How do I (25f) tell my boyfriend (25m) that I don’t think sleeping with other people may be beneficial
So I (25f) have been dating Josh (25m) for about 3 years, nicely after josh started talking to a friend Alyssa (26f) he started talking about sleeping with other people (like one night appears and stuff). But the problem is he barely pays attention to me as it is and I think this could only make our closeness problems worse.
All of us do have set boundaries, yet I still don’t feel okay with it and I don’t want to give Alyssa any ammo (she most definitely has feelings for Josh) so how do I tell him that I do not think it’s a good idea without having it being able to be garbled to sound like I’m the crazy insecure girlfriend?
Revise: he doesn’t want an open relationship and there’s absolutely no way he’s sleeping with other individuals (we live and work together)
