#@@#@!![36f, 38m] My husband states I’ve convinced myself he is having/going to have an affair and it also doesn’t matter what he does or says

I’m 36f, my hubby is 38m and we have been married for nine years, together for three just before that.

My mother lives near us and lately opened up her home to a young woman (“Julia”, 27f) in her church exactly who lost her house within a house fire. She’s staying with her while her brand new house is being built. It works out well, since Julia works part time from home plus my mom recently had a surgery that limits her flexibility, Julia is able to help my friend out with certain details my husband and I had been doing when we weren’t at work (grocery buying, taking her to doctors, etc). One of the things Julia continues to be helping my mom out along with is taking my kids towards the bus stop in the morning. (The biggest issue is that my mom can’t go up or down stairs, and home is three floors). I leave for work at 6AM, my husband generally leaves in 7: 00 and our sons wake up at seven: 15. They’re both previous enough to do most things on their own, they just need someone to make sure they get out the door simply by 8: 10.

Recently i found out that Julia plus my mother have been arriving over early (at 6: 30) so my husband plus Julia could work out jointly. I was a little annoyed that my husband didn’t say everything to me but he says it wasn’t a big deal, they each do hitt, it did’t even strike him because something important enough to say to me.

Tonight when I came home I went into the bedroom and I SWORE We smelled her perfume (she wears a distinct perfume, it’s like almond and jasmine) in our room, ESPECIALLY near our bed and window. I asked my husband about it, and he got really annoyed. He was like, what are you implying? That I’m bringing her into the bedroom? And asked me why My spouse and i ‘made my mind up’ that he was up to something, and that even though I did not outright accuse him of anything my questions ‘implied’ something, and it didn’t matter what he did or stated, my mind was composed that he was going to cheat.

I used to be kind of taken aback by his reaction? It appeared pretty strong. But he admits that I was ‘passive aggressive’ with my questions and that I knew what I was implying.

edit Since so many associated with you are so sure that I did, in fact , accuse him… Here is the exact wording of the query I asked him that will sent him off so much:

”Hey the bedroom smells like Julia’s perfume, was she this website? ”

Instead of answering myself yes, or no, or I don’t know… He flipped on me. So yes, I am alarmed by that.

edit 2, copied from a opinion that seems relevant: After i asked about the perfume I truly wasn’t thinking about him infidelity. I wanted to know the reason for the girl being in there-did I forget about something for my kids, was the dog acting up, did we loose something? Their reaction made me suspicious though.

He says he did not tell me about them working out as they thought I’d feel “left out”.

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