You need to talk to her. Regardless of the outcome, she needs to know how you're feeling and that you are open to supporting her in a, way you're able to do so. You both should approach this together. Even if you need to step away, you gotta communicate your expectations and hear hers too.
I'm very much child free but I do sympathize with you both.
If you truly cannot offer up child support due to no finances, find a way to contribute another way. Meet her as halfway as you can but you guys gotta sit down and talk about it.
And keep checking in because this situation needs attention frequently, especially if you both decide to break up but coparent. You both need to voice what you want a future dynamic to look like. Best of luck.
lol no. It doesn't seem to be a problem on his side, so her guilt seems to be misplaced.
She’s been in love with you?!!!! For how long?
You need to talk to her. Regardless of the outcome, she needs to know how you're feeling and that you are open to supporting her in a, way you're able to do so. You both should approach this together. Even if you need to step away, you gotta communicate your expectations and hear hers too.
I'm very much child free but I do sympathize with you both.
If you truly cannot offer up child support due to no finances, find a way to contribute another way. Meet her as halfway as you can but you guys gotta sit down and talk about it.
And keep checking in because this situation needs attention frequently, especially if you both decide to break up but coparent. You both need to voice what you want a future dynamic to look like. Best of luck.
Why are you dating then if you are not attracted to him romantically or sexually? Does he know this?