It seems like your step dad is a coward/simply doesn't care about your mom. The fact that he's using his actual details, real name/hometown along with real picture of himself, sounds likes he's hoping to get caught.
Like others have said, show your mom immediately. She will need to decide how this plays out for her. At least she'll know that you have her back. Good luck to you both.
that age change actually checks out… if they’re both dogs
Don’t get attached then.
You shouldn't have to let it go OP. Damn, prioritise yourself for once. Just leave the dude and move on. Clearly he is not ready for a relationship.
It seems like your step dad is a coward/simply doesn't care about your mom. The fact that he's using his actual details, real name/hometown along with real picture of himself, sounds likes he's hoping to get caught.
Like others have said, show your mom immediately. She will need to decide how this plays out for her. At least she'll know that you have her back. Good luck to you both.