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Never. So what you broke up? These are good times you’ve documented spending time with your first love. You only have one of those. I have kept everything from every relationship I’ve been in. Letters, pictures, gifts. You loved him for a long time and just bc it didn’t work out doesn’t mean you stopped caring about him. Unless he’s a cheater and you hate him… why would you delete them?
He was never sweet. Good god, that man has never been sweet. Hes been a monster and reared his head.
Having anger issues is one thing and can be manageable if both are willing to stick it through and if theres effort on his behalf.
The second he punched you, repeatedly, he sent a message. Violence is never a solution to a dispute, it is self defence when absolutely necessary, but never to be used like this.
That is no man. That is a threat. I hope you are truly no longer with him and im very sorry for what happened. It must be so fucking nude to go through. My heart goes to you l, dude. Be safe and change your locks, and dont show/post anything about where youre going for some time. Do. Not. Let him know ANYTHING. Talk to lawers before responding to ANYTHING. Please, be safe and take care of yourself. You are worth so much more than this.
You can’t control what you dream, but seriously why the fuck would you even tell him about that? What would possess you to think your partner really wants to hear about that? I’d suggest getting a filter and learning that everything does not need to get said…
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He needs to be in therapy for anger management, people are not all they seem, he shouldn’t be expressing displeasure with violence and so frequently for that matter
Here is the thing, when we choose to have kids it is solely for ourselves. It’s not compulsory to have a baby. So why does she “deserve” a break from her own choices?
She chose to have a baby, she could also choose to hire a nanny.
It sounds like he might have misophonia and he isn’t managing it well at all. I have it too, and it can induce strong feelings of anger – I’ve snapped at people too, at the beginning, before I understood more about it. Now I just turn on a low-volume white noise app on my phone when things start bothering me. Pretty much fixes the problem for me.
I’ll note that mine also comes in phases. There will be a few weeks where it doesn’t bother me at all, then a week where it’s all I can focus on when I’m in a room with other people (unless there’s white noise or some other calming consistent noise I can use to refocus). Sometimes the worse times are brought on by stress – but sometimes it’s just random.
Anyway, long story short, I recommend he works with a therapist to develop healthier tactics for these types of situations.
Glad my comment had some value for you, OP. Your reply brought two things to mind.
A young lady my wife mentored during her tumultuous teens (her mother was a heroin addict stemming from an initial addiction to opioids after an accident) told us how she didn't really learn how to drive until she after got her license and could drive on her own. Before she got her license, it was always the person in the passenger seat telling her what she needed to do. After she got her license, she had to rely on herself to navigate the road and that's when she truly learned how to drive.
Secondly, I grew up in a small town and had the same dreams of seeing what life outside my small town had to offer. A few months shy of my 25th birthday, I did get out and it worked out well for me. I do find myself navigating back to small towns, however. My family still lives in a small town and I bought a cabin in the woods and spend a ton of time there and have forged invaluable friendships with several people from the neighboring tiny town.
Before I left the nest, though, I had both a job and a place to live! lined up. I didn't possess enough of an adventurer's spirit to just jump in a car and see where life would take me.
Don't let your dreams wither and die on the vine, OP. I recently turned 60 and a while back I sat down and answered one basic question: How well did I do in fulfilling the dreams I had for my life as a small boy? I had to admit that I fared well with some of those dreams but failed with others.
One day you'll look back in a similar manner, OP. I invite you now to think of the dreams you had as a 10 yr old girl and with every decision you make and every action you take both now and in the future, ask yourself if you're making progress on fulfilling those dreams…or are you one day gonna look back and see disappointment in that 10 yr old girl's face?
You got this, OP. Stay strong and know there's a 60 yr old dude out there that you'll never meet who believes in you and is praying for you! Make the 10 yr old you smile!
Get a personal therapist and also a lawyer. This is something you guys can reconcile. She does not want to have sex, you do, and that’s something that clearly isn’t going to change. No amount of counseling is going to get her to commit to treatment for her condition and then suddenly starting to agree to penetrative sex. Get out of this relationship.
My 3 girls are each about 4.5 years apart and it’s fine. The youngest is still a baby, but the older two hang out and play all the time despite the age gap. The older they get, the less the age gap seems to matter much.
Never. So what you broke up? These are good times you’ve documented spending time with your first love. You only have one of those. I have kept everything from every relationship I’ve been in. Letters, pictures, gifts. You loved him for a long time and just bc it didn’t work out doesn’t mean you stopped caring about him. Unless he’s a cheater and you hate him… why would you delete them?
He was never sweet. Good god, that man has never been sweet. Hes been a monster and reared his head.
