I am (28M) being pressured to propose by GF (29F). What do I do?
Throw away account (of course). Me (29M) and GF (29F) currently reside! together, we have been together a long time (over 5 years), we all own a house together etc . I really care about her, the girl about me.
The issue is she keeps making comments regarding me proposing to not simply me, but our friends as well, and it’s progressing to be too much! Every time the lady talks to friends – it’s jokes or passive intense comments about how she wishes she was engaged or that I’d propose.
I do want to marry her, but her constant stress is making me not want to propose! She also has it in her mind that I will propose during our next holiday together and though I had considered this I now don’t want to because then it’s not a surprise!
I don’t know what to carry out – I try not to react to get her to stop yet she keeps doing it plus it’s making me not need to propose. I’ve also mentioned it to her, and reassured her that I may propose, but she doesn’t take it on board and keeps pushing it.
How can i get her to stop wondering??