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He isn’t paying attention very well. The shit he is saying to you goes against what is in the AA big book. The book teaches that alchohol is not the problem, the person drinking it is. I can almost guarantee you if he continues this line of thinking he will be back drinking harder than ever in no time
My partner and I are the same as your boyfriend tbh. My grandfather gave me the “don't go to bed angry” advice when I was a kid and it's worked whenever I've used it, because if a past partner and I went to bed angry then we'd wake up feeling too awkward to bring it up and just don't, which leads to bottling. I will admit though, if alcohol is part of the cause, then you should sleep on it and mutually agree to talk in the morning, you're not in your right mind and no problem gets solved. I've only been on the receiving side of that from someone intoxicated though, and when the fight did start there was no chance of reasoning with him, no matter how calm and rational I was.
Honestly, my current partner and I have never had this problem in our 5 years together (drinking and arguing), I'm not really a drinker and neither is he, when one or both of us has been drinking we just have fun. Any time one person is upset (we don't have fights tbh, I just can be quite sensitive sometimes, which I'd like to stress he never says I am, I just know I am), I take some time to myself to be alone and breathe, analyze my thoughts and feelings, and ask my friends for advice or their opinions (although I do have Bipolar Disorder, so I have to try a little harder than others to calm down), he also has learned that I need my space and will talk to him when I'm done processing. After that, when we go to bed he asks me if I want snuggles, I always say yes, and then we talk about what happened, both of our thoughts and feelings on the matter to understand where each other is coming from, and the issue is resolved and it never happens again.
Are there consistent themes in these fights or are they different each time? If you really need to sleep on it then I think you need to pause the conversation and say “babe, I love you, but we're going in circles, we're not in the right head space to solve this issue, let's go to bed and when we wake up in the morning I make us some coffee/tea/breakfast and pick up the conversation then.” Be calm, don't yell, take a deep breath and assure him you just need to calm down and process so you can pick up the conversation after you both have clear minds that aren't clouded by alcohol and anger. Use “I” statements, “I felt hurt when X,” “when you said X, I interpreted it as Y” etc.