(Final Update) My(m28) Wife(f28) kept a talent show from our wedding reception. Her friend who sang networked using a guest who wants to potentially work together with her. She has become bitter since
(Update) Wife(f28) held a talent show at our wedding reception. Her friend who sang networked with a guest who wants to potentially work with her. She has become bitter since
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TL; DR: Spoken to my producer friend regarding everything that happened with Nancy. We are in the middle of a divorce
Simply wanted to come back to conclude this particular because it' s already been helpful to hear opinions and get everything out. A lot of people requested how I was in messages, and there were too many to respond too. We are currently along the way of a divorce. She' t staying with her parents, and I' ve had a while to process and see elements differently. I want to touch upon two things that' t happened since my update. The first is a Facebook posting she made about me personally and the guests. In her post, she said the girl was “supposed to win” and that it was an “unwritten rule” for the bride to win (as if wedding ceremony talent shows are normal). She also accused them of “smiting her on her day” when no one knew about the show beforehand other than her participating friends. The lady then accused me associated with “taking Kate' s side” instead of comforting her as her new husband, but taking her side intended cutting off our friend group as she experienced in the aftermath. I don' t know how her parents feel after she known as out both sides from the guests, but I really don' t care at this point. The lady also wanted me to slice off my producer friend (Edward) who approached Kate after she sang her original song and requested if they wanted to collab at some point, and I want to focus on that will
I talked to Edward recently about everything which includes how she wanted me to cut him off, and he couldn' t believe how much it affected her. Nancy and I watched a football game at his house with him and his fiancée some months back, and has a day job within an office. When I told your pet about how Nancy was envious of Kate' s “big break”, he couldn' t believe it and said that he planned to let Kate use his audio interface to plug into her guitar and record a high quality instrumental of the girl original along with his microphone as well. He also said this individual wasn' t great from mixing and was acquiring online courses to learn, therefore he was gonna suggest that she commission someone to mix/enhance the files they' m record because he was faraway from a professional. He' s a very chill guy, but he couldn' t stop having a laugh over how Nancy thought that all he was all that. He or she only wanted to use his interface to give her a superior quality recording after learning that will she didn' t have equipment and recorded the girl original on her phone. He and his fiancée planned to have her for dinner (just such as they had me and Nancy over for football) and record it in the basements afterwards
Looking back in hindsight, it' s crazy ways to be blinded to things, but I never dreamed just how crazy she might get. I didn' t state this in my first 2 posts because I thought it may overshadow her actions, but she sometimes posts regarding women empowerment on her socials, and I recently thought about that will for one reason. When I inquired her why she wanted to have a talent show, she said she wanted to “emphasize the importance of having good friends” because they were “important to a relationship”. But as I view it now, perhaps it was certainly not about that. Nancy was troubled the second that Kate' h song got a better wedding reception than her, and she doubled down when she venting to two of the girl girlfriends after the wedding who have called her out for becoming jealous, and that made her demand I also cut off our friend group. To everyone who asked what the girl poem was about, it was about women empowerment and the significance of having good friends and household when starting a family, and she told me the premise beforehand even though she never showed myself the poem. She wished it to be a surprise, but I never had a chance to see it on paper after the wedding ceremony for… reasons. Many people also corrected how she said that Kate received a “hand me down” opportunity on the wedding, but the proper term was “handout” as many fixed. I really appreciate everyone who offered advice as it helped a lot mentally, not to mention searching back at how insane it all was. Just looking to fully get over it as time goes on, but I' ve become over some of it recently