Having anger issues is one thing and can be manageable if both are willing to stick it through and if theres effort on his behalf.
The second he punched you, repeatedly, he sent a message. Violence is never a solution to a dispute, it is self defence when absolutely necessary, but never to be used like this.
That is no man. That is a threat. I hope you are truly no longer with him and im very sorry for what happened. It must be so fucking nude to go through. My heart goes to you l, dude. Be safe and change your locks, and dont show/post anything about where youre going for some time. Do. Not. Let him know ANYTHING. Talk to lawers before responding to ANYTHING. Please, be safe and take care of yourself. You are worth so much more than this.
You can’t control what you dream, but seriously why the fuck would you even tell him about that? What would possess you to think your partner really wants to hear about that? I’d suggest getting a filter and learning that everything does not need to get said…
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I get that. Not saying make immediate choices but just be cautious and be prepared. And protect yourself. His story doesn’t make sense
He needs to be in therapy for anger management, people are not all they seem, he shouldn’t be expressing displeasure with violence and so frequently for that matter
Sounds like a mental health issue assuming this is her only major flaw.
And I've clarified many times I was 23. Next.
Thank you
Here is the thing, when we choose to have kids it is solely for ourselves. It’s not compulsory to have a baby. So why does she “deserve” a break from her own choices?
She chose to have a baby, she could also choose to hire a nanny.
It sounds like he might have misophonia and he isn’t managing it well at all. I have it too, and it can induce strong feelings of anger – I’ve snapped at people too, at the beginning, before I understood more about it. Now I just turn on a low-volume white noise app on my phone when things start bothering me. Pretty much fixes the problem for me.
I’ll note that mine also comes in phases. There will be a few weeks where it doesn’t bother me at all, then a week where it’s all I can focus on when I’m in a room with other people (unless there’s white noise or some other calming consistent noise I can use to refocus). Sometimes the worse times are brought on by stress – but sometimes it’s just random.
Anyway, long story short, I recommend he works with a therapist to develop healthier tactics for these types of situations.
Glad my comment had some value for you, OP. Your reply brought two things to mind.
A young lady my wife mentored during her tumultuous teens (her mother was a heroin addict stemming from an initial addiction to opioids after an accident) told us how she didn't really learn how to drive until she after got her license and could drive on her own. Before she got her license, it was always the person in the passenger seat telling her what she needed to do. After she got her license, she had to rely on herself to navigate the road and that's when she truly learned how to drive.
Secondly, I grew up in a small town and had the same dreams of seeing what life outside my small town had to offer. A few months shy of my 25th birthday, I did get out and it worked out well for me. I do find myself navigating back to small towns, however. My family still lives in a small town and I bought a cabin in the woods and spend a ton of time there and have forged invaluable friendships with several people from the neighboring tiny town.
Before I left the nest, though, I had both a job and a place to live! lined up. I didn't possess enough of an adventurer's spirit to just jump in a car and see where life would take me.
Don't let your dreams wither and die on the vine, OP. I recently turned 60 and a while back I sat down and answered one basic question: How well did I do in fulfilling the dreams I had for my life as a small boy? I had to admit that I fared well with some of those dreams but failed with others.
One day you'll look back in a similar manner, OP. I invite you now to think of the dreams you had as a 10 yr old girl and with every decision you make and every action you take both now and in the future, ask yourself if you're making progress on fulfilling those dreams…or are you one day gonna look back and see disappointment in that 10 yr old girl's face?
You got this, OP. Stay strong and know there's a 60 yr old dude out there that you'll never meet who believes in you and is praying for you! Make the 10 yr old you smile!
Maybe if you have to hold on so tight he ain’t worth holding on to
What your friend is tell you is Do as I say, not as I do. This individual is not your friend.
I do have self respect lol and I said in the post I’m never speaking to him again and that we were never dating and I didn’t want that.
She isn't acting like it's a big deal, so neither should you. Congrats, dad.
Punctuation! I require Punctuation!
GASLIGHTING. I’m sorry but you married a narcissistic jerk. Your baby should be your focus. Don’t argue with this guy. Get an attorney asap.
Get a personal therapist and also a lawyer. This is something you guys can reconcile. She does not want to have sex, you do, and that’s something that clearly isn’t going to change. No amount of counseling is going to get her to commit to treatment for her condition and then suddenly starting to agree to penetrative sex. Get out of this relationship.
My 3 girls are each about 4.5 years apart and it’s fine. The youngest is still a baby, but the older two hang out and play all the time despite the age gap. The older they get, the less the age gap seems to matter much.
Yeah i prefer everyone to be stuck up and super super professional. Living your life should be serious stuff!