my husband felt upset because it shows I don't trust him.
Boo fucking hoo, those are the consequences of his own actions. You made an agreement for how he can regain your trust and make you feel secure after you caught him in an affair, and he's already trying to go back on it and guilt trip you. And it's been less than a month! This just shows that he's not really taking responsibility for his actions and isn't committed to fixing the damage he's done. If I were you, I'd be furious that he has the audacity to act like this.
You’re 19. No one is born with all of the life skills we need to navigate the world. Engaging a mental health professional can help you find some tools for your emotional toolbox.
Also, you’re at the age where a lot of young adults first encounter mental health issues like depression.
Lastly, you mentioned this began about 6 mos ago. What else happened 6 mos ago? Any medication changes? Life changes?
This will not get better, it will only get worse. Once you show him that you'll let him control your clothes he will move on to controlling your friends, who you talk to, where you go, how you act.
Get out now because this is as good as it will ever be and it's already terrible.
Can’t see them from the road Kuz it’s gated off
my husband felt upset because it shows I don't trust him.
Boo fucking hoo, those are the consequences of his own actions. You made an agreement for how he can regain your trust and make you feel secure after you caught him in an affair, and he's already trying to go back on it and guilt trip you. And it's been less than a month! This just shows that he's not really taking responsibility for his actions and isn't committed to fixing the damage he's done. If I were you, I'd be furious that he has the audacity to act like this.
Therapy.
You’re 19. No one is born with all of the life skills we need to navigate the world. Engaging a mental health professional can help you find some tools for your emotional toolbox.
Also, you’re at the age where a lot of young adults first encounter mental health issues like depression.
Lastly, you mentioned this began about 6 mos ago. What else happened 6 mos ago? Any medication changes? Life changes?
You don’t have to forget. But you might be better off going limited contact.
This will not get better, it will only get worse. Once you show him that you'll let him control your clothes he will move on to controlling your friends, who you talk to, where you go, how you act.
Get out now because this is as good as it will ever be and it's already terrible.
She's not your girlfriend…it's just your turn.