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Reality being that she sleeps with 2.5 dudes a year on average, and doesn’t value sex as an intimate act like OP, right?
I get it plenty lol… which is probably how I’ve ended up married with a wife that understand I’m invested in this relationship. She’s known it from the beginning. Pretty sure I also stated in my OC that it makes no difference to me whether it’s a girlfriend or a wife. Taking a look at the context of OP’s post, maybe it’s just me, but it sounds like after dating this person for the last few months, they’ve made it official. At the very least, that’s her implications and intentions for their relationship.
Feel like I’ve said this in a few comments now, but at some point in your relationship (dating/girlfriend/wife), you’re going to need to start treating them like a long-term partner, which means telling them the things you would tell a long term partner. I don’t keep secrets from my wife, or lie to them for our friends.. nor did I when we were dating. What I think people here don’t seem to understand is a relationship will end or your person will lose faith in your relationship if they learn you’re willing to omit information from them that is their right to know when deciding if they want to pursue a relationship with you. Information coming out later than would’ve persuaded them to not pursue a relationship with you is almost a guaranteed way to end a relationship.
In my opinion, it’s better to start treating them like a long term partner and act with that same intention from the very beginning if you have any hope in actually turning that relationship into a long term relationship. Just because it’s worked for me, doesn’t mean it’s worked for everyone.. but it’s worked for me. Secrecy and lies by omission are a very easy way to kill a relationship. It’s also her right to know and decide whether or not she wants to pursue a relationship with someone who has essentially engaged in sex with his best friend. The fall-out from finding out months or years later can be way more catastrophic, probably lead to insecurity and trust issues as well toward other potential future partners.. on a human level, it’s pretty fucked up to be okay with that. Relationships are about looking outside yourself toward your partner. But everyone is allowed to have their opinion ?♂️
Honestly you should feel nice. Maybe he actually wants to give you a chance and not want any distractions. Take your time and good judgement skills to judge him. Spend some time to get to know him if you feel the same if not tell him goodbye and carry on with your life.
You don't need the government to make your relationship official
It might be good to look into legal options.
Not to mention the possible financial differences in his ex and her ex. There are so many variables that are in play.
Happy Birthday I’m sorry it’s not a good one this year xx
You are not unreasonably scared that your girlfriend will get pregnant you’re playing roulette with her getting pregnant.
Not having a period whilst on birth control is not unusual and not linked to fertility. The ‘bleed week’ was brought in when the pill was designed in the 1960s to reassure women that everything was normal but actually serves no other purpose.
There are alternative birth control methods and I recommend that you both research these.
It doesn’t sound like she lied though. She didnt know he was married and then they made the decision that Will tells her, and Will said everything was fine and OP knew. For all they knew, OP was fine, so it probably just didnt come up.
Run
Beautiful story, made me tear up a bit and at the end I was so happy for you
Yep. Talk to them about this, OP.
Not even a fresh ring pop, a partially eaten one. Haha.
I will try to call her as soon as I can. I'm crossing my fingers that it isn't the case. Thank you
I'm sorry if my post was unclear, we have been sexually active for months not days.
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Just leave. The thing is, if she was having regular sex with you, there is no way she knows for sure that baby wasn’t yours, so she said it to hurt you. Or maybe in her messed up head, if you thought the baby wasn’t yours, it would stop you going on about it and being depressed about it.
She cheated on you and seems to think that this news isn’t a big deal, that’s someone you want to run away from.
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So you clean one bedroom and your wife cleans all the others? No wonder she’s resentful.
You don’t trust him and he’s already broken your trust at least once. What do you think?
The friend is more important break up. Everyone has different views and boundaries. He doesn’t believe in cuddling with friends and you do a lot of people don’t agree with their SO cuddling with friends but also a lot of people also don’t care. Y’all both have different values and views you want to cuddle with your friends and he doesn’t want you to.
I had a friend that found out her bf of 5 years was cheating because she still got checked every 6 months
Is this a good marriage? Am I happy? These are the questions I would be asking myself right now, in your shoes.
You opened pandoras box and your marriage probably won't survive, she did that 3 way thinking of how that will open the door for herself – not because she was into your fantasy. She wants to take too. And to be fair you shouldn't be the only one getting their kicks out of this arrangement.
Definitely do marriage counseling, but you have to both want to save this marriage. At the point where she offered that 3 way she likely gave up on the marriage already, so she may not want the same thing you do now. Consider what separating will look like for you, if you do divorce your kids deserve the best of both of you and a good coparenting relationship.
You finally got what you wanted, I have to wonder how many times during those 9 years you told her you wanted to open that marriage so you could be with another woman, and yet she can't be with another man.
