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According to the info given, it did happen. Let's not assume things.
And even if the bf is supporting him. He was supporting a guy who had already been cheated on. And it was not a meaningless affair anyways, he literally brought this women home. So all things considered the bf is only supporting the guy for moving on from his wife and getting together with the lady he loves, because it's pretty obvious that he didn't love his wife anymore.
I have no idea why everyone is telling you to just chill out. You are literally thinking about killing yourself because of her. Just cause she is old that doesnt make it ok.
You need to figure out a way to leave OP. Depending on her health, she can easily keep kicking for another 15-20 years. Can you really stand being abused for that much longer? Especially since its probably going to keep getting worse and worse.
As is this clearly. Some of the comments on this post are disgusting.
I'm glad there are some genuine people here but you really have to be thick skinned to survive the attacks from feminazis any time you insinuate a women has done somethjng wrong
It very much so is participating if you know it's happening multiple times now (as op has made clear) and still have done nothing.
I feel same. I never forgave my mom for forcing me (though I understand why, court ordered) to visit my abusive dad. For not fighting for me in the courts once she found out he was abusive on our visits to him. I don't hate my mom, but…it did leave a hole.
If it's a serious relationship, you may no longer be on the same level as bf/gf. When they start planning a future together, accept that you will not be seeing much of your sibling as before….unless you want to be the third appendage in their relationship
Buddy I’ve been breastfeeding for almost 14 months. Of the hours I’ve tracked (notice I say TRACKED) I’ve breastfed my baby for over 1,028 hours. I got mastitis at eight days postpartum. My nipples were cracked and bleeding for months. I woke up SOAKED from leaking overnight until five months postpartum. I couldn’t wear a bra until ten months postpartum.
Breastfeeding takes 25 percent of your daily energy. You burn 500-700 extra calories a day making milk. Your hormones are out of whack until you stop producing. You gain and lose weight like crazy depending on baby’s growth spurts.
You are the most ignorant POS. Breastfeeding is naked fucking work. If your wife chooses to formula feed from the start, I commend her. For her sake, I hope you shape up before the baby is born. BFFR.
Yah, if he wanted to he would. So imagine waking up on your 35th birthday and realizing it’s not happening and here’s the kicker… odds are the person he dates after you leave will be the one he marries, and probably pretty quickly.
You’ll never know for sure but staying with that uncertainty would make me bonkers.
Apparently, my parents had a school fund for him They did say the same thing that I had one too but now they're saying I'm not allowed to use it as it's their money
I would be willing to bet they were already sleeping together before the sister let that slip. I'm putting my money on the fact that the sister was trying to shift blame to the husband, thinking that her sister would believe her and then be too mad at her husband to kick her out. Because her sister is 18, and 18 year olds aren't known for being at a stage in their life where they wouldn't impulsively do that if they were trying to get out of trouble.
Plus sister is already telling him she loves him? This isn't new. No way I buy that at all. I'm putting money that he was sleeping with her before she hit 18. Or at least trying to.
The SITUATION is your fault for letting him drive it in the snow without collision.
The CAR is completely his fault for pressuring you into saying yes, wrecking your vehicle, and then trying to make excuses. He lost control and wrecked two vehicles while joyriding in hazardous road conditions.
He absolutely needs to pay you back. If he doesn't have all 6.5k now, he needs to be on a repayment plan(in writing) for the full amount. You have to stay firm on this, and if you don't dump him now, dump him and take him to court if he refuses to pay.
He has done shitty things in the past. This is the shittiest yet, and is either the final straw or the moment you look back on and say “that's when I should have left.”
OR he really has changed, and this is the chance for him to prove that by owning up to his mistake and making the situation as right as possible.
But it is a fork in the road, and it's his choice whether to go down the path that results in this relationship hydroplaning, crashing and eventually being totalled.
(But I swear to god if he tries to screw you dump his ass and lawyer up.)
So all of you are in the wrong here. You have no business driving without insurance, let alone let someone else drive it. He had no business driving a car with his current license being at risk of being revoked/suspended. Honestly, I'd take what he's willing to give you. Now if you simply want to break up due to other reasons, then just break up.
Seriously. I am in a m/f relationship. We are both bi but don’t need to have partners of both sexes. We found each other and are happy. Bisexuality doesn’t mean I have to date women.
Your ex's kink is watching women masturbate. Your kink is watching penises penetrating vaginas. Different strokes.
