Boyfriend won’t stop making breads. Help
For my boyfriend' s 23rd birthday in October I (25f) gifted him a bread baking guide with lots of recipes and things. It' s a hobby he or she picked up a while back and I wanted to encourage it. I acquired him some other products to get him started as well.
Well, he was very happy concerning the gift and immediately started experimenting with different recipes. I had been very happy for him initially but recently it' s gotten to a point where all of the we can ever talk about is certainly bread.
He' s at all times working on 4-5 breads concurrently. He does give them away to me and his friends, which is excellent of him, but if seems like we barely spend quality time together anymore because he always has to bake.
We nearly exclusively hang out at his place because I have roommates and a smaller apartment whilst he lives alone. But it' s become THEREFORE messy (flour and dough everywhere in the kitchen) and he doesn' t clean it up as they says “he' s likely to be making more bread anyhow soon. ” And given that he' s always active baking he doesn' t clean the rest of his residence either. (And yes I actually do clean up after myself/when we make dinner together and so on when I' m from his place. But We can' t do everything for him)
Also even if we go out he can by no means relax because he has to give food to the starter or no matter what.
I don' capital t want to discourage his interests and haven' t mentioned anything but I feel like he or she never has time for us anymore, not really. What can I actually do without being an asshole about this?
