The wife(22F) is dead fixed that I have cheated(24M) and it has lead to me giving the girl divorce papers.
So lets take it in return a couple, we have had issues in the past on syncing our love languages. About a month ago we got into a huge fight that ended in her going to stay with the girl mom for a week nearly. We talked and informed each other what we needed and things have been going excellent! I started going to perform more things with her like painting, going to gambling establishment, movies, dinner… etcThe previous 3 weeks I have been working 4×10 shifts instead of 5×8 shifts cause of the holidays and im not a contractor so i dont get holidays paid off. I volunteered cause we require the money for bills. Properly 96 hours ago i came home 3 hours into my shift shed something off that the lady needed and give her a hug and she says i smell like perfume. I mentioned im sorry i didnt know why i smelled like that and gave her a couple reasonings. She slept in our room mates (20F her best friend) space thst night. She disregarded me all day. Next day i tried talking to her the girl blew up and freaked out cause apparently i actually made her feel crazy for thinking i was cheating on her. Her reasonings for thinking im cheating. 1 . I been working late. 2 . i been staying past due 3. I have to travel to various hospitals for work plus there are female nurses generally there. She is stuck on this concept of me cheating on her. Overlooked me for 72 hrs and i told her if the girl left for national guard this weekend without talking i would give her papers. So I printed out the papers to petition in order to see if she would try to prevent me and see if the lady cares about it, she simply looked at it and wandered to the car after i walked away and got into the buddies car and drove off. She hasnt came back from guard so still havent talked. I just dont know what to do anymore. Personally i think as if she almost projecting and deflecting. Im always made out to be the bad guy and am have to change and she by no means does. I think this the end. So much for our almost two year marriage and several year relationship.