Here's the thing. Porn isn't your deal breaker. Him watching porn that doesn't turn you on is your deal breaker. You want your bf to only get off on porn that gets you off or with home made porn. This is an unreasonable request. Your problem with your ex getting off to porn of other women, too, is of the why are you looking at them when you could be looking at me. Is it unreasonable to expect your bf to only use home made porn? If that's something you both agree on, no, it's not. Expecting him to change kinks to suit you is, though.
Some people are so desperate to stay in a relationship that they hurt themselves staying in that relationship. You need to leave, you're worth so much more than this bs. Don't waste your youth on someone who doesn't give a crap about you
Honestly I think I've hit the age where my brain don't work so good no more so you're gonna have to explain this or I'll go to sleep early because my head hurts.
You can't be this thick headed, can you? She didn't change her mind about you staying. Your reaction of slamming the jacket in frustration about staying forced her change of mind. Had you not reacted that way and simply said OK she wouldn't have told you, never mind.
You may not have your family but at least you have your religion still. That’s more important to you. Have a conversation with your religion, give it a hug, and cuddle wit it.
the thing is, it is not possible to convince people that you are not the bad guy here. drinking and going to parties is normal, and you cannot “allow” your child to go to college. she is legally considered an adult and you cannot change her behavior. you had 18 years to raise her, and if she is not following your rules you can’t really do anything about it but withhold money, but i don’t advise this. your daughter is not using you for money. it seems to me like you are using the money to control her.
sure, it can be difficult to have a child who does not follow what you hoped for them. but what is more important to you, these rules or your daughter’s happiness? you are free to choose which ever one you feel is right but you must recognize that your family will see it and learn that you care more about rules than them.
I know that, usually states is just a nickname given to the US, and OP lives in the US, so I assumed you meant the US and mentioning there’s other Countries. I mostly started sharing based on the Country OP is referring to.
As an aunt you essentially have no rights to access to those children, no matter how entitled you feel to do so. And you are frank in admitting your part in the “bad blood” with their remaining parent, their father.
He is trying to limit that chaos in their lives, and you have been volatile and out of line in the past. The adage in psychology is “Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior.” As he sees it, and I agree, the upside of them being around you is not sufficient to outweigh the risks of them being around you.
The whole furniture issue sounds like you feel your grievance about some of your things being lost or ruined evens out the negative things you have said and done. It doesn't.
Since your continued efforts to see your niece and nephew will not succeed, and are a source of conflict for your parents, you really should just give up on that and accept the loss.
While you may see his reaction and behaviour as irrational or unfair – and while that may be the case – how he feels about seeing you getting texts from an ex boyfriend showing his abs is a valid feeling and he’s allowed to feel however he wants to feel about that, and it’s ok. You are also allowed to feel how you feel. It’s better to talk to him about it and explain. He doesn’t have to accept or understand and you have to be ok with that. You don’t have to stop talking to your friend either, and he might have to be ok with that too. It’s always tricky but ultimately I’d suggest thinking about who’s more important – your husband or the guy you slept with years ago?
It’s a clear choice. Give it some space and some time, it’ll right itself, but prioritise your husband, acknowledging how he feels, and ask him to understand your feelings too. Talking about this is vital. It will make you stronger as a couple.
it just sucks looking back at all those years thinking “this person truly gets me” only to realize it was only on the condition that I’d sleep with him.
Anyways, he kept trying to get us back together for the first year by sending flowers, hand writing long letters and so on. I kept saying no because I genuinely felt like I had no more romantic love for him.
So which is it, is he only interested in sex or does he have more romantic love to give than you.
First: you’re absolutely not fine not talking about your issues with each other. You’re here, aren’t you? So stop that nonsense and start talking to each other.
Second: tell him straight up that unless he’s willing to talk about sex, you’re not willing to have sex. This is not the same as weaponizing sex, i.e. withholding sex if he’s not doing chores et c. This is just taking him at his words: if you have to sort yourself out, so can he.
If you're not and unable to date – don't try to convince yourself that you're involved in something special because he does or says this, that, or whatever. You're not exclusive. He can do what he wants. If the arrangement bothers you, stop participating. If his dating stuff bothers you, tell him in words. 'I know we're just having fun here, but I'd appreciate it if you don't swipe on tinder in my home.' Then let the chips fall where they may.
