My (F26) Fiancé (M35) was in a Relationship with a High School student (F18) before he met me
I’m really lost on what to make of all of this and was hoping GAG could help me out.
My fiancé had handed me his phone to look at something on IG, he kinda left and left me with his phone to review some wedding things well while looking I happen to see a girl who’s profile pic is a selfie with nothing covered but the nipples.
Throughout our relationship I had never spied on him before but that one was too hot to resist so I clicked on her profile. Well turns out she is his ex (totally fine he is entitled to a past)
except she looked so young, well I scrolled a bit to figure out he had started dating her a week after she turned 18 and he was 30 at the time.
I first thought ok at least she was legal I guess but then I saw them talking about her high school, she was still a high school student, I mean she invited him to her prom… no 30 year old should ever be invited to a prom!
from what I gathered her parents met him and consented but also from what I gathered (texts weren’t too clear) it seemed like he proposed by the time she was 20! what kind of 30 year old wants to be in a relationship with an 18 year old let along marry them.
More over it got me really concerned that he is 36 and I’m a 26 year previous miss universe contestant (yes people exist, no I don’t work in the entertainment industry and no didn’t come close to winning so please move on from that part because I’m well aware it sounds unrealistic but I want to paint a true image) that makes about 6 times what he does every month so could he be with me just for my looks or money? Do I need a prenup? Should I worry he will trade me in for a hotter younger model after I have kids?
one thing for sure is that I can see some massive differences between our conversations and his conversations with his ex and it’s the only thing that’s giving me a glimpse of hope.
i love this man with all my heart and until a few days ago I would’ve trusted him with my life, he is an average looking middle class guy that is so good to me that I can never see a better human but this whole situation honestly got me throwing up from how nervous I am and worst part is I can’t confront him because I don’t want him to think I’m spying on him
