Husband (38M) is pressuring me (39F) into having IVF and I’m scared
Husband (38M) and I (39F) have been trying for a baby for around 2 years now. We've had various tests and my results have been fine but there are a couple of issues on his side. He's being very good and taking supplements etc but he keeps trying to push me down the ivf route.
We've been to the clinic for tests and now the next step would be starting the procedure. I have said I am not comfortable with it. I have anxiety and quite frankly the thought of the whole process sends me into a panic attack. I am waking up with a racing heart every morning. I feel sick and unhappy. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells to avoid the conversation.
I don't want to regret not having a child but at the same time I wish the whole thing would just go away.
I don't know what to do. He says his mental health will be affected if we don't have a kid but mine is already affected now.
Any advice?