Why are you letting him make these rules? What do you think he will do if you break his rules? Are you scared of him on some level?
You mentioned his “expectation” that you provide dinner even if you go to the gym. What about your expectations? I think you should start expecting as much of him as he expects from you.
I think you should start to expect him to prepare his own meals however many nights you want. (I’d say to expect him to provide dinner for you both, the way you do for him, but I think that will end up with you either having no food or food you dislike).
Buy yourself some frozen dinners or whatever else you want to eat that is super easy, and tell him which nights you expect him to fend for himself. Give him a couple days notice so he can grocery shop or whatever, but set your expectation and hold firm. Unless he’s abusive, that shouldn’t be something you are scared to do.
Also, preparing home cooked meals every night is a LOT of work when you factor in menu planning and shopping. If he isn’t going to share this effort, is he going to make some kind of equivalent effort doing something else? My guess is no…
OP please please give yourself permission to potentially to leave this relationship “unhealthily” that is don't put yourself in a dangerous situation because you feel you need to give him a chance or don't want to be seen as a bad guy.
tbh this is a very scary moment for you but in many ways this is a potential life-saver. It's naked to believe that this man is safe as you said no honesty and the reported excuses are very low accountability.
My guess is that confronting this could be quite dangerous for you literally, but also potentially could spark a lot of manipulation.
I would be surprised if he didn't already know he ruined your birthday… I would be telling him, “you purposely were unkind and spiteful to me. You treated me like garbage for my birthday. I deserve better than that and I need some space to think about if I want to be in this relationship or not.” Take a few days and contemplate if this is how you want your partner to treat you.
Yeah, if they have a past of murder and animal abuse maybe. But someone having health relationships before meeting you is not something to get stuck on.
I think it's a sign that she recognises that you care and that you love her. If it becomes a thing she does regularly perhaps have a conversation about how lucky she is to have a dad already but that you'd love and feel very lucky if she picked a special name for you that only she gets to you (papa, pops etc). This is mainly for the sake of her dad who clearly cares and is involved.
I’m not okay with her behavior and I’m sure she will cut him off if i asked. I’m upset that she hid the relationship that they had and convinced me that he was a mentor/close friend. I even dropped her off at his house one evening so they can catch up.
He's too young for this lack of interest in sex. Some people are asexual, but he had previously been intimate with you.
Is he closeted? Was he abused as a young boy? Is he unsure of his sexuality?
There are lots of older men that smoke, drink, and eat like crap and have healthy, vigorous sex lives. I'm thinking it's something else he's locked away and doesn't want to deal with. That would be a shame if he can't release it and learn how to be fully and completely intimate with someone who cares so deeply for him. But – he has to be the one to decide.
You’re 10 year old child is going to have a 63 year old parent. Your child is going to graduate high school with a 70 year old parent. Your child will hopefully be going through college while worrying about health problems that should be reserved for grand parents.
Parenting is naked enough, you don’t need to make it harder. Idk how you expect to raise a kid while also taking care of an elderly partner.
Let me tell you something honest and hard to hear but for the best.
I just broke up with my boyfriend of over 3 years because I chose my school… And it was the best decision I made.
I loved and still love him with all my heart. I mean, we were going to move in together if I hadn't been accepted! But I chose this graduate school and we decided we would attempt to do long distance. I've grown and changed a lot and he started a job and is grown and changed a lot. We've both figured out who we are and things we want in life and as much as we love each other, it's not necessarily enough to live! a happy full life. We want what's best for each other and mine is here and his is there. So maybe you two will work out!! 2 hours is not the worst long distance, but sometimes you have to take that leap into doing something scary and uncomfortable to learn how to be yourself and to grow as an individual.
And who knows, maybe you'll grow together just in different locations. It's okay to be sad about these changes, but remember there is so much more to life and you want to get to experience all of it and figure out who you are. More than just “his girlfriend” You want to be you! I wish you the best of luck. College was a great experience for me. It had shitty moments but I really made me into who I am today.
Let me tell you something honest and hard to hear but for the best.
I just broke up with my boyfriend of over 3 years because I chose my school… And it was the best decision I made.
I loved and still love him with all my heart. I mean, we were going to move in together if I hadn't been accepted! But I chose this graduate school and we decided we would attempt to do long distance. I've grown and changed a lot and he started a job and is grown and changed a lot. We've both figured out who we are and things we want in life and as much as we love each other, it's not necessarily enough to live! a happy full life. We want what's best for each other and mine is here and his is there. So maybe you two will work out!! 2 hours is not the worst long distance, but sometimes you have to take that leap into doing something scary and uncomfortable to learn how to be yourself and to grow as an individual.
