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No it's not worth salvaging.
You gave her no reason to think you cheat on her, you have been together for 9 months. And faked sick on the fist trip for work because of her ( which is where you made the mistake) Now she knows you will give in to her demands. Or so she thought. But when you leave for this one she breaks up with you.
But she can make career changes without talking to you first. So it is a do as I want not as I do situation. What is good for the goose is not for the gander.
Which tells you all you need to know about how your future will be with her.
She made her choice to break up, so let her keep it.
Go on your meeting, don't answer her calls or messages, and continue on with your life.
Otherwise you will be stuck in a controlling relationship
Okay so this wasn’t 100% YOUR fault?
Maybe your gf needs to accept some responsibility for the ejaculation and subsequent trajectory of her unborn kids.
I mean she's probably seriously reconsidering if there's even a future with you anymore.
How much money are you guys making? Are you guys well off? Poverty level? That all matters.
If you guys are doing well for yourself then I agree with you. You guys deserve a break. If you guys aren't well off and she's trying to get you both out of a bad situation then I agree with her. She's hustling to make your lives better and you just want to play video games.
It's all contextual in this situation.
Well don't ever use your own life experience to give advice. I used the 50yr old comparison because if I picked clubbing over the relationship I was saying that I want clubbing for life over a life partner. Some people are very short sighted when in relationship and want what they want without thinking of the future.
No where did I say only women change for the relationship. Your adding to my comment that isn't there. My husband changed for me in certain aspects of his life as I changed for him.
If your with someone that your not willing to work with or change certain behaviors then they aren't for you. Both people in a relationship need to be flexible. And as I've said twice now the BF and OP are in different stages in life. She is under 25 he is over 30 OP may realize that she wants a bf in the Sam stage as her or that she is more flexible then you are for her relationship. Seeing as how in her update she decided to be flexible seems like she thinks he's worth working with.
Also if the gender was reversed I would be giving the same advice. I don't give different advice by gender. I actually believe gender shouldn't even be brought up on any of these just should be ages. But honestly I'm done with this conversation with you. We have differences of opinions on how to have healthy relationships where I believe compromise and you believe you never have to change anything about yourself or behavior in a relationship. But that's the great thing about the world everyone is allowed to have their own opinions and beliefs.
Thank you for bringing my attention to that. You're absolutely right. It's a mistake I'll learn from to communicate better on the future.
Lots of what I've been saying has been getting similar responses. Time to reflect without the presence of my ego, and make better judgements
Thank you again for taking thd time It means a lot