I (20 F) found the championship bracket of ladies on my BFs (20 M) laptop.
I was searching for some thing and accidentally closed the tab so I did ctrl+shift+t to recover and that’s when a spreadsheet with a list of his friends and girls jumped up.
I immediately faced him and that’s whenever he explained everything.
evidently there was a ranking plus my BF was eliminated because he was “dating Camila “
He explained which they used to see who could sleep with the most girls on campus without using tinder or any type of app. It takes place each year from November-December.
I inquired him why he had the ring below his name and he said that last year he slept with the most girls so this individual “won the championship “
I’ve been with him since March. Thankfully our name wasn’t on the checklist but I’m still very very upset.
He said that it’s for jokes and him and his friends do it for fun. I asked him in case he approached me because he wanted to add me towards the list he said at first that was his intention however the more he talked to me in class, he voluntarily withdrew from the list.
He said he opened this to see if anyone moved upward a spot. He promised that will it’s just for an inside humor with his friend.
Yet idk how I feel about this, is this a red flag?