And who knows, maybe you'll grow together just in different locations. It's okay to be sad about these changes, but remember there is so much more to life and you want to get to experience all of it and figure out who you are. More than just “his girlfriend” You want to be you! I wish you the best of luck. College was a great experience for me. It had shitty moments but I really made me into who I am today.
You are taking on far too much responsibility for your partners mental health. If he cannot work without you going with him then he probably shouldn't be working. You will nurn yourself out and start to resent him. I know you think you're helping him but it's the opposite.
Nah. Now it's time for a serious talk with him. Tell him plainly “I think you're cheating and it made me want to look through your phone. So either tell me what's going on or I have to end the relationship for my own piece of mind.”
If there is no trust, there is no relationship. Once you are ready to invade someone's privacy, it's time to leave.
According to the info given, it did happen. Let's not assume things.
And even if the bf is supporting him. He was supporting a guy who had already been cheated on. And it was not a meaningless affair anyways, he literally brought this women home. So all things considered the bf is only supporting the guy for moving on from his wife and getting together with the lady he loves, because it's pretty obvious that he didn't love his wife anymore.
I have no idea why everyone is telling you to just chill out. You are literally thinking about killing yourself because of her. Just cause she is old that doesnt make it ok.
You need to figure out a way to leave OP. Depending on her health, she can easily keep kicking for another 15-20 years. Can you really stand being abused for that much longer? Especially since its probably going to keep getting worse and worse.
As is this clearly. Some of the comments on this post are disgusting.
I'm glad there are some genuine people here but you really have to be thick skinned to survive the attacks from feminazis any time you insinuate a women has done somethjng wrong
We’re doing this again? Added muscly legs this time though
It very much so is participating if you know it's happening multiple times now (as op has made clear) and still have done nothing.
I feel same. I never forgave my mom for forcing me (though I understand why, court ordered) to visit my abusive dad. For not fighting for me in the courts once she found out he was abusive on our visits to him. I don't hate my mom, but…it did leave a hole.
If ypu had been honest from the start, it wouldn't. Now it's this HUGE thing you hid from your wife. That's really not okay
If it's a serious relationship, you may no longer be on the same level as bf/gf. When they start planning a future together, accept that you will not be seeing much of your sibling as before….unless you want to be the third appendage in their relationship
Your reading comprehension is terrible. Lana is not changing her skin colour, she's just tanned ffs
Dude. What. Lazy? Are you kidding?
Buddy I’ve been breastfeeding for almost 14 months. Of the hours I’ve tracked (notice I say TRACKED) I’ve breastfed my baby for over 1,028 hours. I got mastitis at eight days postpartum. My nipples were cracked and bleeding for months. I woke up SOAKED from leaking overnight until five months postpartum. I couldn’t wear a bra until ten months postpartum.
Breastfeeding takes 25 percent of your daily energy. You burn 500-700 extra calories a day making milk. Your hormones are out of whack until you stop producing. You gain and lose weight like crazy depending on baby’s growth spurts.
You are the most ignorant POS. Breastfeeding is naked fucking work. If your wife chooses to formula feed from the start, I commend her. For her sake, I hope you shape up before the baby is born. BFFR.
Sorry not sorry but male presenting trans lesbian who’s not out yet? That’s a fûcking straight dude looking to get laid.
Yah, if he wanted to he would. So imagine waking up on your 35th birthday and realizing it’s not happening and here’s the kicker… odds are the person he dates after you leave will be the one he marries, and probably pretty quickly.
You’ll never know for sure but staying with that uncertainty would make me bonkers.
Apparently, my parents had a school fund for him They did say the same thing that I had one too but now they're saying I'm not allowed to use it as it's their money
I would be willing to bet they were already sleeping together before the sister let that slip. I'm putting my money on the fact that the sister was trying to shift blame to the husband, thinking that her sister would believe her and then be too mad at her husband to kick her out. Because her sister is 18, and 18 year olds aren't known for being at a stage in their life where they wouldn't impulsively do that if they were trying to get out of trouble.
Plus sister is already telling him she loves him? This isn't new. No way I buy that at all. I'm putting money that he was sleeping with her before she hit 18. Or at least trying to.
