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No one owes anyone exclusivity that hasn’t been discussed and agreed to
To be honest, if I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't even have bothered with you, and would have already ended things. To me, it just sounds super immature to stick etiquettes like “official”, dating or not dating, and the likes. If you find someone special, just run with it, and don't play games.
It sucks to love someone you wish you didn’t.
This wouldn’t be ok with me. I’m not interested in being in that situation where my girlfriend is smoking and drinking in some dudes house. Not my scene. To each their own I guess.
Look, he can afford to hire a part time helper for them, for at least a day a week. So, propose that to him. Sit and write down what YOU want. In as many details possible. Also, sit him down and have a real talk about what HE wants. Not you, not his mom, not his dad. What HE wants. You just listen and don’t interrupt. And then, give him the list and you are allowed to say “I wrote down this, but I haven’t thought of what you said, and I like it better, so let’s do that”. It would be a shame if you two want the same things but you allow generational trauma to split you up. Good luck!
Look, he can afford to hire a part time helper for them, for at least a day a week. So, propose that to him. Sit and write down what YOU want. In as many details possible. Also, sit him down and have a real talk about what HE wants. Not you, not his mom, not his dad. What HE wants. You just listen and don’t interrupt. And then, give him the list and you are allowed to say “I wrote down this, but I haven’t thought of what you said, and I like it better, so let’s do that”. It would be a shame if you two want the same things but you allow generational trauma to split you up. Good luck!
Everyone here can clearly tell you are leaving out a TON of info. It's super obvious.
It's pretty logical when you think about.. If she cries, tears and snot might come out and it would be nice to have something to wipe it away.
If she's having a bad day, you can try and do things that make it better, massage, do things she like etc
If she's hurt, always ask if she's OK,
Never try and solve a problem of hers unless she asks. They often only want you to listen to them.
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I agree, but some commutation up front would have salvaged the bruised ego lol.
Find a divorce lawyer. As you are doing most of the childcare, you will be the one getting child support and the house. Serve her the divorce papers and then tell her to get her shit out of your house.
You say “I know you want to come, it my grandmother can’t handle new people visiting her right now. I know it sucks, but her needs come first right now. I hope in the future you visiting might happen, but right now it will be me and my sister. Thank you for understanding.”
I wanted her to have the dinner. But what I didn’t want was for her to take money to pay for something that should’ve been able to cover
You don't just “forget” that that's in there
Well this isn't a safe assumption. I've forgotten what's on my phone countless times. I'd say my default state is not knowing whats on my phone. When I had my first kid and started actually using my phone camera more, I was quite surprised to find some of the things in my camera roll.
I have absolutely forgotten about dirty pictures I had on my phone, and I don't even use cloud syncing software like most people do that'd make it even easier to have old pics on your phone.
He doesn’t want to lose a fuck buddy. He’s making you think it’s more – but he knows that you have had mixed feelings about everything – and he isn’t changing his behavior. If he cared about being your friend, he would listen to you when you told him your feelings and would respect you enough to not mess with your head.
Went to it because of Covid. Still having the same issue with the real world. Everything seems great until they Google (or ask) what demisexual means and then poof.
I had actually met who I thought was a really nice guy and we had been dating for a month. Went to pick him up last night for our date and his girlfriend answered the door. Apparently they are long distance and she surprised him with a visit? We were both surprise and she was extremely livid so I imagine he did not have a fun night. Anyway, that’s the reason I asked this last night.
I’m glad you have your priorities set.
You know you're both going to age, sag, wrinkle and go gray, right?
If all you care about is her being perfectly fuckable, while she's supposed up accept you with all your flaws, then are you even capable of love?
How about some paragraphs for fuck sake
Eh but random gifts is different from random showing up unannounced and forcing her to take time off of work which i think would cause anyone stress then feeling like she’s not being sufficiently grateful.
Couldnt find anything saying incest in moldova was less common than anywhere else in particular
It seems you are also being overbearing and that is what she wants to get away from so that is why she is hesitating to make a decision. Let her move at her own pace and quit pushing. Let her online where she wants to on-line and visit when you can. Do not give up your own place unless she is ready for a more permanent commitment. But has she actually said you can online with her or just visit because she seems to be adamant that she wants to online alone. So back off, see her when you both can agree and decide for yourself if her timeline and yours are compatible.
I have the same dynamic with my partner. I work full time and he works the equivalent of 2 full time jobs. I end up doing 90% of the house work. My partners work is seasonal so in the off periods he picks up the slack but this is probably only 25% of the year. I'm okay with this dynamic but I appreciate that many people wouldn't be.
