There is no adult way to make your girlfriend drop a friendship. She's been very clear, repeatedly it sounds like, that this friendship is important to her. You've been very clear here that you completely trust your girlfriend, there is zero fear of infidelity, and you just have hurt feelings that she has a friend you don't approve of. If you want to be an adult, either get a therapist to deal with your insecurities or end the relationship because you aren't comfortable dating someone who is friends with someone they used to fuck. Those are your only two adult options.
Also of note: you are 27. The older you get, the more and more likely it becomes that the age appropriate women you date will have a past that includes sex. I want to strongly suggest the therapy route, so that you aren't back in this same situation again in the future.
Your boyfriend is a psychopath. You should definitely break up with him. But before you do that, tell your friends and family what you’re going to do. And you may even want to pop in to your local police department and ask to file a police report because you want it break up with your boyfriend, but you’re scared of how he’ll react, and you wants to leave a paper trail.
Lol right? It’s immature and crappy but it honestly sounds like something a teenager would do and this girl is only 19.
Next time, respond by call him micro weenie! That will take care of the situation permanently.
There is no adult way to make your girlfriend drop a friendship. She's been very clear, repeatedly it sounds like, that this friendship is important to her. You've been very clear here that you completely trust your girlfriend, there is zero fear of infidelity, and you just have hurt feelings that she has a friend you don't approve of. If you want to be an adult, either get a therapist to deal with your insecurities or end the relationship because you aren't comfortable dating someone who is friends with someone they used to fuck. Those are your only two adult options.
Also of note: you are 27. The older you get, the more and more likely it becomes that the age appropriate women you date will have a past that includes sex. I want to strongly suggest the therapy route, so that you aren't back in this same situation again in the future.
Your boyfriend is a psychopath. You should definitely break up with him. But before you do that, tell your friends and family what you’re going to do. And you may even want to pop in to your local police department and ask to file a police report because you want it break up with your boyfriend, but you’re scared of how he’ll react, and you wants to leave a paper trail.
I also occasionally puke from PTSD-induced panic. Totally involuntary, although tons of CBT and grounding help… and benzos when all else fails.
This situation sounds beyond the scope of reddit dating advice.