The SITUATION is your fault for letting him drive it in the snow without collision.
The CAR is completely his fault for pressuring you into saying yes, wrecking your vehicle, and then trying to make excuses. He lost control and wrecked two vehicles while joyriding in hazardous road conditions.
He absolutely needs to pay you back. If he doesn't have all 6.5k now, he needs to be on a repayment plan(in writing) for the full amount. You have to stay firm on this, and if you don't dump him now, dump him and take him to court if he refuses to pay.
He has done shitty things in the past. This is the shittiest yet, and is either the final straw or the moment you look back on and say “that's when I should have left.”
OR he really has changed, and this is the chance for him to prove that by owning up to his mistake and making the situation as right as possible.
But it is a fork in the road, and it's his choice whether to go down the path that results in this relationship hydroplaning, crashing and eventually being totalled.
(But I swear to god if he tries to screw you dump his ass and lawyer up.)
So all of you are in the wrong here. You have no business driving without insurance, let alone let someone else drive it. He had no business driving a car with his current license being at risk of being revoked/suspended. Honestly, I'd take what he's willing to give you. Now if you simply want to break up due to other reasons, then just break up.
He kisses me every time I ask him to? I guess you didn’t see the other comments.
Seriously. I am in a m/f relationship. We are both bi but don’t need to have partners of both sexes. We found each other and are happy. Bisexuality doesn’t mean I have to date women.
Your ex's kink is watching women masturbate. Your kink is watching penises penetrating vaginas. Different strokes.
Here's the thing. Porn isn't your deal breaker. Him watching porn that doesn't turn you on is your deal breaker. You want your bf to only get off on porn that gets you off or with home made porn. This is an unreasonable request. Your problem with your ex getting off to porn of other women, too, is of the why are you looking at them when you could be looking at me. Is it unreasonable to expect your bf to only use home made porn? If that's something you both agree on, no, it's not. Expecting him to change kinks to suit you is, though.
Thank you. You actually understand the issue.
Yea. Unfortunately I do. Your situation sounds really dangerous. Get that safety plan in place and go from there.
If you start calling DV resources and asking about a safety plan vs a bus ticket you may have more luck getting services.
Some people are so desperate to stay in a relationship that they hurt themselves staying in that relationship. You need to leave, you're worth so much more than this bs. Don't waste your youth on someone who doesn't give a crap about you
Honestly I think I've hit the age where my brain don't work so good no more so you're gonna have to explain this or I'll go to sleep early because my head hurts.
Continuing friendship = disaster for relationship.
This is satire, right?
Good for her.
You can't be this thick headed, can you? She didn't change her mind about you staying. Your reaction of slamming the jacket in frustration about staying forced her change of mind. Had you not reacted that way and simply said OK she wouldn't have told you, never mind.
Also, you were 25 dating an 18 yr old?
You may not have your family but at least you have your religion still. That’s more important to you. Have a conversation with your religion, give it a hug, and cuddle wit it.
the thing is, it is not possible to convince people that you are not the bad guy here. drinking and going to parties is normal, and you cannot “allow” your child to go to college. she is legally considered an adult and you cannot change her behavior. you had 18 years to raise her, and if she is not following your rules you can’t really do anything about it but withhold money, but i don’t advise this. your daughter is not using you for money. it seems to me like you are using the money to control her.
sure, it can be difficult to have a child who does not follow what you hoped for them. but what is more important to you, these rules or your daughter’s happiness? you are free to choose which ever one you feel is right but you must recognize that your family will see it and learn that you care more about rules than them.
I know that, usually states is just a nickname given to the US, and OP lives in the US, so I assumed you meant the US and mentioning there’s other Countries. I mostly started sharing based on the Country OP is referring to.
As an aunt you essentially have no rights to access to those children, no matter how entitled you feel to do so. And you are frank in admitting your part in the “bad blood” with their remaining parent, their father.
He is trying to limit that chaos in their lives, and you have been volatile and out of line in the past. The adage in psychology is “Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior.” As he sees it, and I agree, the upside of them being around you is not sufficient to outweigh the risks of them being around you.
The whole furniture issue sounds like you feel your grievance about some of your things being lost or ruined evens out the negative things you have said and done. It doesn't.
Since your continued efforts to see your niece and nephew will not succeed, and are a source of conflict for your parents, you really should just give up on that and accept the loss.
