Our ( 38F ) sweetheart ( 34M )of three years doesn’t let me use their phone or laptop. Factors came to a head and I snooped.
He' s never allow me to use his phone or laptop throughout the relationship, but I never particularly cared for. I have my own. Things changed this past week though.
We' ve been housesitting together in an area that has no cell service. The other day I' d forgotten my telephone at my place, so I got no way to contact anyone. I asked him if I might use his phone to indication into messenger and quickly send a message to a friend of mine who I used to be meeting later. He was sitting on the couch reverse me using his phone and he tells me that I can use the laptop in the office. Thos laptop belongs to the owner of the house. I' d already investigated that option and told my boyfriend there was the password on it. He then mentioned he' d find his old iPad and I might use that. WHILE HOLDING HOS PHONE TWO FEET FAR FROM ME! I let that go.
Last night, I pointed at his laptop plus said that I' d love to print a few things. He immediately told me that I should use the laptop in the office. I actually again told him it turned out password protected. He says, “I can figure the password out. ” I again left it alone. Later on, he calls the homeowner in COSTA RICA where they' re on vacation to get the password for their laptop….. while his laptop sat right there available. I told him which the situation was really fucked upward and went to bed.
Today I decided to take our things and go back to our place to think about things. He was at work. I was packaging my things up and snapped up a grocery bag that I thought had my textbooks in it. It didn' capital t: it had a small laptop and a few folded pages associated with paper. I pulled out the particular paper and it was a list of his passwords.
I sat and thought about this for three hours and whether I should/would snoop. I finally did considering the past week. One of the passwords opened the particular laptop and…. there was absolutely nothing nefarious on it. Opened his two emails… nothing. Fb…. nothing.
Why was this individual so insistent on maintaining these things private? Obviously, I have to leave him because I actually totally violated his personal privacy… but why wouldn' t he just let me utilize the stupid laptop or phone?
