#@@#@!![UPDATE][32F][32F][34M] My best friend’s husband confessed his feelings for me. Her life has been very difficult and she says she has finally happy. How do I let her know?
Given that some of you asked for a good update:
Shortly after I posted, Rick called to apologize for his habits. He said he never meant for it to come out yet that he' s quite unhappy with his marriage and now he sees no escape with the baby on the way. He then said he would never become this confused about his feelings if Mia didn' capital t have feelings for our boyfriend on which they have been endeavoring to work for a while now but he' s so exhausted from it all that he just wants to end it. He said he' s uncertain of his feelings for me but additionally he wanted to hurt the girl so she can see what she' s putting him through and how painful you should be in love with someone who' s a constant in their lives. Basically, he attempted to spin this entire point on Mia' s injury. I told him in the event that he' s so disappointed with his choices, he can just leave without vicious lies and he that didn' capital t have any reason to put me or my bf in the middle of this. He just said he didn' big t mean for it to happen and we ended the call on that.
I went to Mia afterwards and told her about Rick' s confession. Certainly, she was heartbroken about this but seemed to accept it at the face value. I then told her what Rick stated in his call since I thought she deserves to know that he' s making up stuff causing her back. That' exercise when she broke down and also said she had no idea how it happened, she would hardly ever act on it anyways, and therefore Rick was never supposed to tell me about it but that' s something between them potentially they are so close to resolving. Your wife said she saw exactly how my partner treats me and my kid and just how that' s something your lady desperately wants but it just simply so unlucky. Call myself selfish but if we were acquaintances as I believed we were I will expect her to come onward with this, trauma related or not. It isn' t simply just between Rick and Mia, it involves other people now that were definitely unwillingly put into this entire situation. She spent one-on-one time with my loved one so many times and she never believed bad enough to tell me? At least to attempt to stay away from him and share with me some fake reason behind it?
I know your wife needs support now though I can' t execute this. I simply can' t and won' t and if I' m an asshole for doing it, then so be it. I' m fine a dumb crush, we' re every one only humans, and especially ready history I would 100% fully grasp and help her out whether she came to me regarding it. Lying and the betrayal that went on for years on the other hand I just cannot forgive that conveniently, especially after everything we' ve been through and activities she knows I' ve been through. I told her I would like some space, she tried calling me after I left but I' m very tired to talk to her at all and can' t observe myself doing so anytime soon.