Lilly is not your responsibility. She may be a friend, but at 18 she needs to learn to take care of herself.
Your wife’s mental health needs to come first before sn internet friend.
Lilly sounds like she needs a residential mental health rehab. Not something in a hospital setting, but perhaps a campus style 30-90 day program.
From there the social workers there will be able to attend to her aftercare plans. Finding her stable housing, mental health care, and schooling/work.
That’s honestly the most appropriate thing to do.
It’s great you and Jenny are doing couples therapy together, but I think you need some individual for yourself.
Please take care of yourself and your wife.
Lilly will be ok.
While you may see his reaction and behaviour as irrational or unfair – and while that may be the case – how he feels about seeing you getting texts from an ex boyfriend showing his abs is a valid feeling and he’s allowed to feel however he wants to feel about that, and it’s ok. You are also allowed to feel how you feel. It’s better to talk to him about it and explain. He doesn’t have to accept or understand and you have to be ok with that. You don’t have to stop talking to your friend either, and he might have to be ok with that too. It’s always tricky but ultimately I’d suggest thinking about who’s more important – your husband or the guy you slept with years ago?
It’s a clear choice. Give it some space and some time, it’ll right itself, but prioritise your husband, acknowledging how he feels, and ask him to understand your feelings too. Talking about this is vital. It will make you stronger as a couple.
it just sucks looking back at all those years thinking “this person truly gets me” only to realize it was only on the condition that I’d sleep with him.
Anyways, he kept trying to get us back together for the first year by sending flowers, hand writing long letters and so on. I kept saying no because I genuinely felt like I had no more romantic love for him.
So which is it, is he only interested in sex or does he have more romantic love to give than you.
First: you’re absolutely not fine not talking about your issues with each other. You’re here, aren’t you? So stop that nonsense and start talking to each other.
Second: tell him straight up that unless he’s willing to talk about sex, you’re not willing to have sex. This is not the same as weaponizing sex, i.e. withholding sex if he’s not doing chores et c. This is just taking him at his words: if you have to sort yourself out, so can he.
If you're not and unable to date – don't try to convince yourself that you're involved in something special because he does or says this, that, or whatever. You're not exclusive. He can do what he wants. If the arrangement bothers you, stop participating. If his dating stuff bothers you, tell him in words. 'I know we're just having fun here, but I'd appreciate it if you don't swipe on tinder in my home.' Then let the chips fall where they may.
Why are you letting him make these rules? What do you think he will do if you break his rules? Are you scared of him on some level?
You mentioned his “expectation” that you provide dinner even if you go to the gym. What about your expectations? I think you should start expecting as much of him as he expects from you.
I think you should start to expect him to prepare his own meals however many nights you want. (I’d say to expect him to provide dinner for you both, the way you do for him, but I think that will end up with you either having no food or food you dislike).
Buy yourself some frozen dinners or whatever else you want to eat that is super easy, and tell him which nights you expect him to fend for himself. Give him a couple days notice so he can grocery shop or whatever, but set your expectation and hold firm. Unless he’s abusive, that shouldn’t be something you are scared to do.
Also, preparing home cooked meals every night is a LOT of work when you factor in menu planning and shopping. If he isn’t going to share this effort, is he going to make some kind of equivalent effort doing something else? My guess is no…
Note:sorry for my poor english it isnt my first language
Btw what do you mean by stick around for the ride?
OP please please give yourself permission to potentially to leave this relationship “unhealthily” that is don't put yourself in a dangerous situation because you feel you need to give him a chance or don't want to be seen as a bad guy.
tbh this is a very scary moment for you but in many ways this is a potential life-saver. It's naked to believe that this man is safe as you said no honesty and the reported excuses are very low accountability.
My guess is that confronting this could be quite dangerous for you literally, but also potentially could spark a lot of manipulation.
I would be surprised if he didn't already know he ruined your birthday… I would be telling him, “you purposely were unkind and spiteful to me. You treated me like garbage for my birthday. I deserve better than that and I need some space to think about if I want to be in this relationship or not.” Take a few days and contemplate if this is how you want your partner to treat you.
Yeah, if they have a past of murder and animal abuse maybe. But someone having health relationships before meeting you is not something to get stuck on.
I think it's a sign that she recognises that you care and that you love her. If it becomes a thing she does regularly perhaps have a conversation about how lucky she is to have a dad already but that you'd love and feel very lucky if she picked a special name for you that only she gets to you (papa, pops etc). This is mainly for the sake of her dad who clearly cares and is involved.
