Well this all depends on, do you still love this boy? Do the pros outway his cons? Is he mentally draining? Is no longer bringing you joy? Do you see a happy future with him? Have you tried communicating and now you just sound like a broken record and he could care less?
Ask yourself questions like those, nobody can really decide this for you other than give you advice. Personally, this boy would NOT be my type. I like people who care about their education, and are well rounded. Now of course I don’t mind teaching people new things where their parents lacked. I myself also don’t mind learning. But that’s me and what I prefer. What do you prefer? If his personality is making it absolutely impossible for you to be happy. It might be time for you to let go if the communication is just NOT going anywhere.
That’s honestly my best advice I can give, I hope you find a solution that makes you happy regardless. He might have unresolved trauma / conflict with his dad or 2 he doesn’t want to move out and just isn’t telling you. Just something to think about. Best of luck!
I’d just end it and go separate ways. Your partner wants to see if the grass is greener then come back to you when she realizes it’s not. You don’t deserve that.
You were so young when you got together, you haven’t experienced dating etc. Enjoy life, be careful of course and don’t wait for her. Let her go, but tell her it’s not a separation, it’s over for good and maybe one day you’ll find each other again but not to count on it.
Don’t share the dog, she should let you have the dog if she wants to end the relationship
Can you buy her out of her share? I’d never go back to a partner that made me sell our home and left to see other people.
Also, has your relationship always been about her and her feelings? You mentioned her depression. Are you always having to soothe and placate her? Be there for her? Is she ever there for you emotionally? Think long and nude about your relationship and what you want for your future.
Prodigy – Smack my bitch up
Well this all depends on, do you still love this boy? Do the pros outway his cons? Is he mentally draining? Is no longer bringing you joy? Do you see a happy future with him? Have you tried communicating and now you just sound like a broken record and he could care less?
Ask yourself questions like those, nobody can really decide this for you other than give you advice. Personally, this boy would NOT be my type. I like people who care about their education, and are well rounded. Now of course I don’t mind teaching people new things where their parents lacked. I myself also don’t mind learning. But that’s me and what I prefer. What do you prefer? If his personality is making it absolutely impossible for you to be happy. It might be time for you to let go if the communication is just NOT going anywhere.
That’s honestly my best advice I can give, I hope you find a solution that makes you happy regardless. He might have unresolved trauma / conflict with his dad or 2 he doesn’t want to move out and just isn’t telling you. Just something to think about. Best of luck!
“Her messages made light of this and conceded that I'll surely fail.”
This is not what venting sounds like.
“Am I being played?”
If you're still uncertain, just give it time and I'm certain you'll find out the truth in 6 months.
I’d just end it and go separate ways. Your partner wants to see if the grass is greener then come back to you when she realizes it’s not. You don’t deserve that.
You were so young when you got together, you haven’t experienced dating etc. Enjoy life, be careful of course and don’t wait for her. Let her go, but tell her it’s not a separation, it’s over for good and maybe one day you’ll find each other again but not to count on it.
Don’t share the dog, she should let you have the dog if she wants to end the relationship
Can you buy her out of her share? I’d never go back to a partner that made me sell our home and left to see other people.
Also, has your relationship always been about her and her feelings? You mentioned her depression. Are you always having to soothe and placate her? Be there for her? Is she ever there for you emotionally? Think long and nude about your relationship and what you want for your future.
Lol at his age and gender his BMI is 21. He's just normal. You people are so fat on average you just have no idea what is normal anymore.