthy shouldn’t be frowned upon.
I think the biggest thing that jumps out is having sex once a month or less when your girlfriend has an adventurous past. It just doesn't sound like a fit. You are 23, you should be having it multiple times a day every now and again.
Also I wouldn't assume a 21 year old is past her experimental phase. I think the threesome is the least of your problems. You don't sound compatible.
I don’t know about a boundary but definitely a lack of humanity or that “thing” people have where they understand that the other person has autonomy.
Huh, maybe they think because they have a carbon copy of each other people are 2 dimensional objects for their enjoyment and use?
So he’s gross
I guess you have a point. Thanks for your insight. I think the dopamine release in my brain was encouraging to want to believe there was a future her, but I may just have to accept it is not possible and to just enjoy the remaining time I have left with her.
Simple. If i were you, I'd play it cool. Whenever John is around, put your phone on voice recorder or get an app that records sounds. Put it in your front shirt pocket and let him tie his own noose around his neck. Record as many conversations as possible. Then play the recordings to your SO.
She doesn't believe you and basically calls you a liar. It's up to you to clear your name.
Let the facts speaks for themselves at that point.
Simple. If i were you, I'd play it cool. Whenever John is around, put your phone on voice recorder or get an app that records sounds. Put it in your front shirt pocket and let him tie his own noose around his neck. Record as many conversations as possible. Then play the recordings to your SO.
She doesn't believe you and basically calls you a liar. It's up to you to clear your name.
Let the facts speaks for themselves at that point.
This is fake AF
Lawyer. Full custody. Take everything in the divorce immediately.
DO NOT let her fool you into thinking you’re being selfish. Your role as a father is to protect your children.
DO NOT sign the papers she served you with until you have got a good lawyer to go over them.
She is NOT who you thought she was, or who you thought she was is gone. If she’s willing to blow up her marriage for this guy she will put your children in harms way with him.
You’re broken, I get that. Deal with it later, your kids need you to be tough as nails right now, do it for them.
I agree with you. Sorry for yr dad – my sibling has NPD so yeah I get it. On the other hand, imagine if the bf also grew up with a parent / older family member was an NPD with substance abuse issues, and the
trauma he experienced in his life from people making public spectacles of themselves and him having to take care of them
was him having to deal with that through their childhood, then the bfs reaction is understandable – cptsd flashbacks. Different story to just being a jerk overly concerned with their iMagE.
The OP can divorce and leave the relationship. They're incompatible now that's all.
Hoping that a crooked cop who the child does not even know to take her when there's also a high probability he abused her mother is pretty evil. Also hoping she ends up in foster care before some kind of arrangement between the grandma and husband happens says a lot. No one says OP should be forced to be a mom but they are incompatible and she should be making an exit strategy since her husband actually cares for adoptive niece who just lost her parents and doesn't want her to suffer more than she already has.