I’m not okay with her behavior and I’m sure she will cut him off if i asked. I’m upset that she hid the relationship that they had and convinced me that he was a mentor/close friend. I even dropped her off at his house one evening so they can catch up.
He's too young for this lack of interest in sex. Some people are asexual, but he had previously been intimate with you.
Is he closeted? Was he abused as a young boy? Is he unsure of his sexuality?
There are lots of older men that smoke, drink, and eat like crap and have healthy, vigorous sex lives. I'm thinking it's something else he's locked away and doesn't want to deal with. That would be a shame if he can't release it and learn how to be fully and completely intimate with someone who cares so deeply for him. But – he has to be the one to decide.
What do you want? To be clear, I’m not asking what you want from us. What do you want from her?
Sorry to hear. Why can't he do it though? He doesn't want to be the first?
I didn't get a paternity test
Had doubts
Child wasn't mine after DNA test 5 months in
Having said that- if my current girlfriend gets pregnant, I know it's mine.
Do I (21F) leave my (19m) husband
Yes, do it.
You’re 10 year old child is going to have a 63 year old parent. Your child is going to graduate high school with a 70 year old parent. Your child will hopefully be going through college while worrying about health problems that should be reserved for grand parents.
Parenting is naked enough, you don’t need to make it harder. Idk how you expect to raise a kid while also taking care of an elderly partner.
Let me tell you something honest and hard to hear but for the best.
I just broke up with my boyfriend of over 3 years because I chose my school… And it was the best decision I made.
I loved and still love him with all my heart. I mean, we were going to move in together if I hadn't been accepted! But I chose this graduate school and we decided we would attempt to do long distance. I've grown and changed a lot and he started a job and is grown and changed a lot. We've both figured out who we are and things we want in life and as much as we love each other, it's not necessarily enough to live! a happy full life. We want what's best for each other and mine is here and his is there. So maybe you two will work out!! 2 hours is not the worst long distance, but sometimes you have to take that leap into doing something scary and uncomfortable to learn how to be yourself and to grow as an individual.
And who knows, maybe you'll grow together just in different locations. It's okay to be sad about these changes, but remember there is so much more to life and you want to get to experience all of it and figure out who you are. More than just “his girlfriend” You want to be you! I wish you the best of luck. College was a great experience for me. It had shitty moments but I really made me into who I am today.
Let me tell you something honest and hard to hear but for the best.
I just broke up with my boyfriend of over 3 years because I chose my school… And it was the best decision I made.
I loved and still love him with all my heart. I mean, we were going to move in together if I hadn't been accepted! But I chose this graduate school and we decided we would attempt to do long distance. I've grown and changed a lot and he started a job and is grown and changed a lot. We've both figured out who we are and things we want in life and as much as we love each other, it's not necessarily enough to live! a happy full life. We want what's best for each other and mine is here and his is there. So maybe you two will work out!! 2 hours is not the worst long distance, but sometimes you have to take that leap into doing something scary and uncomfortable to learn how to be yourself and to grow as an individual.
And who knows, maybe you'll grow together just in different locations. It's okay to be sad about these changes, but remember there is so much more to life and you want to get to experience all of it and figure out who you are. More than just “his girlfriend” You want to be you! I wish you the best of luck. College was a great experience for me. It had shitty moments but I really made me into who I am today.
You are taking on far too much responsibility for your partners mental health. If he cannot work without you going with him then he probably shouldn't be working. You will nurn yourself out and start to resent him. I know you think you're helping him but it's the opposite.
You can't pick who you fall in love with
Or, maybe not. You are stalking her by your admission. Get therapy, move on and cut contact.
He can’t ejaculate inside you? or does he have to pull out? I find that kind of odd. What about oral? Is it strictly anal?
Also – hugely disrespectful to show vids of your ex to ANYONE without her permission.
You’ve shown your current girlfriend a lot more than a video, you’ve shown her how little you value consent
Appreciate the insight, thank you
Nah. Now it's time for a serious talk with him. Tell him plainly “I think you're cheating and it made me want to look through your phone. So either tell me what's going on or I have to end the relationship for my own piece of mind.”
If there is no trust, there is no relationship. Once you are ready to invade someone's privacy, it's time to leave.
nothing good happens after 2am