Trust your instincts and prepare to leave without showing him. Start packing a suitcase for your child and for yourself. Gather important papers and all bank information. Open a new account at a different bank branch for yourself only. Find an attorney and do what they say. Arrange a place to on-line. If you need a shelter that’s a good place to go. They can give help and keep you safe for a time. If you have family you trust then great. Do it ASAP.
Nope, absolutely not! Getting your education should be your highest priority.
If your boyfriend also sees a future with you then either he can stay longer or given the flexibility of him working from anywhere, he cam travel back and forth to still regularly see you during the time you finish your education.
You don't know him long enough to know if he isn't toxic (a lot of toxic partners only start showing it once living together). And even if he is an emotionally healthy and mature person, that still doesn't mean you both end up being compatible. A lot of relationships end because of a whole bunch of varying reasons that have nothing to do with a relationship being either healthy or toxic.
It sounds like Real Adult Relationship (setting up house, paying bills together) just blew his fuses.
That’s a maturity problem, and you don’t need to waste worry on whether everything was real up to this point: it was. He just wasn’t able to get past this point, like an athlete who does okay in high school but isn’t good enough for college.
Internet mom here. You can handle a little awkwardness. Don’t put your friend in the position of uninviting her.
Trust your instincts and prepare to leave without showing him. Start packing a suitcase for your child and for yourself. Gather important papers and all bank information. Open a new account at a different bank branch for yourself only. Find an attorney and do what they say. Arrange a place to on-line. If you need a shelter that’s a good place to go. They can give help and keep you safe for a time. If you have family you trust then great. Do it ASAP.
Nope, absolutely not! Getting your education should be your highest priority.
If your boyfriend also sees a future with you then either he can stay longer or given the flexibility of him working from anywhere, he cam travel back and forth to still regularly see you during the time you finish your education.
You don't know him long enough to know if he isn't toxic (a lot of toxic partners only start showing it once living together). And even if he is an emotionally healthy and mature person, that still doesn't mean you both end up being compatible. A lot of relationships end because of a whole bunch of varying reasons that have nothing to do with a relationship being either healthy or toxic.
It sounds like Real Adult Relationship (setting up house, paying bills together) just blew his fuses.
That’s a maturity problem, and you don’t need to waste worry on whether everything was real up to this point: it was. He just wasn’t able to get past this point, like an athlete who does okay in high school but isn’t good enough for college.