1st date. Girl says the lady minds if we split the particular bill
She asked me out there and chose the location. The particular date is brunch the next day. I actually Googled when the best time to ask this is and the answer is before you get in to the restauraunt. So I did that will.
She said she minds, but it' s great as long as I pick her up. I said that' s alright, I can do this. I wasn' t planning on this response though. Is this a red flag? It' h not really a money thing for me personally. I can afford it, but I think it gives insight into their personality and what they might anticipate in the future.
I haven' t been on a date in the while and I' meters going regardless, but would like to know some opinons.
Revise: We just had like a two hour phone call. We didn' t bring up the particular paying again. Neither did she. We just talked about some mutual interests. I' m still going to pick her up in the morning and we' re still going to brunch. But since we had this conversation and I' meters more comfortable with her now, I think I wouldn' t mind paying for the whole thing.
Also this really blew upward. My phone won' big t stop vibrating with replies. Wasn' t expecting this. I' ll try to reading more of the replies after the date maybe. Thank you for all your opinions!
Edit: If these notifications keep coming around date time, I might have to remove the post lol… or uninstall Reddit for a bit.