You have to work out a few things: 1. Is there a time frame for this? Is your partner working on a project that is very intense but will end, or looking to change jobs to lessen their work load? 2. Is he happy to outsource his share? Pay for a cleaner / send laundry to be done / order groceries online/ hire a gardener etc 3. Are you happy to temporarily shoulder more of the burden (I'm guessing not which is why you're here)
Relationships are very rarely 50:50 but if you are taking on more of the burden unwillingly, you run the risk of growing resentful and burnt out.
You have to advocate for yourself and your wants and needs. If he is not willing to either outsource his share to help or step up himself, I'd be cautious about buying a house with him.
Dude. He was happy to break your shit because you said you were worried about the Roomba getting caught on something.
No.
Dump her. She'll have plenty of time to think then.
Keep the cats, dump him
if she doesn’t want to stop smoking, leave her alone. you pushing her will only make things worse. this is clearly something she enjoys and even you admit that it’s not negatively affecting her and she isn’t taking it too far.
if you have genuine concerns- like regarding her physical or mental health- along with valid reasons to have those concerns, feel free to raise them and explain why you have them. have a conversation about it, sure. but don’t try to “help her quit” if quitting isn’t something she wants to do.
and if you did get her to quit, it would probably be bc she felt ashamed and/or judged, which is only going to lead her to resent you for making her feel like she has to change who she is and what she does. accept her for who she is or find someone that you can
Partner, I need some time and space to reflect on our relationship. Im not willing to have you stay with me for your new position. I am having a very hot time deciding if I want to stay with you.
No matter the reason;s) why you texted her. You did and if this is how you are while stressed, it doesn’t bode well for us now. You texted her instead of talking to me. I have major issues with that.
For now we can text only for the next month. Maybe call but for this week I just want to be alone.
Op, what you do next us up to you. He needs to talk to someone. Get some sort of therapy as to why ge did this. You need to decide if this is something you can get past and put behind you. Or will it weigh upon you. Just do you know, even if you break up, it will take time to heal from this and you might worry about this happening with any future guys you date. It will get better.
My main concern is his claiming he didn’t know he was emotionally cheating.
He does know he shouldn’t be telling another woman that she’s the one that got away. That is what makes me say to end it.
In the grand scheme of things, your career doesn't matter. Your money doesn't matter. Mansions, nice cars, expensive clothes, exotic vacations, they don't matter. Only people matter. When you are lying on your deathbed all you will be remembering are your relationships with your friends and family and regretting all the time you never spent with them.
Buddy should have planned better. Just laugh about it and love on. Do engagement photos or a party and switch the narrative.
I’d be a bit annoyed if someone invited me to their apt for dinner and then expected me to do their chores. At that point I’d rather have stayed home and done my own. I’m assuming he has his own place and has his own chores too.
Maybe everyone does things differently but I do my chores and my bf does his and we don’t expect each other to do on another’s. We definitely pick up after ourselves when visiting.
This is a good opportunity to talk about expectations especially when staying over every night. Lines can be blurred when you don’t officially online together.
I go to therapy once a week and have a psychiatric control every two months. I struggle to make friends… and always take my meds. Still I don’t know if its him or me… because i am in so much pain in that moments I can’t really understand anything
Well the thing is photos are taken so you can look back at those moments. Don’t you think it’s hurtful to your partner if you had kept photos of your ex in your phone to look back at? And adding to that the fact that he was messaging her and stuff it doesn’t help his case either
People with penises can be short too.
Delete this, speak to a good attorney with a custody success rate for fathers and do whatever they say will give you the best chances of getting custody
Tell her no and leave her
Nah. She is hiding something.
Do you think your gf complained to her mom about your gaming, and that's why she took the console?
Not that this makes it right, I'm just curious.
Every relationship starts accidentally or for shallow reasons, because you can't know anything except really shallow things when you first get together. It's where it goes after that as you get to know the real other person that matters. No, you shouldn't be worried, as long as there is more between you now than just her wanting attention.
Not even private loans? They really have locked us in that misery forever. Thankfully I’m able to afford mine
Let's not jump to a diagnosis. First and foremost, how often does he masturbate and is he white-knuckling his, little buddy? If he masturbates with a hulk smash grip, this is simply fixed by stopping for a few days or weeks. If he has stress in his life and this is a release, it has nothing to do with you but can you help build a better connection by substituting this activity with non-sexual quality time? I might even go out on a limb and say he might be “pre-gaming” because he wants to perform and does not know of any other way to go about it. This is where you two have a discussion and share feelings and open up to each other. It's very hot to do at your age and the experience needed to establish a meaningful relationship is even more difficult due to the soreness and negative feelings from a previous boyfriend. This is an easy fix it just requires some communication and forgiveness. I hope this helps and please be kind to yourself and your boyfriend.
