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True but she did lie to him about wanting another kid. Most likely because she knew how much he wanted one and didn’t want him to leave if she told the truth that she didn’t.
Completely agreed! I helped my sister's disabled friend once with bathroom stuffs when she came to our home (play dates as kids), and it was the absolute least sexual thing I have ever done in my life. It was just helping someone in need of help. OP's girlfriend has a really twisted mind to be coming up with this stuff. Disabled people struggle and often rely on family and friends for that extra support, and there is nothing sexual or creepy about that. She needs to get her head out of the gutter!
just putting this in bold to make sure OP sees it. What an awful reaction to your father dying. It says a lot about their relationship. Your poor mother!
So I could be misreading this, but presumably you’re arguing about something right? Something you want him to do differently or something he wants you to do differently or some misunderstanding. So if he’s asking what you want from him, it sounds like he’s asking you to articulate clearly what you want him to do differently. Would behavior or change would end the argument. Saying “I just want us to be okay” isn’t really a helpful response if what he’s asking is for specifics about the way you envision your relationship
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True but she did lie to him about wanting another kid. Most likely because she knew how much he wanted one and didn’t want him to leave if she told the truth that she didn’t.
Completely agreed! I helped my sister's disabled friend once with bathroom stuffs when she came to our home (play dates as kids), and it was the absolute least sexual thing I have ever done in my life. It was just helping someone in need of help. OP's girlfriend has a really twisted mind to be coming up with this stuff. Disabled people struggle and often rely on family and friends for that extra support, and there is nothing sexual or creepy about that. She needs to get her head out of the gutter!
my jaw dropped when I read she wants to keep it because it was “sent by god.”
I’m so sorry your wife was assaulted OP. I hope she gets the help she needs. therapy is definitely something she should consider
Mushrooms are used as a form of therapy now
she was a bit relieved when he died
just putting this in bold to make sure OP sees it. What an awful reaction to your father dying. It says a lot about their relationship. Your poor mother!
So I could be misreading this, but presumably you’re arguing about something right? Something you want him to do differently or something he wants you to do differently or some misunderstanding. So if he’s asking what you want from him, it sounds like he’s asking you to articulate clearly what you want him to do differently. Would behavior or change would end the argument. Saying “I just want us to be okay” isn’t really a helpful response if what he’s asking is for specifics about the way you envision your relationship