We (31M) and my (29F) (girlfriend of about 7 months) found ourselves in quite a predicament
For context, I have been courting this woman for a little over 6 months now.
The other night she came over to my apartment and we had been snuggled up on the sofa watching TV. She was on her phone and talking to the girl friends via text messaging. To the count of she had been snuggled up against me, the girl phone was easily within my peripheral. I happened in order to glance over and saw that will she had been making an exchange of conversation with her friend about the girl “work crush”.
I didn' t really see how a lot further the depth of the conversation went. However , I did so see that she told her friend that she was going to send out pics of him plus call her to talk about this later.
I didn' t confront her on the spot because I was just trying to procedure what the fuck I just observed. Also, needed to make sure I can get composure of the emotions before I got me personally into an inevitable point.
I eventually confronted her about what I had seen. I pretty much told her to get dropped and go and try and get with your “work crush” you' re so attached to.
It' s not like I actually expected her to not discover other men attractive. It' s just that to me, this seems like a humongous red light. The fact that she is discussing this particular so-called “work crush” among her friends is not regular behavior of someone in a connection. Even more so stating that will she will provide pictures of him and give further details (obviously when I was not around).
I think that I made the decision that will any man with pride would make.
To be honest, I' m still really upset and sick to a stomach about the whole thing. Interested to hear outside perspectives.
Thanks for reading.