I honestly believe him when he says that he's not trying to get back together with her though. I trust my partner. And I kind of feel like if he indeed just wants a friendship with her and nothing inappropriate will ever happen, I maybe am making an issue out of nothing..
I honestly believe him when he says that he's not trying to get back together with her though. I trust my partner. And I kind of feel like if he indeed just wants a friendship with her and nothing inappropriate will ever happen, I maybe am making an issue out of nothing..
to update everyone: we did cancel it & she got extremely pissed & called me a liar & they’re all saying i’m depriving my son of a party 🙂
Reminds me of Trainspotting. At least it didn’t get that far.
Honey, you made the right decision for yourself and she has proven with this nonsense that you were right.
She is not a safe person for you. She is acting in a way that should be relationship ending, no matter how long you've been together.
I'm so sorry.
That video was made recently.
Just move on bro. You don’t need the internet to tell you what you need to do.
3 months
How are you going to repair this if you can even read a letter from them expressing their feelings? Trying to get their perspective, even if you disagree, is an absolutely necessary step.
being alone is not horrible. i've been single a while and yeah it sucks sometimes but better than being with someone who hurts you.
“It meant nothing to me” may seem like an innocent apology for cheating, but it's actually a shallow and insensitive line that discounts the severity of your actions. Not only does this statement fail to acknowledge the pain and hurt you've caused your partner, but it also removes any accountability for your actions. Instead of taking ownership for your poor judgment and lack of respect for your relationship, you've chosen to brush it off as if it were inconsequential. By saying that your infidelity meant nothing, you've trivialized the impact it has on your partner's emotions and the trust between you two. In essence, this line reflects a lack of empathy, remorse, and emotional intelligence. It indicates that you're more concerned with your own needs and desires than the well-being of your partner, and that's a tough pill to swallow. Instead of relying on this tired, insensitive line, do some self-reflection, explore your motivations and triggers for cheating, and offer a thoughtful, empathetic, and sincere apology that takes responsibility for your actions and demonstrates an understanding of the damage you've caused.
Cheaters gonna cheat.
You have to break it to her that you know about it. That you aren't necessarily angry, but rather disappointed that she has betrayed you in the worst ways and continue to lie about it.
Divorce and find yourself a different meaning and freedom of life.
Good luck pal
We have discussed our past relationships and insecurities, we have discussed her and I both disliking the other sleeping with or dating other people , we have discussed people we can no longer hang out with alone . But I am terrified to hear something I do not want to hear so I didn’t keep pushing with this one
He may be your friend, but by not telling her you are condoning his cheating behavior.
That doesn’t change anything those pictures were clearly from before they got in a relationship
Girl she is my friend, I actually know her, sexuality is not that big of a deal to me and that's why I asked her. The problem was not with her at all but with her bf (whom i am cool with now if you haven't read my edit). And I can assure you my relationship is ok.
Don't go for a pint…go for a shot
Yea this. I always remember that Chris Watts repeatedly complained to investigators that his wife disrespected his mother – because his mother gave nuts to their nut-allergic toddler and that caused a fight (as it SHOULD).
I think mothers who encourage their sons to be violent is an under-explored area. I with with domestic violence survivors and they almost always seem to have a story about the guys mom 🙁
What the fuck? Erm… get out of there. Run.
Do you have any children?
No I do not have a relationship. And yes there is no issue about anything, it's just I wanted an opinion on how to online through the dating and success, dating or success, or first success then dating scenarios.
I mean. She has already deleted(?) Or at least kicked and blocked me off across everything. So I should probably do the same, more for her sake since who would want your ex to keep photos of you. And I wouldn't say she was the one to make a mistake..I believe I was the one holding her down
That’s a classic abuse tactic. There’s even a name for it, I learned recently. DARVO. Deny, attack, reverse victim and offender.
Yeah totally. Say you’re dating someone who has typically made all the plans for the relationship. This includes short term things like dates as well as longer term, like being the person to initiate conversations about when to move in together, etc. This person has expressed that they don’t like being the only person who makes plans. They’ve been asking for change for years. And this is just one area of your lives that you haven’t really taken an active part in. Finally you start to understand the problem and take steps to change it, but it’s so late in the game now that every small neglectful thing you do has a magnified impact. Say you forget to plan a date for your only free night together since you’ve been working nights for 3 weeks (and work has been another point of contention for the two of you). Your partner gently expresses that he’s sad you didn’t plan anything. It’s now too late to make him feel good about the evening by planning something, because the point was you should have planned it without prompting, since he’s been asking you to do stuff like that for years. So it was your action (or inaction) that prompted his feeling sad, and you need to take responsibility for your inaction and also take steps to apologize and redress the situation.