Your girlfriend doesn't respect you. You are her annoying roommate, not her partner. It's time to stay single for a while.
That is a good point…
This sub gets so many of these posts. Do not. Let someone. Tell you. That you. Cannot. Masturbate. You simply do not have the right to tell someone how, if, or when they can touch their own body. If someone tries to impose this on you, leave. Masturbating is supposed to be stress relieving.
I don’t think it’s a stupid issue at all. It’s an extreme and harmful control issue where she keep setting everything up so that she gets literally anything she wants and you get less than you need.
It’s not funny, it’s not cute, it’s bullying and harmful. Just don’t.
Abusive relationships are addictive. The more 'Highs & lows” the harder they are to leave. During a good part they can feel so exciting and electric & wow the passion.
A healthy with stability can feel dull and “boring” compared to a Abusive toxic relationship. I think it is healthy he recognizes his feelings and issues he has.
This is why folks can struggle to leave them and feel broken afterwards in normal relationships.
Bless
You need to speak to a lawyer. Being married means you’re lives are commingled whether you “sign” for it or not.
I agree that it’s never a bad idea to talk to a lawyer but very few states are communal property states. I think only 7 states are.
Question for you though: what happens if someone’s spouse takes a loan out and the person had no knowledge? Can they fight that?
It looked to me like you both communicated well. You brought up what bothered you and he brought up what bothered him. You don’t have to understand where each other is coming from. It takes years and years to really know someone. The important thing is to get through disagreements and misunderstandings. Each one is an opportunity to learn more about each other. Try not to overthink. Just enjoy each other. It sounds like a good one to me.
It looked to me like you both communicated well. You brought up what bothered you and he brought up what bothered him. You don’t have to understand where each other is coming from. It takes years and years to really know someone. The important thing is to get through disagreements and misunderstandings. Each one is an opportunity to learn more about each other. Try not to overthink. Just enjoy each other. It sounds like a good one to me.
Hey, if you want to be in an abusive relationship, go for it. But stop acting like you are confused. There is nothing remotely confusing about this scenario.
Or parents. At some point it might happen too…
How far along is she? Honestly, you should still break up with her and she should get an abortion. Nothing in this story points out at ending well for either of you, even less an innocent child.
I don't know your life, but there are plenty of places to meet people. What seems impossible is getting to know anyone when your attention is divided between 13 men, or even maintaining that many conversations beyond a couple texts a day.
Maybe he wears lingerie with the boys and cuddles hot.
It’s crazy so he supposed to just for a whole month the girl he wants to build a futrue with ignore him, doesn’t want to see him , oh he is supposed to suck it up and be okay with it because She is going through something. We are not your therapist we also have trauma but we get told everyday it’s not the world problem if we don’t have it delt with we shouldnt put another grown human being throught that but hey you want this man to ignore all of the signs that she has a foot out the door. I am sorry but after 5 years if you are not over an ex don’t get in a relationship, now you cause another person to develop trust issue and insecurities because you didn’t decide to make sure you take care of yourself. I would be totally on your side if she didn’t IGNORE HIM FOR A WHOLE MONTH but hey men are supposed to deal with the shit of the world suppose to protect the world supposed make sure we have money have our shit in order just so we can have our hearts broken because you didn’t want to address past feelings
Well you can't fact in his “snooping” because she doesn't know that he's read her diary yet.
When youre in a relationship you can't just think about yourself, you have to factor in the feelings of your partner, and that's what she's not doing here. She knows that OP is suspicious and upset but rather than trying to deal with the issue she's just retreating away and denying that there's a problem. This is not how you handle issues in an adult relationship.
I think a lot of people here are attempting to paint her behaviour in the most optimistic light possible and that's fair, we shouldn't just assume the worst of people. However, we also need to acknowledge that OPs feelings in this situation are just as valid as hers. Everyone is focusing on the pain that she feels over a breakup that happened over 5 years ago whilst ignoring the very current pain that OP is experiencing.
Just a very odd thought… Do either of you like to go out drinking? Do you always have someone you trust with you? Are you both able to limit your drinking and not drink until you're almost unconscious? Could anything… Have happened…? If you're sure neither of you cheated, have there been any odd occurrences?
Personally, I would just agree to a relationship break.
Realistically, unless he is not good with women. There is no way he is going to travel somewhere on a companies dime. And then not go any places where single women frequent like bars.
Dear OP:
1) Your fiance is a moron if she thinks what happened is cheating.
2) You are a moron for proposing to this idiot. Surely you are not so horrible that women your age wouldn't find you attractive??
