(FL) Best friend didn’t disclose she’s HIV positive and now is usually pregnant.
When she was first diagnosed two years ago, she informed me and was always honest about her status to men beforehand which usually ended in disappointment on her. I’m assuming this is why she didn’t disclose to her present partner.
She called me yesterday saying she had been pregnant and how should the lady tell the dad. I used to be confused and thought the girl meant her pregnancy but she said no regarding her being positive. That will she didn’t know how to bring it up. They’ve had sexual intercourse nearly everyday as they on the web together. He stays house while she works sometimes so I always believed he was aware of her standing..
She’s 30 and this kid is 22-25. I informed her to take him to the center and ended the call due to the fact I’m so disappointed within her.
She has three little boys to take care of. How should I go about this? I feel like now that I know she’s having vulnerable, unguarded, isolated, exposed, unshielded, at risk sex without disclosing I’m tied into it morally and perhaps legally.
(I verified I’m not legally tied with legal advice) nevertheless I still don’t would like her to be “so, therefore (me) knew about this and said nothing”
She’s been my best friend for 10 years. If she didn’t have got kids I’d have already reported her but I’m afraid of them going to the system..