That would be a no from me. I'd not be on board with my wife getting a tattoo of someone else she dated in the past or even didn't date, especially a bigger one. She doesn't have a tattoo dedicated to me, I wouldn't be happy with someone else on her. I wonder if your wife would like it if you got a large tattoo of someone you dated in your past in a place she would have to see it a lot. I'm guessing no. I know my wife would be a hell no if the roles were reversed. You can do a lot of things to celbrate someones life without dedicating a tattoo to them.
What is “btard”?
She’s the one who was so excited to get married even now she’s only been saying sorry and that she still wants to get married but we are gonna go long distance In a few months which won’t help at all. And to clarify we are both military and we ended up breaking up before she shipped and right after she fucked some dudes in the barracks and she would even talk to me after about how she hates girls who go fucking around in the barracks which has plenty of people I know stationed there. And lying is a pretty massive thing for me.
Your hubby wants time with you without the kids.
He’s either already cheated or is looking for an opportunity
He’s either already cheated or is looking for an opportunity
I've been meaning to get into couples therapy for a awhile. Our relationship is usually fine otherwise, but things do go bad when she's stressed out (and when I get insecure and act in stupid ways due to trust issues).
I still love her and would like to thing we can get better at this with adequate help.
Home insurance wouldn’t cover something she personally lost elsewhere
You have security escort him out and make sure they watch him leave. Showing up in a clown suit isn’t a funny prank it’s him bring a jerk.
Just dump him and move on. That's his problem to deal with.
You tell her family, as she is their problem now.
If you want to go a step further, call the police and get them to do a welfare check, tell them she has been telling you that she wants to kill herself.
But you do not reply to her.
Is it really a that big of a “rewire”? If you want to make change for your partner then that isn't impossible right?
Run, don't walk, away! I had a friend who got evicted for the same reason. The yelling eventually turned to hitting, and she ended up with a permanent brain injury because he knocked her into the porcelain toilet base. We tried to get her to leave, even doing more than one intervention, but she always had excuses for what happened. They were kicked out of over a half dozen places over the years, and I finally lost touch, but her life had gone SO far downhill due to this p.o.s. And the hitting did NOT start until after they moved in together. So please…PLEASE…realize if he is acting like that in the first year, it only gets worse. My friend was one of the smartest people I knew, but fell for the wrong guy, who not only hurt her but then got her into drugs. When someone is so toxic that they negatively impact your life this early on, they are not good for you.
tf i dont know how you got that idea from my post. I genuinely enjoy spending time with her so that's why i wanted to go watch cocaine bear with her. I dont want to hook up with her rn and potentially ruin our friendship. I care about her feelings a lot and i would hate myself if i end up hurting her emotionally, which is exactly why i made this post asking for advice.
Actually It's more deep that it sounds. If somebody doesn't care about you giving them ” free meal tickets ” would just make them think she is a person to freeload on.
This introverted Internet stranger would also like to be your girlfriend's friend. I would totally watch The Mandolorian with her and she can play with my cats.
Just because someone eats healthy doesn’t mean they don’t have a food allergy or intolerance to certain foods. I would def have him get tested for food allergies/ sensitivities.
I mean I get you can't have a biological child but there's more than one way to be a parent.
I do think you're jumping ahead alot but if don't see any harm in being honest.
Would you consider adoption or surrogacy if it was a deal breaker for him to be a father or are you fully done? because that's important for him to know going in. He might have feelings for you but his life goals probably are and should be more important, you need to be fully upfront if you were to pursue anything.
“He says I should be home taking care of him and my son.”
Is he not a grown ass man who can take care of himself? Is this not also his son whom he is equally responsible for? You have a husband who is jealous that you found something that makes you happy that doesn't include him.
I have to agree with the above advice. Sadly, your wife is entrenched in her toxic traits, and is unwilling to seek change. You could suggest couples counseling; her response to the suggestion should reveal whether she has ANY willingness to change left.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, and your children, too. Ya’ll deserve better.
Personally, I don't like them.
I love animals, and would never mistreat or not help one in need, and I have done so for several but I look at those little things and I just don't get the appeal tbh.
But you're totally right, it is people like this that help perpetuate the unfair reputation the little demons puppers have.
Full time college takes more than 40 hours it’s practically a job
You are being verbally abused, and it only gets worse. It doesn't get better.
If he is joking, consider that he finds it funny to verbally abuse someone.
Is this someone you can trust with your mental and physical safety?
Everyone keep saying to tell you dad. I was in the same situation as you at 14. I told my dad to confess what he had done to my mom. I told him many times, and eventually the lies caught up with him, and my mom caught him.
Either way, you’re not at fault, it’s not your responsibility and it’s also not your relationship, but in your situation, you mom needs to take accountability and tell your dad. At least for everyone’s sake and for your mental health.
She's not that into you mate